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Lupe
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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.

Yea, but both say baby, which is infinitely worse.
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Ouch. Lost my first nominee.

Ludacris
DMX
Supa Hot Fire
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Kanye
Royce
Supa Hot Fire
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Kanye
Joe Budden
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MICHALECOLE posted...

How I met your mother

Lifesaver! Thank you!
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Its a clip of a guy showing someone a picture of someone smiling.

The guy has a cover on the pictures eyes or mouth to make a point that you smile with your face.

I cant remember what this is from and I need it for an assignment. All help is appreciated!
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DMX
Ludacris
Supa Hot Fire
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Kevin Gates
Travis
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Busta Rhymes
Lupe
Wale
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MrDrMan posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

The odd shape doesnt stay in my ear.

I use ones with actual grip like the Bose ones.

Standard ear bud shape is odd? Maybe it is your head that is odd.

It definitely is not a normal shape. Only Apple earbuds in general have that weird rounded-off shape. It doesnt stay in my ear.

The Bose ones have a little arm thing that lodges itself in the ridges of your ear ensuring it stays put. Whether Im running or laying on something.

Its also less irritating since Apple has no cushion in its buds.
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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.

The odd shape doesnt stay in my ear.

I use ones with actual grip like the Bose ones.
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DMX
Ludacris
Supa Hot Fire
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I dunno if youd believe me. But I feel not being in a relationship is better. A relationship is spose to be a mutual progression.

Speaking from experience, the most vulnerable attract the most parasites.

The feeling of inferior value is definitely hard to overcome. Especially when your lack of success only validates your perception. Its kinda a screwed either way scenario, supposedly.

Do you feel like theres nothing neutral in your daily routines right now? I say neutral because when one is in a depressed state, I get how everything seems bad. Are you open to professional help? Your body is reacting, you say.
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Future
Joe Budden
Kevin Gates
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Hate to be that guy. But how do you people with mental issues still get into relationships?

Wouldnt that be terribly draining for your mental state?
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My leg!
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This topic is really endearing. I approve.
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How about your words? Just be direct.
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DMX
Supa Hot Fire
Kanye
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Its weird, but I dislike the cordial exits. I feel like the people who genuinely get emotional are better. So long as they get over it later. Savage is a comical example of this.

Dunno the rules of earlier season spoilers here.
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DavidWong posted...

People can change how they act, but people don't change.

Is there truly a difference? If its not an act?

SauI_Goodman posted...

I think Shawn Michaels is a good example that people can change. Everybody in the wrestling industry is in agreement that he was the biggest douche asshole they'd ever met. Even when he got into a barfight his own "friends" wouldn't go see him at the hospital. The only person who went to go see him was the chick he was having an affair with and she even dragged her husband along with her. Now he's a born again Christian.

Im unfamiliar. Though Im curious how being a born again Christian has changed him.
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I feel like people obviously go through changes in their views and hobbies and whatnot.

But I feel people who are short temperered will always have a short fuse. Or narcissists will always be self-serving.

I feel that the core personality traits you have when young never really go away.

People who are typically aggressive or disagreeable are probably going to remain that way. Same for the passive and agreeable.
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Lil Jon
Azalea
Will Smith
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dmx
Royce
Supa Hot Fire
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Guys, tbh. This whole thing is just projecting. Sorry for the waste of time.

Hopefully a lurker learned something new.
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Yall dont have to mock me.
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JONICS posted...

I dunno. But we have a millionaire living in our community. Really rich family. Own mall and builds townhouses all over our country.

We found out that his son hanged himself. We didnt know the reason why, but those peeps are hella frikkin rich.

How old was he, do you know?
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MC_BatCommander posted...

You're right tc, let's just tell the depressed people to stop being that way

Please dont put me in that category. I understand what depressed people go through. I know its not just sadness. Or a fleeting emotion.

Dragonblade01 posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

Dragonblade01 posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

What kind of issue can exist that money cannot fix?

Mental

Severe mental and physical ailments, probably not. But I definitely think depression can be fought with money, wouldnt you agree?

No. Depression is a severe mental ailment.

...Do you think itd help at least?

Mareen posted...

Also, you wouldn't be able to fix crippling apathy and nihilism with money. Which people with depression can end up having.

Ill admit, apathy didnt register to me immediately. This is a good point.

WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

Complete horseshit. I made some of my best friends when I was flat broke. You know how? Because we met through a common hobby and soon discovered we had a lot in common. Money. Is. Not. Going. To. Magically. Make. That. Happen.

