Current Events > For the first time in my life (Probably), I'm crushing on someone right now

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Currently at a starbucks and one of the employees is absolutely beautiful (I'm not hornyposting mods, just describing my feelings).

I don't think I've crushed on a woman for a long time irl. Probably never. But geez this girl is distracting. I came here to work on my story and I keep glancing her way. Dammit.

She's the splitting image of Nana Komatsu.

Damn it I couldn't focus on my story.

Thats why I wont work at a starbucks

I despise having crushes. Not only is it super distracting, but it's extra frustrating knowing I'd never be good enough for them.

I always get stalker vibes from you.

R1masher posted...

Thats why I wont work at a starbucks

KogaSteelfang posted...

I despise having crushes. Not only is it super distracting, but it's extra frustrating knowing I'd never be good enough for them.

It really was on me, not being able to focus lol. Not blaming the girl at all, she was really nice when I spoke to her.

HorsemnBusiness posted...

I always get stalker vibes from you.

This is literally the one time I've spoken about being attracted to a girl in real life like this. What part of my posting history gives stalker vibes? All I posted was hot idols and girls.

Unless that automatically makes me a stalker >_>

I actually had a Lucid dream triggered last night because of this. No joke.

This definitely counts as hornyposting.

LonelyStoner posted...

This definitely counts as hornyposting. And creepy posting.

If thats the case, I'll stop >_>

dude thinking you're crushing because you saw someone once and thought they were cute is lunatic behavior

Persona posted...

dude thinking you're crushing because you saw someone once and thought they were cute is lunatic behavior

What's a crush in your mind? I don't think I've ever experienced one before >_>

Edit: So many definitions, calling this lunatic behaviour is kinda wild. You must have met really nice people in your life if you think this is lunatic lol

I mean the only other crush I've had (I think) is on an actress, never someone in real life. Which is why this hits different.

to any sane person you gotta at least kinda know someone to crush on them, even if it's only in a parasocial way

you come back here and see her a couple times a week for a month chat and get a tiny bead on her personality then maybe you could have a non crazy crush

Persona posted...

to any sane person you gotta at least kinda know someone to crush on them, even if it's only in a parasocial way

Really? Then whats the feeling you have when you see someone and instantly fall for them?

Persona posted...

you come back here and see her a couple times a week for a month chat and get a tiny bead on her personality then maybe you could have a non crazy crush

I don't think it's crazy to fall for someone based on one meeting, or even from first sight. Looks are a huge factor in attractiveness.

what the fuck does that even mean, you got that other guy saying you creepypost most of the time, you yourself say you only post girls you think are attractive, you sound like a belligerent horndog and having a crush on this girl just cause you like how she looks when you have literal 0 idea who she is as a person is fuckin wacky

Again I'm posting this but I gotta clarify, I think having crushes and love at first sight is bullshit. Always thought that till last night. Still do but damn, that was an experience.

man what kind of life have you lived that you got no fucking clue what a crush is

you're smitten then. just say you're smitten

Persona posted...

what the fuck does that even mean, you got that other guy saying you creepypost most of the time, you yourself say you only post girls you think are attractive, you sound like a belligerent horndog and having a crush on this girl just cause you like how she looks when you have literal 0 idea who she is as a person is fuckin wacky

Calm down dude, why are you getting so uptight on a topic in CE? I forgot half the time some of you are pretty unhinged lol.

I like attractive girls so I used to post them here, thats all. Why does that bother you so much?

Persona posted...

man what kind of life have you lived that you got no fucking clue what a crush is

you're smitten then. just say you're smitten

Thats a good answer, maybe just talk normally before going crazy over a guy you never met online. Geezus >_>

Edit: I just looked it up, smitten and crush are usually interchangable, with some definitions placing it above a crush. So yeah, it doesn't help

yep, pretty creepy. i mean, if you were like a teenager, it would be an understandable kind of creepy. but the chances are you're a grown ass man, and so then it's just creepy.

GuerrillaSoldier posted...

yep, pretty creepy. i mean, if you were like a teenager, it would be an understandable kind of creepy. but the chances are you're a grown ass man, and so then it's just creepy.

If only I could go back to my usual topics, you'd definitely approve >_>

Ignoring the direction this topic took I just dont know how its possible to make it to adulthood without ever having a crush on someone. Like growing up all through school and your formative years. Like how do you even get out of Elementary school without it happening multiple times?

That is what has me blown away.

archizzy posted...

Ignoring the direction this topic took I just dont know how its possible to make it to adulthood without ever having a crush on someone. Like growing up all through school and your formative years. Like how do you even get out of Elementary school without it happening multiple times?

That is what has me blown away.

I have thought other people were cute. But to fall head over heels over a girl, or strongly feel for someone at first sight has never happened to me. Again, maybe with an actress, but that's not in real life. So I never believed in crushes.

People have told me the same thing you're saying before. I've had relationships, normal interactions ect. But a crush I thought was always subjective to an extent.

archizzy posted...

Ignoring the direction this topic took I just dont know how its possible to make it to adulthood without ever having a crush on someone. Like growing up all through school and your formative years. Like how do you even get out of Elementary school without it happening multiple times?

That is what has me blown away.

Because none of THEM looked like Nanu Kotaku...

Turducken posted...

Because none of THEM looked like Nanu Kotaku...

You mean Nani Gematsu, surely