SoftClock posted... she wants to open up on her side only tho, she said she is not fulfilled enough and needs more and that we can either try this or it's spanorce....
i don't really want to do this... but i don't want a spanorce... guess anything's worth a try once...
If it's only on her side that's not an open relationship, it's asking permission to have an affair. If you're not ok with it, the jealousy will drive you batshit and she'll leave because "she's having a great time and doesn't know what your problem is" or you say no, she cheats anyway because it sounds like she's going to see other people whether she's with you or not and things go crap and you'll break up anyway. If you want to have any chance of this working, you have to demand it be completely open on both sides or you're out-it's the only way it could be a semi happy ending imho.
Worst case, she's
already cheated and looking for an easy way but either way you just have to start getting used to idea of this relationship being over because it sounds like she already has. You'll probably ignore all this and hang in there or agree to being a cuck (but not in the fun way) and be miserable for a year or two but I hope you prove me wrong, guy.
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