Im glad you did. But you probably got to do that hobby because of money, yes?
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Dragonblade01 posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

What kind of issue can exist that money cannot fix?

Mental

Severe mental and physical ailments, probably not. But I definitely think depression can be fought with money, wouldnt you agree?
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WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

You also failed to address the other part of my post outlining that money is not going to make your inner demons go away. And before you say "well you can use it to see professionals", they aren't a cure. They're just people trained to give you techniques. There are many wealthy people out there that are either relatively lonely, or only have people liking them because they have money and they feel they could benefit from them. Unwantedness is a core cause of depression and it blows my mind how you're going out of your way to not perceive that

That kinda subconscious stuff can be changed by people around you. Obviously its not a quick fix, but without money youre outright fucked.

If you have the money, you have the ability to meet people that can help you change your perception of self.

Does that answer you?
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WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

That anecdote has nothing to do with that supposed chain of how money can buy you meaningful relationships but okay

I established meaningful relationships because I finally acquired the funds to develop myself.

Prior I could not because of how I perceived myself.

Mareen posted...

"How can you be rich but depressed?"

Because depression doesn't arise from your living situation. If it did, cases like Robin Williams wouldn't have happened.

Really, people like you just make the lives of rich but ultimately depressed people harder. They get constantly told that they have it all and they shouldn't feel that way... which only worsens the condition because they're going to feel bad about feeling horrible.

Okay, so the topic may have started emotionally charged; I got angry. But its clear the consensus seems to be against me. And I dont understand why.

What kind of issue can exist that money cannot fix? Relationships, hunger, whatever. Money can get all of it.
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WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

Money is not going to buy you meaningful relationships

Money is not going to magically dismantle your inner demons that center your attention onto negative aspects of the past, present and future. It can make it easier to temporarily distract you, but it will never make them go away.

I disagree. Money directly wont sure. But it will indirectly if used right.

Money buys clothes. Clothes brings compliments. Compliments bring confidence. Confidence brings friends. Friends bring more confidence. Confidence brings different perception of self. Etc.

Just a simple example. I literally cant see how a person with money cant buy happiness.

You think meaningful relationships, with people you have a ton in common with, are more likely to happen from wearing nice clothes? Lol.

Now you're just being clueless

I can only go by my own experiences. Anecdotal evidence is obviously flawed but...

I came from sitting by myself at school. People would tell me they cant be seen talking to me, and I justified that as logical. I grew up believing I was inferior to everyone. I hated going home because my father was abusive.

I was fucked subconsciously. I had clothes too small and I couldnt even do anything if I wanted.

If it wasnt for the kindness of a few people, Id still be the sad little kid who attempted suicide.

I managed to get relationships because money granted me the ability to change myself. I firmly believe that.

People waste their money on temporary fixes like drugs. Some of it being addictions. Some people continue to hang around like people who unfortunately provoke the same negative mindset.

People who are still depressed with money arent using the money correctly.
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WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

Money is not going to buy you meaningful relationships

Money is not going to magically dismantle your inner demons that center your attention onto negative aspects of the past, present and future. It can make it easier to temporarily distract you, but it will never make them go away.

I disagree. Money directly wont sure. But it will indirectly if used right.

Money buys clothes. Clothes brings compliments. Compliments bring confidence. Confidence brings friends. Friends bring more confidence. Confidence brings different perception of self. Etc.

Just a simple example. I literally cant see how a person with money cant buy happiness.
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Dash_Harber posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

Dash_Harber posted...

Depression is a medical condition, not a reaction to one's environment. It can be exacerbated by bad circumstances, but whether someone has depression or not is generally a genetic issue.

This is news to me. Depression is not genetic. Youve a source?

https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/genetic
https://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/depression#genes
https://www.verywellmind.com/is-depression-genetic-1067317

Seriously, though, it has very little to do with environment. Again, environment can influence it, but the cause isn't environmental.

Though, given that this exact topic pops up like once a month, and people keep stubbornly saying provocative things that a 3 second google search could easily disprove, I'm going to assume you are just trolling.

If so, I wonder if you ever reflect on how pathetic this is. Your idea of a good time is literally to pick on the mentally ill and mock them to try and cause them pain. It'd actually be pretty damning if it wasn't so pitiable.

Now, I know what comes next. You fein like I'm over-reacting because gaslighting is literally the only way to come back form a comment like this. You'll sit there going, "wow, wow, I was just asking, why are you so fragile" and so I'd like to point once again to your asinine and inflammatory comments previous to this and just point out that if this really is your idea of a fun time, you should re-evaluate your life and maybe seek some help for the sadistic and sociopathic tendencies of yours.

