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Iamdepressed 08/14/23 2:56:05 PM #1: |
Let me preface by saying that I am a guy in my 30s and she is probably 20. Last semester she was in one my classes and we often exchanged friendly banter. We would talk about the class assignments and all was good until she started asking for my homework towards the end of the semester. Then I sort of got mad as I felt manipulated, told her she needed to take accountability for her work, and pretty much ghosted her (I didn't have to take my final so I didn't have to see her). Now she's in my new class. Sitting TWO SEATS IN FRONT. Wtf do I do? I figuratively told this girl that she was a scumbag. I'm pretty sure she noticed me as we exchanged glances. But she didn't smile nor acknowledge me so I did exactly the same. Do I just go on about this semester as if she didn't exist? Sure, I could walk up to her and apologize, but considering I'm much older, I feel like it might be seen as inappropriate. Besides, what if she really hates me? I would only make her feel uncomfortable by approaching her. I should pretend like she doesn't exist right? I really hate the social ****** aspect of college. I wish every student had a cubicle so we wouldn't see each other's faces. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AloneIBreak 08/14/23 2:57:39 PM #2: |
Hows her feet?
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SychopathicRyda 08/14/23 2:57:54 PM #3: |
Just pretend she doesn't exist. Unless you're trying to bang her, why would you need to converse with her again?
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ECW_Originals12 08/14/23 2:58:34 PM #4: |
Go on with your life. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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brestugo 08/14/23 3:02:07 PM #5: |
Unless she's your lab partner, no need to acknowledge this person. Even then, if it happens, just ask for a new partner. "Personal differences", if anyone needs to know.
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CoyoteTheGreat 08/14/23 3:02:41 PM #6: |
Wasn't this the guy who was going to introduce themselves with some weird embarrassing shit? I'm getting the theme of this account now.
Please people, don't make themed troll accounts. This isn't fucking the early 00's. No one wants to see that shit anymore. --- Disobedience is the stamp of the hero. -Ragnar Redbeard Also, this is Kagata.. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MobileProphet 08/14/23 3:06:40 PM #7: |
TC has a weird gimmick.
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Iamdepressed 08/14/23 3:07:58 PM #8: |
CoyoteTheGreat posted... Wasn't this the guy who was going to introduce themselves with some weird embarrassing shit? I'm getting the theme of this account now.Can you please stop with the semantics? I'm having a genuine problem here. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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StealThisSheen 08/14/23 3:14:02 PM #9: |
Keep a distance, but lower your head and stomp your foot in an aggressive manner, so that she realizes that, as the eldest, this is your territory, and she must respect that unless she decides to take it by force.
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Iamdepressed 08/14/23 3:14:24 PM #10: |
SychopathicRyda posted... Just pretend she doesn't exist. Unless you're trying to bang her, why would you need to converse with her again?I guess I want to ease the tension. If this was a guy, I'd probably say something like "Bro, I'm sorry about last semester man. I was just going through a rough time. Hope we cool?" I just don't know what to say to a woman. It's a whole new lingo with them. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JebronLames 08/14/23 3:15:04 PM #11: |
AloneIBreak posted...
Hows her feet?Yeah is she pretty? This is super important. Though it shouldn't be --- "I used to be a people person, then people ruined it" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vampire_Chicken 08/14/23 3:17:02 PM #12: |
StealThisSheen posted...
Keep a distance, but lower your head and stomp your foot in an aggressive manner, so that she realizes that, as the eldest, this is your territory, and she must respect that unless she decides to take it by force.Or you can mark your territory by peeing a circle around your seat. --- All the good usernames were already taken. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pauIie 08/14/23 3:17:03 PM #13: |
Iamdepressed posted...
I guess I want to ease the tension. If this was a guy, I'd probably say something like "Bro, I'm sorry about last semester man. I was just going through a rough time. Hope we cool?"you can say the same thing to her. i call my wife bro all the time. --- http://i.imgur.com/O5APL.jpg http://www.last.fm/user/jaeganja ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Plumeofdusk 08/14/23 3:21:16 PM #14: |
pull her hair and then run away giggling ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GuerrillaSoldier 08/14/23 3:21:34 PM #15: |
this is like those UR topics where something imaginary happened and we're asked how to judge the situation
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Sandalorn 08/14/23 3:23:49 PM #16: |
Iamdepressed posted...
I'm having a genuine problem here. No. No you don't. --- Posted under Ellesarian in a past life. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Iamdepressed 08/14/23 3:27:40 PM #17: |
pauIie posted... you can say the same thing to her. i call my wife bro all the time.Well, that's because she's your wife and you've already established that boundary of comfort. I just feel so overwhelmed about this. This is so nerve wrecking. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 08/14/23 3:31:48 PM #18: |
This isn't a problem at all. Chill
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pauIie 08/14/23 3:36:08 PM #19: |
Iamdepressed posted...
