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SlamVook 09/20/23 10:59:19 AM #1:	I was around downtown the other day and came across a female acquaintance of mine. We approached each other to say hi and kiss in the cheeks (Not in the US in case that might be a bit off for a few people) but for some odd reason i ended up giving her a kiss in the lips. She looked a bit surprised but took it lightly and said "Hey, You got the wrong Steph" and laughed a bit (Explanation: Both my girlfriend and this girl are called Stephanie, they dont know each other in person but this girl knows im taken and my girlfriend does know i have a friend called Stephanie just like her) I kinda apologized and changed the subject, we kept talking for around 15 minutes and then parted our ways. Should i stay silent about this? Or tell my girl? I mean i could just stay silent, this girl is pretty chill and in the off chance she comes across my girl, i dont think she would sell me out, but in the other hand, girls tend to find out what you did, one way or another, its pretty scary. I wouldnt have a problem telling her because she is not a jealous girls and neither i am, i could just tell her in a funny way, but you know there are certains "incidents" that girls tend to keep in their minds forever and this could be one of those situations, like she might never forget about this... What would you do if you were me, Fellow CEmen? --- I think that dude was a dude, dude! <cite>SlamVook posted [p:976191822] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>I was around downtown the other day and came across a female acquaintance of mine. We approached each other to say hi and kiss in the cheeks (Not in the US in case that might be a bit off for a few people) but for some odd reason i ended up giving her a kiss in the lips.She looked a bit surprised but took it lightly and said "Hey, You got the wrong Steph" and laughed a bit (Explanation: Both my girlfriend and this girl are called Stephanie, they dont know each other in person but this girl knows im taken and my girlfriend does know i have a friend called Stephanie just like her)I kinda apologized and changed the subject, we kept talking for around 15 minutes and then parted our ways.Should i stay silent about this? Or tell my girl? I mean i could just stay silent, this girl is pretty chill and in the off chance she comes across my girl, i dont think she would sell me out, but in the other hand, girls tend to find out what you did, one way or another, its pretty scary.I wouldnt have a problem telling her because she is not a jealous girls and neither i am, i could just tell her in a funny way, but you know there are certains "incidents" that girls tend to keep in their minds forever and this could be one of those situations, like she might never forget about this...What would you do if you were me, Fellow CEmen? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smackems 09/20/23 11:00:12 AM #2:	Threesome --- Common sense says it may not taste good, but it'll make a turd. <cite>Smackems posted [p:976191837] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Threesome </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dat_Cracka_Jax 09/20/23 11:00:59 AM #3:	No reason to ever mention it again --- http://img826.imageshack.us/img826/8131/flame201010170949481638.jpg http://img705.imageshack.us/img705/5517/cateyes.gif Rams: 7-9 <cite>Dat_Cracka_Jax posted [p:976191852] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>No reason to ever mention it again </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
itcheyness 09/20/23 11:03:47 AM #4:	Do they know each other? If there's a chance of her bringing it up to your girlfriend as a "funny story" you may want to do it first. --- Seattle Sounders 10-8-6 36pts 261 Refugee <cite>itcheyness posted [p:976191907] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Do they know each other?If there's a chance of her bringing it up to your girlfriend as a "funny story" you may want to do it first. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Robot2600 09/20/23 11:10:37 AM #5:	what country? --- --- <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:976192023] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>what country? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 09/20/23 11:11:07 AM #6:	NO. --- You're never ever fully dressed without a smile! <cite>Cocytus posted [p:976192032] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>NO. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SayHeyyShohei 09/20/23 11:13:49 AM #7:	Tell your GF. Treat it as a test. If she gets upset and angry over an innocuous mistake instead of laughing at you and making fun of you for it, you dodged a bullet. --- Welcome to the Twilight Zone <cite>SayHeyyShohei posted [p:976192103] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Tell your GF. Treat it as a test. If she gets upset and angry over an innocuous mistake instead of laughing at you and making fun of you for it, you dodged a bullet. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pedro45 09/20/23 11:15:03 AM #8:	Why did you kiss her? Otherwise, I'd tell her in a very casual way. "Hey honey. Can you imagine, i kissed the wrong person today? Even Stephanie mentioned it. IDK how it happened, but we laughed it off and kept chatting." --- Warning: Sometimes biased http://i.imgur.com/V0x5fw8.jpg http://i.imgur.com/IOovUge.gif http://i.imgur.com/zw7bqPH.jpg <cite>pedro45 posted [p:976192123] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Why did you kiss her?Otherwise, I'd tell her in a very casual way. "Hey honey. Can you imagine, i kissed the wrong person today? Even Stephanie mentioned it. IDK how it happened, but we laughed it off and kept chatting." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Goldenguy 09/20/23 11:18:28 AM #10:	Sounds like France perhaps? I know it's custom there sometimes to kiss on alternating cheeks as sort of a hello. I was wondering how one accidentally kisses but this kind of makes sense. Honestly, that's a 50/50 to me. If it remains between you and wrong Steph I'd say just let it be since there was no intent behind it. --- Quick to judge, quick to anger, slow to understand. Ignorance, prejudice, and fear walk hand in hand. <cite>Goldenguy posted [p:976192200] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like France perhaps? I know it's custom there sometimes to kiss on alternating cheeks as sort of a hello. I was wondering how one accidentally kisses but this kind of makes sense.Honestly, that's a 50/50 to me. If it remains between you and wrong Steph I'd say just let it be since there was no intent behind it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 09/20/23 11:20:21 AM #11:	SayHeyyShohei posted... Tell your GF. Treat it as a test. If she gets upset and angry over an innocuous mistake instead of laughing at you and making fun of you for it, you dodged a bullet. Why even bother testing someone like this in the first place? Playing these sorts of games with people is a behavior that's toxic in and of itself. --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:976192241] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>SayHeyyShohei posted... </cite><quote>Tell your GF. Treat it as a test. If she gets upset and angry over an innocuous mistake instead of laughing at you and making fun of you for it, you dodged a bullet.</quote>Why even bother testing someone like this in the first place? Playing these sorts of games with people is a behavior that's toxic in and of itself. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TimeForAction 09/20/23 11:20:45 AM #12:	Dat_Cracka_Jax posted... No reason to ever mention it again this. I was expecting a I got wasted and accidentally made out with another girl type post. This was just an awkward encounter that doesnt need to go further. If you tell her shell say its fine, but it wont be. Itll be brought up out of nowhere when you two are having an argument months down the road <cite>TimeForAction posted [p:976192245] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Dat_Cracka_Jax posted... </cite><quote>No reason to ever mention it again</quote>this. I was expecting a I got wasted and accidentally made out with another girl type post. This was just an awkward encounter that doesnt need to go further. If you tell her shell say its fine, but it wont be. Itll be brought up out of nowhere when you two are having an argument months down the road </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SayHeyyShohei 09/20/23 11:21:11 AM #13:	A_Good_Boy posted... Why even bother testing someone like this in the first place? Playing these sorts of games with people is a behavior that's toxic in and of itself. It's not toxic to tell the truth. --- Welcome to the Twilight Zone <cite>SayHeyyShohei posted [p:976192253] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>Why even bother testing someone like this in the first place? Playing these sorts of games with people is a behavior that's toxic in and of itself.</quote>It's not toxic to tell the truth. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/20/23 11:21:47 AM #14:	It was a funny accident. Just tell her. It shouldn't be an issue. --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976192265] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>It was a funny accident. Just tell her. It shouldn't be an issue. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pedro45 09/20/23 11:22:25 AM #15:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I get that. This sounds more than a casual greeting. If it was innocent, IDK if this topic would be made. --- Warning: Sometimes biased http://i.imgur.com/V0x5fw8.jpg http://i.imgur.com/IOovUge.gif http://i.imgur.com/zw7bqPH.jpg <cite>pedro45 posted [p:976192284] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I get that. This sounds more than a casual greeting. If it was innocent, IDK if this topic would be made. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SayHeyyShohei 09/20/23 11:23:13 AM #16:	pedro45 posted... I get that. This sounds more than a casual greeting. If it was innocent, IDK if this topic would be made. --- Welcome to the Twilight Zone <cite>SayHeyyShohei posted [p:976192302] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>pedro45 posted... </cite><quote>I get that. This sounds more than a casual greeting. If it was innocent, IDK if this topic would be made.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/20/23 11:26:30 AM #17:	TimeForAction posted... This was just an awkward encounter that doesnt need to go further. If you tell her shell say its fine, but it wont be. Itll be brought up out of nowhere when you two are having an argument months down the road Sounds like you know petty women. This should not be the norm. --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976192352] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>TimeForAction posted... </cite><quote>This was just an awkward encounter that doesnt need to go further. If you tell her shell say its fine, but it wont be. Itll be brought up out of nowhere when you two are having an argument months down the road</quote>Sounds like you know petty women. This should not be the norm. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turbam 09/20/23 11:27:11 AM #18:	You may as well tell her, it was an accident but it seems to be weighing on your mind. Might as well get it out there. --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs <cite>Turbam posted [p:976192366] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>You may as well tell her, it was an accident but it seems to be weighing on your mind. Might as well get it out there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jeff_AKA_Snoopy 09/20/23 11:28:01 AM #19:	I kissed a girl by accident I hope my girlfriend don't mind it. --- https://i.imgur.com/GWG5c3r.gif <cite>Jeff_AKA_Snoopy posted [p:976192383] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>I kissed a girl by accidentI hope my girlfriend don't mind it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DKBananaSlamma 09/20/23 11:30:08 AM #20:	Take it to your grave, as long as it was an accident and won't happen again >_> Nothing good would come out of it --- Neon >_> <cite>DKBananaSlamma posted [p:976192418] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Take it to your grave, as long as it was an accident and won't happen again >_> Nothing good would come out of it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
C_Pain 09/20/23 11:30:13 AM #21:	I wouldn't mention it. --- How quaint. <cite>C_Pain posted [p:976192422] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>I wouldn't mention it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
David1988 09/20/23 11:32:20 AM #22:	You know what to do, an answer has already been given. --- "The age of men is over, the time of women have come" - God <cite>David1988 posted [p:976192462] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>You know what to do, an answer has already been given. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 09/20/23 11:33:26 AM #23:	SayHeyyShohei posted... It's not toxic to tell the truth. Merely telling the truth wasn't the intent behind your message though. --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:976192483] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>SayHeyyShohei posted... </cite><quote>It's not toxic to tell the truth.</quote>Merely telling the truth wasn't the intent behind your message though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 09/20/23 11:36:03 AM #24:	Simplest way I can analyze this: Do you feel guilty over this? Do you feel you can discuss anything with your gf? If the answer is yes to both, then I feel a frank conversation with her might be the best policy. And explain all of it, including your own guilt and how you felt bad leaving her out of it. --- CyricZ He/him http://twitch.tv/cyricz42 <cite>CyricZ posted [p:976192526] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Simplest way I can analyze this:Do you feel guilty over this?Do you feel you can discuss anything with your gf?If the answer is yes to both, then I feel a frank conversation with her might be the best policy.And explain all of it, including your own guilt and how you felt bad leaving her out of it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SayHeyyShohei 09/20/23 11:36:13 AM #25:	A_Good_Boy posted... Merely telling the truth wasn't the intent behind your message though. The right thing to do is to tell the truth. And shouldn't he know if the woman he's with is toxic enough to throw a relationship away over an innocuous mistake? All the people saying to hide it either have been in too many toxic relationships or don't know how to treat your significant other. --- Welcome to the Twilight Zone <cite>SayHeyyShohei posted [p:976192530] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>Merely telling the truth wasn't the intent behind your message though.</quote>The right thing to do is to tell the truth. And shouldn't he know if the woman he's with is toxic enough to throw a relationship away over an innocuous mistake?All the people saying to hide it either have been in too many toxic relationships or don't know how to treat your significant other. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/20/23 11:37:20 AM #26:	CyricZ posted... Simplest way I can analyze this: 1. Do you feel guilty over this? 2. Do you feel you can discuss anything with your gf? If the answer is yes to both, then I feel a frank conversation with her might be the best policy. And explain all of it, including your own guilt and how you felt bad leaving her out of it. That sounds really heavy over a stupid little accident. This isn't a big deal at all. --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976192548] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite><quote>Simplest way I can analyze this:1. Do you feel guilty over this?2. Do you feel you can discuss anything with your gf?If the answer is yes to both, then I feel a frank conversation with her might be the best policy.And explain all of it, including your own guilt and how you felt bad leaving her out of it.</quote>That sounds really heavy over a stupid little accident. This isn't a big deal at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 09/20/23 11:39:03 AM #27:	SayHeyyShohei posted... The right thing to do is to tell the truth. And shouldn't he know if the woman he's with is toxic enough to throw a relationship away over an innocuous mistake? All the people saying to hide it either have been in too many toxic relationships or don't know how to treat your significant other. He should tell the truth for the sake of clearing his own conscious because he feels guilty about the accident. You said he should tell the truth to test his relationship. Those are two entirely different intents, and the intent that you chose is the toxic one. --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:976192589] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>SayHeyyShohei posted... </cite><quote>The right thing to do is to tell the truth. And shouldn't he know if the woman he's with is toxic enough to throw a relationship away over an innocuous mistake?All the people saying to hide it either have been in too many toxic relationships or don't know how to treat your significant other.