Current Events > Are there really 20 year olds that date 40 year olds in big cities?

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Hinakuluiau posted...

Manipulative men who are not looking for an equal

Men and women aren't equal in relationships. Infact for traditional gender roles(which many women are still apart of) they often cite that they want their man to take charge, to be the "man of the house". There are certain things women look for in a man, and what men look for in a women. If a woman is seeking someone who makes more money than her, is taller than her, takes control, then how..is she equal?

and men who date women in their 20's aren't manipulative. Men prefer younger women because they tend to look their best. Men value women who are good looking, and who take care of themselves. Beauty and youth, where around the 20's people usually look the best. As you hit 30's and 40's, people degrade in looks.

As men get older: Even if they become worse looking, they make more money as they get older. Get in higher positions in life and have more power/status.

If a man is 50 years old, you can't dictate he should date a 50 year old woman and compare him to a predator because he wants to date a 30 year old.

This isn't even a debate: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3253726/
Conclusions

This literally proves nothing.What evidence have you shown that a male who is 30 will lose the ability to have children?

bsp77 posted...

That's not intelligible

To recap:
Mr Red Pill says men only want hot women. I respond that only men who want a bangmaid want that, a man who wants a partner will have higher expectations than that. You reply to that comment by saying how your fiancee has career success and getting upset about me generalizing straight men.
But the thing is, I'm not. If a man only wants to date a hot woman and doesn't care if she's failing in life, then he is looking for someone he can control.
Mr Red Pill above wants a girl who'll cook, clean, and handle all the childcare so that he can just fuck her whenever he wants. If that doesn't apply to you then don't take offense to it, only someone who is not looking for a 50/50 relationship would get upset by that.

Hinakuluiau posted...

To recap:
Mr Red Pill says men only want hot women. I respond that only men who want a bangmaid want that, a man who wants a partner will have higher expectations than that. You reply to that comment by saying how your fiancee has career success and getting upset about me generalizing straight men.
But the thing is, I'm not. If a man only wants to date a hot woman and doesn't care if she's failing in life, then he is looking for someone he can control.
Mr Red Pill above wants a girl who'll cook, clean, and handle all the childcare so that he can just fuck her whenever he wants. If that doesn't apply to you then don't take offense to it, only someone who is not looking for a 50/50 relationship would get upset by that.

Wrong. Men want women who are easy on the eyes. Which means someone who is good looking(good looking/=/hot). Good looks are often attributed with youth

For men, looks are the first thing that comes to mind as most men are visual creatures. Everything else (personality, goals) comes after.

Men and women are not the same.

Hinakuluiau posted...

To recap:
Mr Red Pill says men only want hot women. I respond that only men who want a bangmaid want that, a man who wants a partner will have higher expectations than that. You reply to that comment by saying how your fiancee has career success and getting upset about me generalizing straight men.
But the thing is, I'm not. If a man only wants to date a hot woman and doesn't care if she's failing in life, then he is looking for someone he can control.
Mr Red Pill above wants a girl who'll cook, clean, and handle all the childcare so that he can just fuck her whenever he wants. If that doesn't apply to you then don't take offense to it, only someone who is not looking for a 50/50 relationship would get upset by that.

I honestly did not understand your comment. Look back, it is a fragment and may be lacking a comma. And was I the plural "gentlemen"? It didn't make sense.

Regardless, what you just wrote above is completely true. Crow is wrong. Always has been and always will be.

I shouldn't have to defend myself, but I appreciate that many people here think I am a good dude and it is because I am an open book. All I ever wanted is a 50/50 partner. She may be a lot younger, but we split cooking, cleaning and both make good money. I am not marrying her because she is young. I am marrying her because she is awesome and the best thing that has ever happened to me (other than my kids).

I was messed up after my divorce because I was with my ex from 19 to 40, and never experienced my 20s and 30s. So I went out and made a bunch of younger friends because that is where I was in life. My fiance was one of those friends and eventually we realized there was something there.

You can generalize all you want, but I don't fit it. And many others do not as well.

You're smoking dust if you're under the belief that they're so few women over 30 that look good that you have to limit your search to those only in their 20s

BeantownHero posted...

You're smoking dust if you're under the belief that they're so few women over 30 that look good that you have to limit your search to those only in their 20s

There is literally nothing wrong with dating or looking for women who are in their 22-25 year old stage.

Women in that stage
A. Pay their own bills
B. Are more matured
C.Are still physically fit/more healthy
D. Generally look better compared to someone who is older
E. Have their own jobs/
F. Have their own career

Sounds like sexism to try to imply that a 25 year old or 26 year old woman can't be accomplished or provide for herself. But then try to shame men for not wanting to date someone who is 40 or 50.

You people know nothing about aging and the fact that as you get older, your looks and mental status tends to decrease. I should know. I'm 30 and I was several times more good looking in my early 20's. With age, comes slower metabolism, more health issues, age lines, sagging skin , etc.

Crow0000 posted...

Wrong. Men want women who are easy on the eyes. Which means someone who is good looking(good looking/=/hot). Good looks are often attributed with youth and even average looking women can boost up their appearence with make up.

For men, looks are the first thing that comes to mind as most men are visual creatures. Everything else (personality, goals) comes after.

Men and women are not the same. A 60 year old women will not have as much dating opportunities as a 60 year old man. And a 60 year old woman will have objectively looked better in her 20's or 30's.

Dude, please shut the fuck up. Youre not qualified to be in this discussion.