Current Events > Is going to a strip club for a bachelor party wrong?

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Noname12 09/23/23 3:55:11 PM #1:	Topic - Results (7 votes) Yes 42.86% (3 votes) 3 No 57.14% (4 votes) 4 https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/3/2/AAfeZRAAE3e4.jpg --- Darkprince45 <cite>Noname12 posted [p:976260681] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote> Topic - Results (7 votes) Yes 42.86% (3 votes) 3 No 57.14% (4 votes) 4 Show Voting Form https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/3/2/AAfeZRAAE3e4.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MC_BatCommander 09/23/23 3:56:28 PM #2:	If it violates boundaries set by your significant other then yes, it would be wrong --- The Legend is True! <cite>MC_BatCommander posted [p:976260702] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>If it violates boundaries set by your significant other then yes, it would be wrong </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AldousIsDead 09/23/23 3:56:44 PM #3:	It's fine if she says it is. --- In simplicity, utility. Through utility, simplicity. <cite>AldousIsDead posted [p:976260703] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>It's fine if she says it is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vicious_Dios 09/23/23 3:57:05 PM #4:	If that's all it takes to cancel a planned marriage, then they are both better off. --- S / K / Y / N / E <cite>Vicious_Dios posted [p:976260711] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>If that's all it takes to cancel a planned marriage, then they are both better off. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Giacomo_Hawkins 09/23/23 3:57:37 PM #5:	If the fiance is cool with it, then there's nothing wrong. If the bride is not cool with it but the groom really wants to go, then the groom has just as much cause to reconsider the marriage as the bride because there is clearly a disconnect in priorities. --- Will the little voice in the back of my mind screaming "This is a bad idea" please yield the floor. --Mikey Chivalry be hanged, and so will you. <cite>Giacomo_Hawkins posted [p:976260717] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>If the fiance is cool with it, then there's nothing wrong. If the bride is not cool with it but the groom really wants to go, then the groom has just as much cause to reconsider the marriage as the bride because there is clearly a disconnect in priorities. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lordgold666 09/23/23 5:01:13 PM #6:	If youre with the love of your life, you have zero reason to want to look other women nude --- "May the Father of Understanding guide you." http://error1355.com/ce/Lordgold666.html <cite>Lordgold666 posted [p:976261927] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>If youre with the love of your life, you have zero reason to want to look other women nude </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IceCreamOnStero 09/23/23 5:03:17 PM #7:	Boundaries 101. Ask partner if thing ok. --- Dokkan ID: 2365415872 <cite>IceCreamOnStero posted [p:976261968] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Boundaries 101. Ask partner if thing ok. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tom_Joad 09/23/23 5:07:40 PM #8:	If she going to have a bachelorette party... then she's allowing a bachelor's party. Otherwise she's a shit-tier human being. And the guy's better off without her. --- "History shows again and again that nature points out the folly of man. Go go Godzilla!" Godzilla - Blue Oyster Cult <cite>Tom_Joad posted [p:976262053] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>If she going to have a bachelorette party... then she's allowing a bachelor's party.Otherwise she's a shit-tier human being.And the guy's better off without her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KiwiTerraRizing 09/23/23 5:08:47 PM #9:	If i was her fianc Id cancel the club and bang hookers. --- Trucking Legend Don Schneider! <cite>KiwiTerraRizing posted [p:976262080] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>If i was her fianc Id cancel the club and bang hookers. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 09/23/23 5:09:49 PM #10:	Tom_Joad posted... If she going to have a bachelorette party... then she's allowing a bachelor's party. Otherwise she's a shit-tier human being. And the guy's better off without her. is your world view based on sitcoms or why do you act like a bachelor's party must by definition include a strip club --- https://i.imgur.com/286sD4e.png http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:976262103] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Tom_Joad posted... </cite><quote>If she going to have a bachelorette party... then she's allowing a bachelor's party.Otherwise she's a shit-tier human being.And the guy's better off without her.