Very well done TC.

You handled it well.

The main reason i encouraged no contact so vehemently was because i was afraid for you to have the bitch (like you said) gaslight you, and try and talk you out of breaking up with her, giving you the fake tears, blaming you for the problems, etc. etc. etc.--so, thats why i encouraged no contact, and ghost mode.

Most men are not strong enough to simply say ''we are done'', and leave it at that. So, again, i cant stress this enough...you did a great job dude.

Hope you focus better on your home, job, and rebuilding your social life.

Also, if she reaches out, or says ANYthing to you...please let us know. I get the feeling that she will try and talk to you or something (over the course of the next couple weeks)....but i could be wrong of course.

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