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Beveren_Rabbit
04/28/24 9:08:26 PM
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because you feel like such a burden to others and you feel bad that people have to take the time out of their busy schedules to make time for you. and you feel even worse when you can't provide a good time or make excellent conversation. sometimes you feel like it would be best if you just kept to yourself for the rest of your life so that way you would never be a bother to anyone. You fear rejection. You're afraid of hosting a birthday party because you're afraid no one will show up.
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HighSeraph
04/28/24 9:09:31 PM
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Yeah

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Irony
04/28/24 9:09:48 PM
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No one wants to see my basement

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CervusCanadensi
04/28/24 9:10:14 PM
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No not at all, I get pissed when people ignore and ghost the invite. A simple NO I CANT GO would be awesome
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Ratchetrockon
04/28/24 9:15:49 PM
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when i wasn't a neet and post-hs ofc:

i'd just wait to get invited to stuff. it happened frequently during some periods. eventually i started to decline because i got addicted to runescape. received fewer invites to things since they thought i was too busy haha.

just realized that i never invited people myself to do what i want to do. o_O
that never came up in my mind tbh.

im sure i could do it someday once i have friends again and am productive lol. runescape isn't why i lack friends anymore btw i just moved to a diff state and barely done shit since then

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GuerrillaSoldier
04/28/24 10:46:17 PM
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Beveren_Rabbit posted...
You're afraid of hosting a birthday party because you're afraid no one will show up.
not only do i know no one will show up, i barely even have anyone to invite


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neverwin
04/28/24 10:48:21 PM
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I didn't realize this was a difficult problem for people...

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Hayame_Zero
04/28/24 10:55:07 PM
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Yeah. At the most I just show up at an event my friends posted that they're interested in.

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Aristoph
04/28/24 10:55:19 PM
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I've been bowling in 2 leagues every week for decades, so those are kinda guaranteed. But other than that, most of my "hanging out" is online, chatting in Discord and playing games together. I don't really feel the need to invite people around IRL because everyone I want to see is either at the bowling alley or living in another time zone.

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