</quote>is your world view based on sitcoms or why do you act like a bachelor's party must by definition include a strip club </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MC_BatCommander 09/23/23 5:10:11 PM #11:	Tom_Joad posted... If she going to have a bachelorette party... then she's allowing a bachelor's party. Otherwise she's a shit-tier human being. And the guy's better off without her. You can have both parties without the presence of strippers --- The Legend is True! <cite>MC_BatCommander posted [p:976262108] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Tom_Joad posted... </cite><quote>If she going to have a bachelorette party... then she's allowing a bachelor's party.Otherwise she's a shit-tier human being.And the guy's better off without her.</quote>You can have both parties without the presence of strippers </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SiO4 09/23/23 5:12:59 PM #12:	If this is real, which I doubt....Good, he just dodged a bullet. --- "Whatever the reason you're on Mars, I'm glad you're there, and I wish I was with you." ~Carl Sagan. Currently playing: Flight Simulator X.~PC <cite>SiO4 posted [p:976262169] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>If this is real, which I doubt....Good, he just dodged a bullet. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Euripides 09/23/23 5:13:43 PM #13:	Lordgold666 posted... If youre with the love of your life, you have zero reason to want to look other women nude That's simply untrue --- people who car cars a whip are so cringe <cite>Euripides posted [p:976262191] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Lordgold666 posted... </cite><quote>If youre with the love of your life, you have zero reason to want to look other women nude</quote>That's simply untrue </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_A_Battery 09/23/23 5:14:50 PM #14:	It's obvious to anyone with sound nature that it's not okay. <cite>A_A_Battery posted [p:976262218] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>It's obvious to anyone with sound nature that it's not okay.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 09/23/23 5:19:54 PM #15:	While I think it's kinda weird that it's accepted as so normal, my best friend and his wife both got lap dances from strippers at their respective parties before the wedding I'm guessing they cleared it up with each other prior but the guy getting one was pretty awkward to watch --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:976262313] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>While I think it's kinda weird that it's accepted as so normal, my best friend and his wife both got lap dances from strippers at their respective parties before the weddingI'm guessing they cleared it up with each other prior but the guy getting one was pretty awkward to watch </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/23/23 5:20:49 PM #16:	A_A_Battery posted... It's obvious to anyone with sound nature that it's not okay. No, it's not "obvious". Most women I know would have no problem with it, assuming you aren't paying for "extra". I am not doing it for my bachelor party in a couple weeks because I don't care for it, but she wouldn't care if I did. I also said she could have a male stripper btw --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976262333] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>A_A_Battery posted... </cite><quote>It's obvious to anyone with sound nature that it's not okay.</quote>No, it's not "obvious". Most women I know would have no problem with it, assuming you aren't paying for "extra".I am not doing it for my bachelor party in a couple weeks because I don't care for it, but she wouldn't care if I did. I also said she could have a male stripper btw </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KiwiTerraRizing 09/23/23 5:20:51 PM #17:	Lordgold666 posted... If youre with the love of your life, you have zero reason to want to look other women nude Even if you get filet every day sometimes you want a hamburger --- Trucking Legend Don Schneider! <cite>KiwiTerraRizing posted [p:976262334] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Lordgold666 posted... </cite><quote>If youre with the love of your life, you have zero reason to want to look other women nude</quote>Even if you get filet every day sometimes you want a hamburger </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SiO4 09/23/23 5:24:38 PM #18:	KiwiTerraRizing posted... Even if you get filet every day sometimes you want a hamburger https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRXq8TKq-a8 --- "Whatever the reason you're on Mars, I'm glad you're there, and I wish I was with you." ~Carl Sagan. Currently playing: Flight Simulator X.~PC <cite>SiO4 posted [p:976262405] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>KiwiTerraRizing posted...