Either you are too ignorant of the subject to even be commenting on it in the first place, or you are a sociopath who is so pathetic that you feel the need to mock the mentally ill to try and make yourself feel better. Either way, not too pretty a picture.

Gamefaqs flaming rules are keeping you safe, but Ill try to ignore the snark.

I dont watch this place 24/7, so dunno why you think Im spose to know the frequency of this subject.

Your sources dont even make the same claim as you. They say research in the development of depression is still new and nothing can be confirmed. It merely says theres a correlation among family. It doesnt take a scientific study to guess depressed parents are more prone to having depressed children. Especially since its a mindset issue often times. Its definitely environmental if thats your source.

My post may seem provocative because Im sick and tired of these dudes with money crying about how hard shit is. Theres too many God damn crybabies in life, and Im venting a little bit, sure.

But like how youre a bit frustrated at the frequency of the topic, Im not against learning.

If you have nothing productive to say, please fuck off. Im not gonna take shit from an anonymous poster.
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Harpie posted...

The class clown of attention seeking makes her appearance. Im honored.
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WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

Don't seriously think*

Like ffs you'd think after Robin Williams people would wisen up about this topic. It can be caused by all types of shit that money wouldn't magically fix

I was going to mention him, tbh. But felt it would be too insensitive.

Regardless, having money is different than fame. Fame has a unique consequence I feel.

Ultima Dragon posted...

If you have enough money where you can just buy whatever you want or be on a permanent vacation, I'd imagine it gets old fast.

I feel this is a stupid assumption.
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WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

This is insanely ignorant of mental health issues and you should be ashamed of yourself for making this topic

Mental health issues mostly spawn from situations developed by low income scenarios.

Lol what

You don't seriously the only people that are depressed are poor people for not having money, right

Before I answer...

You do realize youre the only one speaking in absolutes? Please dont misrepresent my words.

Anyway, without money, one typically cant afford treatment for mental issues in the first place. Without money, even small things like having possessions that boost esteem are out of reach, which affects how youre perceived by others. Children being excluded is a common result. These things start to snowball into a disaster.
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Dash_Harber posted...

Depression is a medical condition, not a reaction to one's environment. It can be exacerbated by bad circumstances, but whether someone has depression or not is generally a genetic issue.

This is news to me. Depression is not genetic. Youve a source?
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WhyYouSoSTANK posted...

This is insanely ignorant of mental health issues and you should be ashamed of yourself for making this topic

Mental health issues mostly spawn from situations developed by low income scenarios.
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You must suck at life pretty bad for that to be possible. Or be mentally beyond repair.

Here I am sitting in a mall parking lot at 3am imagining how all my problems would cease if I had money.
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1) Speeding on the highway at night
2) Imagining beating my old roommates face into a pulverized mush.
3) Brunettes.
4) Nature vistas.
5) Having to hustle to complete something in time. The feeling of adrenaline I guess.
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DanAnsumHandsom posted...

Tc has an excellent point.

You get drunk and hop in a car everyone is ready to crucify you but your judgement is impaired, you shouldn't hold that against them right?

People would rather be pretentious instead of questioning things that very clearly dont make sense.
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PepperoniMaster posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

Do you buzzkills know the customer does not know the joke is overdone?

No, I'm pretty sure they're saying it ironically,.

Then stop assuming the most negative about strangers.
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Do you buzzkills know the customer does not know the joke is overdone?

Just go with it. Theyre trying to be friendly. This is whats wrong with people.
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Bone Thugs
Azalea
Joe Budden
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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.

Didnt they have Gravity Falls?
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DMX
Royce
Supa Hot Fire
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Rika_Furude posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

In an organizational sense, going smallest to largest makes more sense too.

1-12/1-31/20XX

no it doesnt. if it's meant to be read, it just causes confusing. i.e. 11/12/2018. In any normal country thats the 11th of december. but in america they mess it all up. and if its meant to be stored in a database, lmao @ any formats other than strictly YYYYMMDD or DDMMYYYY

I want you to use your brain on this one. Because you brought up another point thats irrelevant.

The max amount of months is 12. The max amount of days is 31. The max amount of years are infinite.

In order of smallest to largest, 12 > 31 > infinity.

I dont really know what other countries have to do with my claim. I see no reason, barring all context, why one would put the month second.

Other than smallest to largest unit maybe.
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In an organizational sense, going smallest to largest makes more sense too.

1-12/1-31/20XX
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