Current Events > Rude? I don't respond to "hey how are you" texts from coworkers

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SomeGuyUO
10/21/23 1:05:48 PM
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Because I know they just want to ask for something. I make the schedule at work so it usually has to do with that.
Coworker texted me "hey how are you" at 9AM. I didn't respond but they finally followed up with "can I have Monday off" at 7PM. I responded then with yes.
Can't they just ask me what they want? Are people just awkward? Why do they have to drag it out?

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pnut027
10/21/23 1:06:52 PM
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Typically, humans engage in pleasantries before asking for something.

Do you even human?

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Lairen
10/21/23 1:07:50 PM
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If they always ask for something when texting you then this is not rude

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DrizztLink
10/21/23 1:08:36 PM
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Lairen posted...
If they always asl for something when texting
They shouldn't be trying to cyber with the schedule dude.

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DirkDiggles
10/21/23 1:09:04 PM
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hey how are you


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Lairen
10/21/23 1:09:48 PM
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DrizztLink posted...
They shouldn't be trying to cyber with the schedule dude.

I fixed it just for you.

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boomgetchopped3
10/21/23 1:11:40 PM
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SomeGuyUO posted...
Because I know they just want to ask for something. I make the schedule at work so it usually has to do with that.
Coworker texted me "hey how are you" at 9AM. I didn't respond but they finally followed up with "can I have Monday off" at 7PM. I responded then with yes.
Can't they just ask me what they want? Are people just awkward? Why do they have to drag it out?

Im with tc on this one. Yes I small talk like everybody else. But its obvious what theyre asking for. So just get to it and dont make me send multiple texts
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ProfessorKukui
10/21/23 1:12:30 PM
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Looks like someone is having a bad case of the Mondays

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DKBananaSlamma
10/21/23 1:13:07 PM
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Hey what's up?

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DKBananaSlamma
10/21/23 1:14:09 PM
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What I usually do is put the pleasantries AND the question in the same text >_>

"Hey, how's it going? Can I had tuesday off for an appointment?"

BAM!

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Dakimakura
10/21/23 1:14:36 PM
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It is rude to respond if you are going to just respond later to something else. You should, however, take the opportunity to say something funny. Like "my foot is currently on fire can't talk now."

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KainWind
10/21/23 1:15:19 PM
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The people sending you excessive texts are rude, yes.

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HornyLevel
10/21/23 1:16:39 PM
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Ikr.

I just go "sup you dumb motherfucker. I need Monday off at 7 PM. You better not act like a bitch ass and try to deny it"

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BakonBitz
10/21/23 1:16:49 PM
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DKBananaSlamma posted...
What I usually do is put the pleasantries AND the question in the same text >_>

"Hey, how's it going? Can I had tuesday off for an appointment?"

BAM!
Yeah, this is what I do.

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Bass
10/21/23 1:17:37 PM
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I get it, it's annoying since you know that they just want something. I usually just respond politely by mirroring their greeting, but get to the point asking if they need anything.

I'm with TC, though, and won't waste time with multiple messages. I'll just say hi and state what I need in the same message.

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EmbraceOfDeath
10/21/23 1:17:45 PM
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DKBananaSlamma posted...
What I usually do is put the pleasantries AND the question in the same text >_>

"Hey, how's it going? Can I had tuesday off for an appointment?"

BAM!
Yeah that's the way to go.

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Forest_Temple
10/21/23 1:18:23 PM
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Eat a dick TC

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SomeGuyUO
10/21/23 1:22:03 PM
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Another coworker just texted me "Yo"
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Forest_Temple
10/21/23 1:26:18 PM
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Dude OP just respond and get it over with. Your coworker needs your help.

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doesntcare
10/21/23 1:27:39 PM
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You doing alright today boss?
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GuerrillaSoldier
10/21/23 1:32:27 PM
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of course they just want something. you think they'd actually want to talk to you with that kind of attitude lol

i'm glad you're doing your job well! good luck with the 'yo's and 'hey's


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Neoconkers
10/21/23 2:23:55 PM
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https://nohello.net/en/

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kage_53
10/21/23 2:32:56 PM
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Doesnt your workplace have form for requesting days off or being able to submit requests online?
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