</cite><quote>Even if you get filet every day sometimes you want a hamburger </quote>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRXq8TKq-a8 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Euripides 09/23/23 5:25:58 PM #20:	Imagine thinking that loving one person means forever shunning any other image of a nude woman for the rest of your life --- people who car cars a whip are so cringe <cite>Euripides posted [p:976262431] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Imagine thinking that loving one person means forever shunning any other image of a nude woman for the rest of your life </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tom_Joad 09/23/23 5:26:07 PM #21:	Choco posted... is your world view based on sitcoms or why do you act like a bachelor's party must by definition include a strip club You know that these parties aren't planned by the groom/bride, right? So if your best friend takes you to a topless bar, are you going to say, "Fuck the friend I've had since high school, I'm bailing!" 'Cause if that's your take, you are letting your other dictate who you may or may not have as friends. And you should then ask if she's good with you dictating who her friends will be. --- "History shows again and again that nature points out the folly of man. Go go Godzilla!" Godzilla - Blue Oyster Cult <cite>Tom_Joad posted [p:976262434] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite><quote>is your world view based on sitcoms or why do you act like a bachelor's party must by definition include a strip club</quote>You know that these parties aren't planned by the groom/bride, right?So if your best friend takes you to a topless bar, are you going to say, "Fuck the friend I've had since high school, I'm bailing!"'Cause if that's your take, you are letting your other dictate who you may or may not have as friends. And you should then ask if she's good with you dictating who her friends will be. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pnut027 09/23/23 5:26:18 PM #22:	Lordgold666 posted... If youre with the love of your life, you have zero reason to want to look other women nude Lmao --- If you're not getting promoted, it's not because you're not good at your job. It's because you're good at a ONLY your job. <cite>pnut027 posted [p:976262440] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Lordgold666 posted... </cite><quote>If youre with the love of your life, you have zero reason to want to look other women nude</quote>Lmao </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tenlaar 09/23/23 5:27:06 PM #23:	It depends entirely on the relationship and boundaries that have been set within it, though the "last night of freedom" aspect pretty clearly implies that their partner isn't going to be okay with what they plan on doing. <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:976262460] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>It depends entirely on the relationship and boundaries that have been set within it, though the "last night of freedom" aspect pretty clearly implies that their partner isn't going to be okay with what they plan on doing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tom_Joad 09/23/23 5:27:34 PM #24:	MC_BatCommander posted... You can have both parties without the presence of strippers And you can live a life without sex, too. It doesn't make it worth living, though. --- "History shows again and again that nature points out the folly of man. Go go Godzilla!" Godzilla - Blue Oyster Cult <cite>Tom_Joad posted [p:976262464] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>MC_BatCommander posted... </cite><quote>You can have both parties without the presence of strippers</quote>And you can live a life without sex, too. It doesn't make it worth living, though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zikten 09/23/23 5:29:59 PM #25:	Unless your soon to be wife is OK with stuff like that, I'd say yes. I never really understood the concept of going out and cheating on your wife or looking at naked women, the night before your wedding <cite>Zikten posted [p:976262493] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Unless your soon to be wife is OK with stuff like that, I'd say yes. I never really understood the concept of going out and cheating on your wife or looking at naked women, the night before your wedding</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 09/23/23 5:30:40 PM #26:	Tom_Joad posted... You know that these parties aren't planned by the groom/bride, right? So if your best friend takes you to a topless bar, are you going to say, "Fuck the friend I've had since high school, I'm bailing!" 'Cause if that's your take, you are letting your other dictate who you may or may not have as friends. And you should then ask if she's good with you dictating who her friends will be. what a wild post --- https://i.imgur.com/286sD4e.png http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:976262506] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Tom_Joad posted... </cite><quote>You know that these parties aren't planned by the groom/bride, right?So if your best friend takes you to a topless bar, are you going to say, "Fuck the friend I've had since high school, I'm bailing!"'Cause if that's your take, you are letting your other dictate who you may or may not have as friends. And you should then ask if she's good with you dictating who her friends will be.