</quote>He should tell the truth for the sake of clearing his own conscious because he feels guilty about the accident. You said he should tell the truth to test his relationship. Those are two entirely different intents, and the intent that you chose is the toxic one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SayHeyyShohei 09/20/23 11:40:48 AM #28:	A_Good_Boy posted... He should tell the truth for the sake of clearing his own conscious because he feels guilty about the accident. You said he should tell the truth to test his relationship. Those are two entirely different intents, and the intent that you chose is the toxic one. They aren't mutually exclusive... Do you like arguing for the sake of arguing? --- Welcome to the Twilight Zone <cite>SayHeyyShohei posted [p:976192631] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>He should tell the truth for the sake of clearing his own conscious because he feels guilty about the accident. You said he should tell the truth to test his relationship. Those are two entirely different intents, and the intent that you chose is the toxic one.</quote>They aren't mutually exclusive...Do you like arguing for the sake of arguing? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 09/20/23 11:44:36 AM #29:	SayHeyyShohei posted... They aren't mutually exclusive... Do you like arguing for the sake of arguing? Meh, just another pointless alt that won't make it past the month. --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:976192708] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>SayHeyyShohei posted... </cite><quote>They aren't mutually exclusive...Do you like arguing for the sake of arguing?</quote>Meh, just another pointless alt that won't make it past the month. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
angeleyes94 09/20/23 11:44:39 AM #30:	SlamVook posted... I was around downtown the other day and came across a female acquaintance of mine. We approached each other to say hi and kiss in the cheeks (Not in the US in case that might be a bit off for a few people) but for some odd reason i ended up giving her a kiss in the lips. She looked a bit surprised but took it lightly and said "Hey, You got the wrong Steph" and laughed a bit (Explanation: Both my girlfriend and this girl are called Stephanie, they dont know each other in person but this girl knows im taken and my girlfriend does know i have a friend called Stephanie just like her) I kinda apologized and changed the subject, we kept talking for around 15 minutes and then parted our ways. Should i stay silent about this? Or tell my girl? I mean i could just stay silent, this girl is pretty chill and in the off chance she comes across my girl, i dont think she would sell me out, but in the other hand, girls tend to find out what you did, one way or another, its pretty scary. I wouldnt have a problem telling her because she is not a jealous girls and neither i am, i could just tell her in a funny way, but you know there are certains "incidents" that girls tend to keep in their minds forever and this could be one of those situations, like she might never forget about this... What would you do if you were me, Fellow CEmen? This is very grave my dear boy, very grave indeed. Fret not you've come to the right person, as your penance you must kiss 10 different b holes. Make haste my dear boy for should you fail, you may get a firey red hot poker in your underside while you burn in the firey pits of hell! Forever? --- You aren't even really reading my posts; you're just staring at your e-mail client and fondly reminiscing about that hobo you stabbed to death. :P <cite>angeleyes94 posted [p:976192709] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>SlamVook posted...</cite><quote>I was around downtown the other day and came across a female acquaintance of mine. We approached each other to say hi and kiss in the cheeks (Not in the US in case that might be a bit off for a few people) but for some odd reason i ended up giving her a kiss in the lips.She looked a bit surprised but took it lightly and said "Hey, You got the wrong Steph" and laughed a bit (Explanation: Both my girlfriend and this girl are called Stephanie, they dont know each other in person but this girl knows im taken and my girlfriend does know i have a friend called Stephanie just like her)I kinda apologized and changed the subject, we kept talking for around 15 minutes and then parted our ways.Should i stay silent about this? Or tell my girl? I mean i could just stay silent, this girl is pretty chill and in the off chance she comes across my girl, i dont think she would sell me out, but in the other hand, girls tend to find out what you did, one way or another, its pretty scary.I wouldnt have a problem telling her because she is not a jealous girls and neither i am, i could just tell her in a funny way, but you know there are certains "incidents" that girls tend to keep in their minds forever and this could be one of those situations, like she might never forget about this...What would you do if you were me, Fellow CEmen?</quote>This is very grave my dear boy, very grave indeed. Fret not you've come to the right person, as your penance you must kiss 10 different b holes. Make haste my dear boy for should you fail, you may get a firey red hot poker in your underside while you burn in the firey pits of hell! Forever? