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TopicThis girl is upset I don't treat her like Im in love with her but she's cheating
bsp77
06/13/24 11:41:46 AM
#69
ToteAll posted...
A red flag for predatory behaivor.
???

I would.not say that at all. It is just a red flag for TC needing to get his shit together. He has his issues for sure, and I will gladly converse with him about them, but let's not go overboard.

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TopicThis girl is upset I don't treat her like Im in love with her but she's cheating
bsp77
06/13/24 10:34:57 AM
#65
gamepimp12 posted...
from my understanding its kinda complicated on her part, the bf kinda rushed her into something more serious and trying to get her to move out there with him and just in general have a lot of financial control over her
Why doesn't she end it? There is nothing stopping her. She sound sketchy as hell. You better not fall for her lol

In my situation, she couldn't afford to move out. But she was job searching when I met her. Her bf found out about us, kicked her out, and then she split time living with her sister and with me for like a month. Luckily she found a new job and got her own place. Our whole "relationship" was only two months total. It was questionable behavior on my part, but I had just gotten divorced and had no self esteem, and this hot young woman starting hitting on me at a bar.

But as I was saying, if I had been giving regular updates when this was happening, many people here would think I was making it up.

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TopicThis girl is upset I don't treat her like Im in love with her but she's cheating
bsp77
06/13/24 6:55:07 AM
#58
LonelyStoner posted...
Yea it is. Your previous topics just filtered out after no one wanted to sincerely give you advice.
All the previous topics were the same BS about the same person. At least this one is different and new. Can't say if real or not, but it is odd how you come blasting into topics all the time claiming they are made up.

I give the benefit of the doubt, because if I had been posting here in 2017 and 2018 about my life, you guys would have thought I was making it up.

TC - can I ask, why is she cheating? I have been with someone who was living with her boyfriend. That was a messed up situation where she wanted to get away from him, didn't love him anymore, and said he was alternately emotionally distant and emotionally abusive. But she couldn't afford to leave. Not condoning her (or my) actions, but there was at least reasoning and a possibility for real feelings (which actually did end up saying I love you to each other. It was probably just codependency.

Anyway, if this is long distance, she is simply taking advantage and shouldn't expect real feelings.

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TopicHow do you use coffee mugs?
bsp77
06/12/24 6:43:28 PM
#14
Coffee and tea

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TopicThe economy is literally forcing me to quit drinking and smoking
bsp77
06/12/24 6:04:29 PM
#39
So you were buying 5 cases of beer a week? Yeah, that is really bad. Not even getting to the smoking.

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TopicMiyazaki says that using guides to beat FromSoftware titles is valid
bsp77
06/12/24 5:41:00 PM
#16
crayola555 posted...
Souls gamers are notorious for being elitists, like if you beat the game with summons that's cheating. Pretty sure he did indeed gets asked that question a lot.
That is a subset of Souls gamers. Most are cool.

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TopicMiyazaki says that using guides to beat FromSoftware titles is valid
bsp77
06/12/24 5:33:37 PM
#13
Dungeater posted...
ofc, he wants as many ppl as possible to beat his games. hes really good at creating challenges, and fostering in players that sense of overcoming said challenges. i hate the reputation soulsborne has, the games really wanna work with u
Yep

I really like Miyazaki and his gaming philosophies

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TopicLockdown really teased us with what life could be like.
bsp77
06/12/24 5:31:01 PM
#87
rexcrk posted...
It was amusing, for sure, but also a little annoying lol. It just made it more clear how people are so unwilling and unable to adapt when necessary. I get it, not everyone likes to stay home, but as someone who both loves going out and hanging out with friends stuff and also loves to stay in, I thought that lockdown shouldve been the perfect time to learn how to entertain ones self without having to go out.

But, nope, people spent all that energy whining about it instead of adapting and learning.
It also made me realize how many people on CE have zero social life and therefore don't care about restrictions at all.

Note that I am not saying you. Also, I did distance and mask for the first 1.5 years. I got a little lax after my second vaccine.

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

And this

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TopicI joined Okcupid today and apparently I already have 14 likes
bsp77
06/12/24 5:25:20 PM
#34
CrashLightning posted...
Are there any that don't restrict you too much and make you buy a subscription?
I already listed some

But Coffee Meets Bagel is a curated daily list

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TopicMy dog chewed up a $50 gift card last night
bsp77
06/12/24 4:23:52 PM
#3
You can probably call customer service depending on how you got the card. I lost a card from my mom, but gave them my mom's name, address and purchase order (she had to send me the verification email). They voided the old card and I got a new e-card emailed to me

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TopicDo you still believe in love?
bsp77
06/12/24 4:17:48 PM
#36
TerraSeeker posted...
Nah. Love something you can only experience when your young. There's too many requirements in relationships as adults for it to be considered love.
I hope this is a joke

And my marriage is quite easy actually. There aren't any "requirements" besides the decency I would adhere to anyway

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TopicCE, what's the last concert you went to? What's next?
bsp77
06/12/24 3:05:20 PM
#38
BrohammedAli posted...
Downtown Minneapolis isnt really what Id call *walkable*
Why not? I have done it many times

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TopicCE, what's the last concert you went to? What's next?
bsp77
06/12/24 2:05:00 PM
#26
BrohammedAli posted...
one of the main reasons I don't go to as many shows anymore imo.