</quote>what a wild post </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 09/23/23 5:31:54 PM #27:	Tom_Joad posted... And you can live a life without sex, too. It doesn't make it worth living, though. dude how miserable are you if you can't think of anything better to do than going to a strip club for a bachelor's party --- https://i.imgur.com/286sD4e.png http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:976262535] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Tom_Joad posted... </cite><quote>And you can live a life without sex, too. It doesn't make it worth living, though.</quote>dude how miserable are you if you can't think of anything better to do than going to a strip club for a bachelor's party </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IceCreamOnStero 09/23/23 5:33:50 PM #28:	Tom_Joad posted... You know that these parties aren't planned by the groom/bride, right? So if your best friend takes you to a topless bar, are you going to say, "Fuck the friend I've had since high school, I'm bailing!" 'Cause if that's your take, you are letting your other dictate who you may or may not have as friends. And you should then ask if she's good with you dictating who her friends will be. You shouldn't be friends with people who would find it unacceptable if you didn't eant to go to a strip club with them. --- Dokkan ID: 2365415872 <cite>IceCreamOnStero posted [p:976262575] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Tom_Joad posted... </cite><quote>You know that these parties aren't planned by the groom/bride, right?So if your best friend takes you to a topless bar, are you going to say, "Fuck the friend I've had since high school, I'm bailing!"'Cause if that's your take, you are letting your other dictate who you may or may not have as friends. And you should then ask if she's good with you dictating who her friends will be.</quote>You shouldn't be friends with people who would find it unacceptable if you didn't eant to go to a strip club with them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tom_Joad 09/23/23 5:39:02 PM #29:	IceCreamOnStero posted... You shouldn't be friends with people who would find it unacceptable if you didn't eant to go to a strip club with them. Dang, you are really uptight about sex and nudity. It's more fun to enjoy it. Repression just leads to violence. --- "History shows again and again that nature points out the folly of man. Go go Godzilla!" Godzilla - Blue Oyster Cult <cite>Tom_Joad posted [p:976262677] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>IceCreamOnStero posted... </cite><quote>You shouldn't be friends with people who would find it unacceptable if you didn't eant to go to a strip club with them.</quote>Dang, you are really uptight about sex and nudity.It's more fun to enjoy it. Repression just leads to violence. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ironman2009 09/23/23 5:40:53 PM #30:	i probably wouldn't do it, but i'd go if my friends had their party there. --- THRILLHO <cite>ironman2009 posted [p:976262712] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>i probably wouldn't do it, but i'd go if my friends had their party there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IceCreamOnStero 09/23/23 5:41:47 PM #31:	Tom_Joad posted... Dang, you are really uptight about sex and nudity. It's more fun to enjoy it. Repression just leads to violence. Has nothing to do with being uptight. If politely refusing an inviation to a thing puts a strain on your friendship (with your best friend, no less), you need to grow up. --- Dokkan ID: 2365415872 <cite>IceCreamOnStero posted [p:976262735] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Tom_Joad posted... </cite><quote>Dang, you are really uptight about sex and nudity.It's more fun to enjoy it. Repression just leads to violence.</quote>Has nothing to do with being uptight. If politely refusing an inviation to a thing puts a strain on your friendship (with your best friend, no less), you need to grow up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/23/23 6:03:57 PM #32:	Such extreme responses from both sides --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976263122] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Such extreme responses from both sides </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dungeater 09/23/23 6:33:34 PM #33:	that is up to those in the relationship. that's where the discussion begins and ends --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. <cite>Dungeater posted [p:976263645] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>that is up to those in the relationship. that's where the discussion begins and ends </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 09/23/23 6:34:05 PM #34:	MC_BatCommander posted... If it violates boundaries set by your significant other then yes, it would be wrong This --- All posters and events depicted in this post are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual events or posters, living or dead, is purely coincidental. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:976263656] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>MC_BatCommander posted... </cite><quote>If it violates boundaries set by your significant other then yes, it would be wrong</quote>This </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
