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Last Topic: 1:53:15am, 01/27/2023
Last Post: 4:57:21am, 06/11/2023
Jeff_AKA_Snoopy posted...
I think the slow process of all this happening and my wife being able to choose how she leaves this life will make a difference. I know this is what she wants, how she wants it, and is in the frame of mind to make those decisions. From the sounds of it you literally get the same meds you get if you are going under for surgery, and then when you are under the gas you get meds to stop your heart. Literally you just go to sleep and that is it.
I say all those before it happens. I could very easily see myself just being a wreck.
As someone who has experienced a significant loss, I highly recommend some therapy sessions, and perhaps see if there are any local support groups for widowers.
Just being able to talk about your feelings as you work through them is immensely helpful, especially in a support group setting where you will be with people who can relate better to what you're dealing with because they are dealing with it too.
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