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SayHeyyShohei 09/20/23 11:45:00 AM #31:	A_Good_Boy posted... Meh, just another pointless alt that won't make it past the month. What is your issue dude? --- Welcome to the Twilight Zone <cite>SayHeyyShohei posted [p:976192713] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>Meh, just another pointless alt that won't make it past the month.</quote>What is your issue dude? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shamino 09/20/23 11:45:49 AM #32:	SayHeyyShohei posted... It's not toxic to tell the truth. It is when there's no reason to and it will only hurt and burden the other person unnecessarily. Keep quiet TC, it's your "Cross" to hear. --- Nintendrone/PC Elitist 16 GB 6700k RTX 3080 Cards/Suns/'Yotes/Diamondbacks/ASU Fan <cite>Shamino posted [p:976192729] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>SayHeyyShohei posted... </cite><quote>It's not toxic to tell the truth.</quote>It is when there's no reason to and it will only hurt and burden the other person unnecessarily.Keep quiet TC, it's your "Cross" to hear. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SayHeyyShohei 09/20/23 11:47:56 AM #33:	Shamino posted... It is when there's no reason to and it will only hurt and burden the other person unnecessarily. Keep quiet TC, it's your "Cross" to hear. Why would it hurt and burden her if it's an innocuous mistake? She sounds toxic if she gets bothered by that nonsense. --- Welcome to the Twilight Zone <cite>SayHeyyShohei posted [p:976192767] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Shamino posted... </cite><quote>It is when there's no reason to and it will only hurt and burden the other person unnecessarily.Keep quiet TC, it's your "Cross" to hear.</quote>Why would it hurt and burden her if it's an innocuous mistake? She sounds toxic if she gets bothered by that nonsense. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/20/23 11:49:04 AM #34:	Shamino posted... It is when there's no reason to and it will only hurt and burden the other person unnecessarily. How will it hurt her? This is a culture where cheek kissing is normal and they accidently kissed on the lips because of I assume bad positioning. Big fucking deal. --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976192803] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Shamino posted... </cite><quote>It is when there's no reason to and it will only hurt and burden the other person unnecessarily.</quote>How will it hurt her? This is a culture where cheek kissing is normal and they accidently kissed on the lips because of I assume bad positioning. Big fucking deal. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Robot2600 09/20/23 11:50:24 AM #35:	it's not france. french ppl would nvr think a peck on the lips between friends was weird --- --- <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:976192826] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>it's not france. french ppl would nvr think a peck on the lips between friends was weird </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pauIie 09/20/23 11:50:38 AM #36:	A_Good_Boy posted... Why even bother testing someone like this in the first place? Playing these sorts of games with people is a behavior that's toxic in and of itself. telling someone the truth about a thing that actually happened isn't a game. --- http://i.imgur.com/O5APL.jpg http://www.last.fm/user/jaeganja <cite>pauIie posted [p:976192835] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>Why even bother testing someone like this in the first place? Playing these sorts of games with people is a behavior that's toxic in and of itself.</quote>telling someone the truth about a thing that actually happened isn't a game. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sariana21 09/20/23 11:52:41 AM #37:	I would be inclined to tell her because Im cynical and would assume someone had a cell phone camera and why give anyone else a chance to frame the narrative instead of you? --- ___ Sari, Mom to DS (07/04) and DD (01/08); Pronouns: she/her/hers <cite>Sariana21 posted [p:976192869] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>I would be inclined to tell her because Im cynical and would assume someone had a cell phone camera and why give anyone else a chance to frame the narrative instead of you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shamino 09/20/23 11:53:06 AM #38:	bsp77 posted... How will it hurt her? This is a culture where cheek kissing is normal and they accidently kissed on the lips because of I assume bad positioning. Big fucking deal. If it wasn't a big deal TC wouldn't have posted to begin with. --- Nintendrone/PC Elitist 16 GB 6700k RTX 3080 Cards/Suns/'Yotes/Diamondbacks/ASU Fan <cite>Shamino posted [p:976192880] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite><quote>How will it hurt her? This is a culture where cheek kissing is normal and they accidently kissed on the lips because of I assume bad positioning. Big fucking deal.</quote>If it wasn't a big deal TC wouldn't have posted to begin with. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Robot2600 09/20/23 11:54:06 AM #39:	tc made up this story yall --- --- <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:976192894] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>tc made up this story yall </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/20/23 11:54:36 AM #40:	Shamino posted... If it wasn't a big deal TC wouldn't have posted to begin with. I think TC is blowing it out of proportion. If he thinks she will be upset, then I question their relationship. Either she has issues or he has done things to make her that way. --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976192903] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Shamino posted... </cite><quote>If it wasn't a big deal TC wouldn't have posted to begin with.