xlr_big-coop 09/23/23 6:36:54 PM #35:	Vicious_Dios posted... If that's all it takes to cancel a planned marriage, then they are both better off. --- :) <cite>xlr_big-coop posted [p:976263706] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Vicious_Dios posted... </cite><quote>If that's all it takes to cancel a planned marriage, then they are both better off.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ai123 09/23/23 6:38:33 PM #36:	This is something that couples can work out for themselves. It's not unreasonable to want your partner not to go to strip clubs. And it's not unreasonable to be fine with it either. --- You'll see motivational pictures about working hundred hour weeks/Well, it only applies to those who are operating at a really basic level <cite>ai123 posted [p:976263730] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>This is something that couples can work out for themselves.It's not unreasonable to want your partner not to go to strip clubs. And it's not unreasonable to be fine with it either. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirkDiggles 09/23/23 6:53:18 PM #37:	Just tell her that you and a bunch of friends are going on a "guys only fishing trip" then go to a strip club the next town away. WIN WIN --- Intel 486, Integrated videocard, 16MB RAM, 64MB HD, 3 1/4 inch floppy <cite>DirkDiggles posted [p:976263987] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Just tell her that you and a bunch of friends are going on a "guys only fishing trip" then go to a strip club the next town away. WIN WIN </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ForsakenHermit 09/23/23 6:57:18 PM #38:	If I ever had a bachelor party I'd be okay with skipping out on a strip club and just heading to the mall to go to Dave & Busters, Apex, the other place with laser tag and Zero Latency instead. But if she has a stripper at her party I'm getting one at mine. --- Beware the fanatic! Too often his cure is deadlier by far than the evil he denounces!-Stan Lee RIP Make Arcades Great Again! <cite>ForsakenHermit posted [p:976264054] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>If I ever had a bachelor party I'd be okay with skipping out on a strip club and just heading to the mall to go to Dave & Busters, Apex, the other place with laser tag and Zero Latency instead. But if she has a stripper at her party I'm getting one at mine. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 09/23/23 6:58:39 PM #39:	Tom_Joad posted... You know that these parties aren't planned by the groom/bride, right? So if your best friend takes you to a topless bar, are you going to say, "Fuck the friend I've had since high school, I'm bailing!" 'Cause if that's your take, you are letting your other dictate who you may or may not have as friends. And you should then ask if she's good with you dictating who her friends will be. Or you know, you could tell your friend that you aren't comfortable going to a place like that and if they decide to plan one there anyway you learn they don't respect you or your partner then you can decide if that's really the kind of person you can consider a friend. --- All posters and events depicted in this post are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual events or posters, living or dead, is purely coincidental. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:976264078] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Tom_Joad posted... </cite><quote>You know that these parties aren't planned by the groom/bride, right?So if your best friend takes you to a topless bar, are you going to say, "Fuck the friend I've had since high school, I'm bailing!"'Cause if that's your take, you are letting your other dictate who you may or may not have as friends. And you should then ask if she's good with you dictating who her friends will be.</quote>Or you know, you could tell your friend that you aren't comfortable going to a place like that and if they decide to plan one there anyway you learn they don't respect you or your partner then you can decide if that's really the kind of person you can consider a friend. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiritSephiroth 09/23/23 7:10:46 PM #40:	I personally find that stuff weird asf. Its a sexual place filled with naked women. If my girlfriend or wife went to a place where guys would strip for her, I'd nope right out of the relationship >_> --- https://imgur.com/a/6KBlCUI https://imgur.com/TpM5kyb https://imgur.com/ZzXmr8X https://imgur.com/a/9svV8Gn https://imgur.com/a/vTiJpz3 https://imgur.com/a/j8PIo7A <cite>SpiritSephiroth posted [p:976264297] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>I personally find that stuff weird asf.Its a sexual place filled with naked women. If my girlfriend or wife went to a place where guys would strip for her, I'd nope right out of the relationship >_> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SiO4 09/23/23 7:29:02 PM #41:	SpiritSephiroth posted... I personally find that stuff weird asf. Its a sexual place filled with naked women. If my girlfriend or wife went to a place where guys would strip for her, I'd nope right out of the relationship >_> Everyone knows why they are there. The is no pretense like at a typical bar. That is the difference, and there is nothing wrong with that. --- "Whatever the reason you're on Mars, I'm glad you're there, and I wish I was with you." ~Carl Sagan. Currently playing: Flight Simulator X.~PC <cite>SiO4 posted [p:976264589] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>SpiritSephiroth posted...</cite><quote>I personally find that stuff weird asf.Its a sexual place filled with naked women. If my girlfriend or wife went to a place where guys would strip for her, I'd nope right out of the relationship >_></quote>Everyone knows why they are there. The is no pretense like at a typical bar.That is the difference, and there is nothing wrong with that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiritSephiroth 09/23/23 7:30:30 PM #42:	SiO4 posted... Everyone knows why they are there. The is no pretense like at a typical bar. That is the difference, and there is nothing wrong with that. It's entirely subjective. I guess this sexual openness is an American thing? Never seen this type of thinking in the UK, or anywhere else for that matter. --- https://imgur.com/a/6KBlCUI https://imgur.com/TpM5kyb https://imgur.com/ZzXmr8X https://imgur.com/a/9svV8Gn https://imgur.com/a/vTiJpz3 https://imgur.com/a/j8PIo7A <cite>SpiritSephiroth posted [p:976264615] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>SiO4 posted... </cite><quote>Everyone knows why they are there. The is no pretense like at a typical bar.That is the difference, and there is nothing wrong with that.</quote>It's entirely subjective. I guess this sexual openness is an American thing? Never seen this type of thinking in the UK, or anywhere else for that matter. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 09/23/23 7:37:59 PM #43:	IfGodCouldDie posted... Or you know, you could tell your friend that you aren't comfortable going to a place like that and if they decide to plan one there anyway you learn they don't respect you or your partner then you can decide if that's really the kind of person you can consider a friend. I'm more concerned by the fact that my best friend is planning a night of festivities for me without letting me know anything I'm doing in advance. If my friend doesn't discuss with me beforehand that were going to a strip club then my friend doesn't know if he's causing me to cross some pretty significant boundaries in my relationship or not. Thankfully my wife doesn't give a shit about that sort of thing, so if my best friend had a surprise trip to a strip club planned it wouldn't be an issue for me, but I can easily see how it would be an issue for others. --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:976264715] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>IfGodCouldDie posted... </cite><quote>Or you know, you could tell your friend that you aren't comfortable going to a place like that and if they decide to plan one there anyway you learn they don't respect you or your partner then you can decide if that's really the kind of person you can consider a friend.</quote>I'm more concerned by the fact that my best friend is planning a night of festivities for me without letting me know anything I'm doing in advance. If my friend doesn't discuss with me beforehand that were going to a strip club then my friend doesn't know if he's causing me to cross some pretty significant boundaries in my relationship or not. Thankfully my wife doesn't give a shit about that sort of thing, so if my best friend had a surprise trip to a strip club planned it wouldn't be an issue for me, but I can easily see how it would be an issue for others. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SiO4 09/23/23 7:50:13 PM #44:	SpiritSephiroth posted... It's entirely subjective. I guess this sexual openness is an American thing? Never seen this type of thinking in the UK, or anywhere else for that matter. Not ever Berlin, Amsterdam none of those places? Americans are completely uptight about these things. I could tell anyone I was going to a Casino and no one would bat and eye. Tell someone you are going to a titty bar and they instantly think you a fucked up. --- "Whatever the reason you're on Mars, I'm glad you're there, and I wish I was with you." ~Carl Sagan. Currently playing: Flight Simulator X.