I live in Minneapolis right now and it's a great city, but coming from Chicago where I could just hit the L or take a bus and get anywhere I want to go for like 3 bucks, it's definitely cut down on my drive to explore.
But there are tons of venues in downtown Minneapolis and then also St Paul (can take the Green Line).

The Armory in Minneapolis and Palace in St Paul are my favorite venues

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Topic77 year-old Oakland Homeowner arrested for shooting home burglar
bsp77
06/12/24 12:19:26 PM
#22
[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

You do NOT know that

This is going to be one of those threads where I argue with extremists on both sides, isn't it?

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TopicDoes this happen to you? Do you do this?
bsp77
06/12/24 12:16:15 PM
#4
I say hi or nod my head to everyone I pass when walking or on a run

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Topic77 year-old Oakland Homeowner arrested for shooting home burglar
bsp77
06/12/24 12:09:07 PM
#18
Only on CE do I see people saying, "think about the poor armed robbers"

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TopicTheres a special place in hell for trucks that trop debris on the roads
bsp77
06/12/24 12:01:25 PM
#2
Trop

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TopicI joined Okcupid today and apparently I already have 14 likes
bsp77
06/12/24 11:19:32 AM
#25
Hinge, Bumble and Coffee Meets Bagel are my recommendations for free apps. They have very different profile criteria, so it will take some time to set up all 3

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TopicToo many games late Aug / early Sept
bsp77
06/12/24 11:00:54 AM
#6
R_Jackal posted...
The action looks like a B list PS2 game which is the only part I care about looks wise
Fair enough

Some are claiming that this little Italian Soulslike called Enotria: The Last Song is going to be better. That comes out Sept 19, so pretty close to this crowded time.

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TopicToo many games late Aug / early Sept
bsp77
06/12/24 10:55:45 AM
#3
R_Jackal posted...
Wukong I have no faith in to actually be a decent game, it looks awful.
No, it looks fantastic but there is the worry that it doesn't meet expectations

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TopicToo many games late Aug / early Sept
bsp77
06/12/24 10:48:52 AM
#1
Visions of Mana was just dated, and now here is the release schedule for that time:

Black Myth: Wukong - Aug 20
Concord - Aug 23
Visions of Mana - Aug 29
Star Wars Outlaws - Aug 30
STALKER 2 - Sept 5
Astro Bot - Sept 6

Not saying I want all these, but just seems way too crowded and that there will be casualties.

Discuss

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Topicgames with HUGE sprites
bsp77
06/11/24 11:28:10 PM
#5
I prefer games with HUGE... tracts of land

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TopicCE, what's the last concert you went to? What's next?
bsp77
06/11/24 11:23:46 PM
#15
Last was QotSA

Next? I don't know

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TopicMy super short Elden Ring review
bsp77
06/11/24 10:54:46 PM
#9
BignutzisBack posted...
That's fair I guess considering I view the final boss of Sekiro as the greatest in the history of video games lol
I wish I did. I never did "git gud"

Also, to be fair, those lists with Melania may be hardest lists

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TopicLast game you played and beverage you drank?
bsp77
06/11/24 10:52:02 PM
#38
Remnant: From the Ashes
Sparkling water

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TopicMy super short Elden Ring review
bsp77
06/11/24 10:50:51 PM
#7
BignutzisBack posted...
No she really isn't lol she's one of the most polarizing bosses on the internet, all you have to do is type her name in YouTube or reddit and you can find tons of souls veterans ripping her. I would argue that 80% of Sekiro and Bloodborne's bosses are better.
I just know that I see her on most lists of greatest FromSoftware bosses

You can have your opinion, but it is far from universal

Like I personally hate the final boss of Sekiro (because I suck at fighting him)

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TopicMy super short Elden Ring review
bsp77
06/11/24 10:45:32 PM
#5
BignutzisBack posted...
She is, a confirmed Sekiro DLC cut content boss but with plodding Souls character movement. Give me some time as I need to put together a long-winded rant.
And yet she is generally considered one of the greatest FromSoftware bosses

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TopicMy super short Elden Ring review
bsp77
06/11/24 10:39:22 PM
#2
Explain how they are disappointing. Melania is near that end batch, right?