</quote>I think TC is blowing it out of proportion. If he thinks she will be upset, then I question their relationship. Either she has issues or he has done things to make her that way. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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chaos_knight 09/20/23 11:55:09 AM #42:	Don't say shit. --- Seattle Seahawks Super Bowl XLVIII Champions <cite>chaos_knight posted [p:976192916] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Don't say shit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 09/20/23 11:55:23 AM #43:	pauIie posted... telling someone the truth about a thing that actually happened isn't a game. It is when your intent behind telling the truth is to make a game out of your relationship because you want to test your partner. --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:976192924] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>pauIie posted... </cite><quote>telling someone the truth about a thing that actually happened isn't a game.</quote>It is when your intent behind telling the truth is to make a game out of your relationship because you want to test your partner. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
David1988 09/20/23 11:55:42 AM #44:	Robot2600 posted... tc made up this story yall prove it --- "The age of men is over, the time of women have come" - God <cite>David1988 posted [p:976192934] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>Robot2600 posted... </cite><quote>tc made up this story yall</quote>prove it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SayHeyyShohei 09/20/23 11:57:04 AM #45:	A_Good_Boy posted... It is when your intent behind telling the truth is to make a game out of your relationship because you want to test your partner. No one is making a game dude. I don't know why you're so hung up on this. --- Welcome to the Twilight Zone <cite>SayHeyyShohei posted [p:976192959] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>It is when your intent behind telling the truth is to make a game out of your relationship because you want to test your partner.</quote>No one is making a game dude. I don't know why you're so hung up on this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrPrimemaster 09/20/23 12:04:37 PM #47:	If kissing on tge cheek is a custom id imagine this isnt an exceedingly rare occurence. --- Metroids Suck <cite>DrPrimemaster posted [p:976193102] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>If kissing on tge cheek is a custom id imagine this isnt an exceedingly rare occurence. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 09/20/23 12:06:14 PM #48:	SayHeyyShohei posted... No one is making a game dude. I don't know why you're so hung up on this. SayHeyyShohei posted... Tell your GF. Treat it as a test. Are you absolutely 100% sure about that, despite the fact that you told TC to take this as an opportunity to play manipulative games with his gf? --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:976193119] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>SayHeyyShohei posted... </cite><quote>No one is making a game dude. I don't know why you're so hung up on this.</quote>SayHeyyShohei posted... </cite><quote>Tell your GF. Treat it as a test.</quote>Are you absolutely 100% sure about that, despite the fact that you told TC to take this as an opportunity to play manipulative games with his gf? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pauIie 09/20/23 12:06:58 PM #49:	A_Good_Boy posted... It is when your intent behind telling the truth is to make a game out of your relationship because you want to test your partner. disagree. i don't think it's wanting to test the partner in this case. it happened, and now there are two choices. tell or don't. whatever your intention is, it happened and you will do one of those things - tell or don't. making a game of this would be if he did this on purpose to see if she would be upset about it happening. or something like flirting with another person to see how they react. --- http://i.imgur.com/O5APL.jpg http://www.last.fm/user/jaeganja <cite>pauIie posted [p:976193128] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>It is when your intent behind telling the truth is to make a game out of your relationship because you want to test your partner.</quote>disagree. i don't think it's wanting to test the partner in this case. it happened, and now there are two choices. tell or don't. whatever your intention is, it happened and you will do one of those things - tell or don't. making a game of this would be if he did this on purpose to see if she would be upset about it happening. or something like flirting with another person to see how they react. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/20/23 12:08:55 PM #50:	A_Good_Boy posted... Are you absolutely 100% sure about that, despite the fact that you told TC to take this as an opportunity to play manipulative games with his gf? I viewed it as tell the truth no matter what, but hey you can also find out if she has jealousy issues. Important to know. --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976193177] in I kissed a... [t:80571862]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>Are you absolutely 100% sure about that, despite the fact that you told TC to take this as an opportunity to play manipulative games with his gf?</quote>I viewed it as tell the truth no matter what, but hey you can also find out if she has jealousy issues. Important to know. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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