Well, that's because she's your wife and you've already established that boundary of comfort.say it without the bro man stuff I'm sorry about last semester. I was just going through a rough time. Hope we cool? a geniune apology could go a long way --- http://i.imgur.com/O5APL.jpg http://www.last.fm/user/jaeganja ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DKBananaSlamma 08/14/23 3:36:41 PM #20: |
How's her boobs?
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ai123 08/14/23 3:37:48 PM #21: |
Keep your distance, be polite if she speaks to you.
You don't have to interact with every single person in your class. --- You'll see motivational pictures about working hundred hour weeks/Well, it only applies to those who are operating at a really basic level ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Trumpo 08/14/23 4:26:13 PM #23: |
AloneIBreak posted...
Hows her feet?Asking the important question --- Lancool II | Z690 Tomahawk |12700K | Fuma 2 | RTX 3070Ti | 16GB 3600MHz | FireCuda 530 1TB | Inland NVMe 1TB | RM750x ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 08/14/23 4:29:52 PM #24: |
CoyoteTheGreat posted...
Wasn't this the guy who was going to introduce themselves with some weird embarrassing shit? I'm getting the theme of this account now.Yeah this persons whole shtick is that theyre a creepy old dude in an undergrad program --- BLACK LIVES MATTER Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Shamino 08/14/23 4:35:55 PM #25: |
Why do you sit two seats behind her? If there isn't assigned seating go sit somewhere else farther away.
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Iamdepressed 08/14/23 5:30:14 PM #26: |
TheGoldenEel posted... Yeah this persons whole shtick is that theyre a creepy old dude in an undergrad programBut I am that creepy old dude in an undergrad program. Sadly, this is no gimmick. What do I have to gain from this? I just need some honest advice. Seriously. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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manhookcardoor 08/14/23 5:31:53 PM #27: |
People are finally realizing this is a gimmick?
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Sandalorn 08/14/23 6:32:35 PM #28: |
Iamdepressed posted...
But I am that creepy old dude in an undergrad program. Sadly, this is no gimmick. What do I have to gain from this? I just need some honest advice. Seriously. You're an adult male that needs help finding a seat away from another person? Ummm...OK. So when you see this person sitting in her seat....walk away from where she is sitting and then sit in that seat. Hope that helped this truly complicated life puzzle. --- Posted under Ellesarian in a past life. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 08/14/23 6:33:42 PM #29: |
CoyoteTheGreat posted... Wasn't this the guy who was going to introduce themselves with some weird embarrassing shit? I'm getting the theme of this account now. what the fuck a talking dog ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bugmeat 08/14/23 6:36:56 PM #30: |
manhookcardoor posted...
People are finally realizing this is a gimmick? I just assume that all of you are gimmicks or liars and I play along with it because it's fun. --- "You know, it's not a bad name really, you know? Um, because diarrhea just kind of flows off the tongue, you know? Diarrhea Jones, yeah." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Iamdepressed 08/14/23 6:42:49 PM #31: |
Sandalorn posted... You're an adult male that needs help finding a seat away from another person?Well the thing is...it's not a big classroom. Even if I sit apart, I'll still be a couple feet away. How about this tactic: I casually walk up to her and ask if she got an A, like "please tell me you got an A for last class?" Then I'll see her reaction and if she playfully says yes like she's relieved, then I'll continue on with the convo like our prior dispute never happened. However if she seems angry or disgusted, I don't know how I would respond after asking if she got an A? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hornswoggled 08/14/23 6:46:51 PM #32: |
Why do people on this forum love these mundane larps? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sandalorn 08/14/23 6:50:19 PM #33: |
Iamdepressed posted...
Well the thing is...it's not a big classroom. Even if I sit apart, I'll still be a couple feet away. Like I actually fucking care what you do inside your mind where this all takes place. Just hope whatever actually is going on in your life where you need this attention gets better so you don't have to do this. --- Posted under Ellesarian in a past life. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Despised 08/14/23 6:55:11 PM #34: |
Why would you apologize, or even care?
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R_Jackal 08/14/23 6:58:23 PM #35: |
Just don't care. You'll probably never see her again after after classes/college/whatever. If you get some sort of group work style stuff with her, just do the work and be honest if she spite sabotages. It sounds harsh but she'll probably be wholly inconsequential to your life and you'll likely be done interacting with her after the classes. If it's a nothing argument it'll blow over, if not, oh well. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Iamdepressed 08/14/23 6:59:33 PM #36: |
Sandalorn posted... Like I actually fucking care what you do inside your mind where this all takes place. Just hope whatever actually is going on in your life where you need this attention gets better so you don't have to do this.Why are you so mean? This is real btw. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Iamdepressed 08/14/23 7:00:30 PM #37: |
R_Jackal posted... Just don't care. You'll probably never see her again after after classes/college/whatever. If you get some sort of group work style stuff with her, just do the work and be honest if she spite sabotages.Thank you for this. This is the advice I needed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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