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TopicFromsoft inspires quite a few devs these days
bsp77
06/11/24 10:27:07 PM
#5
There are a LOT of Chinese ones coming out this year or next year

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Topic"Its free on GamePass" gotta be my most disliked gaming oxymoron rn
bsp77
06/11/24 9:50:23 PM
#19
Game Pass costs $120 for a year. If you would have bought 2 of those games new, it already pays for itself. Anything beyond that is free in a way. Yes, I know it is not literally free. Take your "actually" comments somewhere else.

I will admit that this does not help people who want to physically own games.

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TopicI had a sex dream last night
bsp77
06/11/24 9:36:17 PM
#23
thronedfire2 posted...
well your real sex having doesn't offend me

just keep it PG for fandom and all the 13 year old girls we have showing up here
We are married, so it's okay, kiddos

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Topic"Its free on GamePass" gotta be my most disliked gaming oxymoron rn
bsp77
06/11/24 9:32:22 PM
#14
CADE_FOSTER posted...
lol a cult mentality wtf is this not free at all
And yet you missed his point

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TopicI had a sex dream last night
bsp77
06/11/24 9:21:39 PM
#20
thronedfire2 posted...
unless you actually had sex last night,


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TopicShould I get a PS5 or an old new 3DS?
bsp77
06/11/24 8:36:58 PM
#18
atom27 posted...
So PS5 has full backwards compatibility with physical PS4 game discs?
It does. And lots of free digital ones

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TopicI had a sex dream last night
bsp77
06/11/24 8:34:09 PM
#15
thronedfire2 posted...
why did post #2 get deleted
I deleted my own post because it sounded braggy after the fact

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TopicWhat is a tune that gets stuck in your head easily ?
bsp77
06/11/24 8:30:20 PM
#2
Feliz Navidad

The damn thing just has two choruses (Spanish and English) and alternates between them several times. But in my head, that loop Never. Fucking. Stops.

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Topic"Its free on GamePass" gotta be my most disliked gaming oxymoron rn
bsp77
06/11/24 8:20:15 PM
#10
I have an AMC subscription where I pay about $23 a month for almost unlimited movies in the theater. So yeah, anything beyond 2 movies a month is essentially free.

Don't be so pedantic

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TopicShould I get a PS5 or an old new 3DS?
bsp77
06/11/24 8:10:30 PM
#13
atom27 posted...
No I don't have either. I only have a Switch Lite right now. I'm not currently employed so I've been on a tight budget.
This is why I vote PS5. Plus, the FF7 games are great.

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TopicShould I get a PS5 or an old new 3DS?
bsp77
06/11/24 8:08:34 PM
#9
TC, do you have a Gaming PC or Xbox?

Cuz, you know, Elden Ring and Baldur's Gate 3 are the best games of the last few years.

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TopicShould I get a PS5 or an old new 3DS?
bsp77
06/11/24 8:04:14 PM
#5
At this point? PS5

But I also can't stand Pokmon. Bores me

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TopicXbox 2tb model is $599 lol
bsp77
06/11/24 7:56:49 PM
#11
I am more annoyed that the digital X is $450. I was hoping for AT LEAST $100 off the standard edition.

Oh well, I really don't need one anyway, especially if they keep sending their games to PS5.

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TopicLockdown really teased us with what life could be like.
bsp77
06/11/24 7:49:34 PM
#52
As more of an extrovert, it was sometimes rough. Luckily I started dating my wife in 2020, so that helped a ton.

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TopicAOC: "Antisemitism Is an Assault on Our Values!"
bsp77
06/11/24 2:37:05 PM
#7
It just baffles how some construe any comment that is pro Palestinian people (not Hamas) is somehow antisemitic

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TopicThe main character is UGLY!
bsp77
06/11/24 2:34:00 PM
#50
Unfortunately, I thought of Horizon. But only because a lot of neckbeards here who are single think this.

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TopicGodzilla Minus One: Dubbed, Subbed, English CC?
bsp77
06/10/24 12:31:44 PM
#10
All foreign languages (other than some anime) should always be subbed

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TopicNo one told me how much fun Remnant is!
bsp77
06/10/24 12:25:00 PM
#16
After playing even more, I wouldn't even call this a Soulslike. It is a 3rd person shooter / adventure with Soulslike and Roguelike influences

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Topicso I've asked my partner for a "break"
bsp77
06/10/24 12:22:55 PM
#27
Dungeater posted...
we do talk about it, and its only started bothering me a year and a half in when the long distance has become so hard due to other stressors in my life, namely work

we talk about it a lot actually. generally speaking, this has been the most communicative relationship of my life

the difficulty is due in part to the fact that i never considered myself to have physical needs. i never ever got lonely. i never ever craved companionship. but as our relationship progresses, as we visit each other more, as we plan our next steps more

i have found that for the first time in my life i am capable of feeling loneliness. and wanting a hug. its really hard to deal with since ive never had these feelings before. and theres no real way to address it in a long distance relationship

argh
Sorry, that's rough. But that sounds like you may be changing, which can be good, as long as you change your life and relationships to match.

Also, you should try Meetup to make friends and be social

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