~PC <cite>SiO4 posted [p:976264886] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>SpiritSephiroth posted...</cite><quote>It's entirely subjective. I guess this sexual openness is an American thing? Never seen this type of thinking in the UK, or anywhere else for that matter.</quote>Not ever Berlin, Amsterdam none of those places? Americans are completely uptight about these things. I could tell anyone I was going to a Casino and no one would bat and eye. Tell someone you are going to a titty bar and they instantly think you a fucked up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigtiggie23 09/23/23 7:53:24 PM #45:	Wife: "You can't go see strippers for your bachelor party. " Wife hours later at her Bachelorette party: "He's going to take off that bear outfit right?" --- Every day I wake up and promise I will be nice to everyone, then I deal with people at work and remember why that will never happen. <cite>bigtiggie23 posted [p:976264941] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Wife: "You can't go see strippers for your bachelor party. "Wife hours later at her Bachelorette party: "He's going to take off that bear outfit right?" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
asdf8562 09/23/23 7:57:15 PM #46:	Strip clubs aren't my thing. But no to the topic question. I don't think it's wrong. <cite>asdf8562 posted [p:976264999] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Strip clubs aren't my thing. But no to the topic question. I don't think it's wrong.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smashingpmkns 09/23/23 8:07:19 PM #47:	Never understood the whole "last night of freedom" thing. Like mf you've been in a relationship lol --- http://i.imgur.com/x04tPRZ.jpg http://i.imgur.com/t7T392I.jpg <cite>Smashingpmkns posted [p:976265160] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Never understood the whole "last night of freedom" thing. Like mf you've been in a relationship lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 09/23/23 11:36:13 PM #48:	Smashingpmkns posted... Never understood the whole "last night of freedom" thing. Like mf you've been in a relationship lol Agreed. It makes zero sense --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:976268563] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>Smashingpmkns posted... </cite><quote>Never understood the whole "last night of freedom" thing. Like mf you've been in a relationship lol</quote>Agreed. It makes zero sense </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 09/24/23 1:16:37 AM #49:	A_Good_Boy posted... I'm more concerned by the fact that my best friend is planning a night of festivities for me without letting me know anything I'm doing in advance. If my friend doesn't discuss with me beforehand that were going to a strip club then my friend doesn't know if he's causing me to cross some pretty significant boundaries in my relationship or not. Thankfully my wife doesn't give a shit about that sort of thing, so if my best friend had a surprise trip to a strip club planned it wouldn't be an issue for me, but I can easily see how it would be an issue for others. I mean some people like the surprise, but at least finding what is and is not acceptable before planning is the way to go. --- All posters and events depicted in this post are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual events or posters, living or dead, is purely coincidental. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:976269868] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>I'm more concerned by the fact that my best friend is planning a night of festivities for me without letting me know anything I'm doing in advance. If my friend doesn't discuss with me beforehand that were going to a strip club then my friend doesn't know if he's causing me to cross some pretty significant boundaries in my relationship or not. Thankfully my wife doesn't give a shit about that sort of thing, so if my best friend had a surprise trip to a strip club planned it wouldn't be an issue for me, but I can easily see how it would be an issue for others.</quote>I mean some people like the surprise, but at least finding what is and is not acceptable before planning is the way to go. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Oh_Boy_ 09/24/23 1:32:46 AM #50:	MC_BatCommander posted... If it violates boundaries set by your significant other then yes, it would be wrong so many people misuse this word... <cite>Oh_Boy_ posted [p:976270046] in Is going t... [t:80575158]...</cite> <quote>MC_BatCommander posted... </cite><quote>If it violates boundaries set by your significant other then yes, it would be wrong</quote>so many people misuse this word...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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