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I was gonna say no, but she knows Dark Souls strategy?!?

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DravenRainrix posted...

So you left your wife to deal with home stuff whilst you pissed off for a fun night?

When does she get to piss off out for the night?

It was his sister's wedding so I think he has the right, but there are 2 things:

1. Communicate that plan ahead of time
2. Both people get to alternate equal time off

If the above happens, she has no right to be upset

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awesome999 posted...

Fat for when the show first came out, closer to average today

That is so sad. 'Merica

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I bet that's nice lol

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Sometimes I comment but mostly about running. Just got back from 6.5 miles. Now chilling on my balcony with some coffee and my cat

Congrats on the weight loss

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gatorsPENSbucs posted...

Says who? Nothing of the sort is said in the comic.

usually the ones already in the neighborhood are going to greet the people who just moved in

You are just being dense. It is obvious what is going on to anyone who has actually experienced any city life whatsoever

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viewmaster_pi posted...

the only thing i won't do is hit someone

or eat ass, lol. otherwise all i do is give. no one will believe me, but i don't really like sex. i don't like my presence or my body. i don't deserve to feel good. i don't expect to meet anyone who'd click with any of this anyway. it's nothing anyone has to worry about.

i don't self-harm or anything though, like cutting. that's not the same. it's not a depression or suicidal thing

Sorry, I went for a long run. Wasn't ignoring.

And that sucks. So do you have abuse issues? Have you talked with anyone because that is not a good way to feel about oneself. That may also help with realizing that smacking your partner on the ass during sex is nowhere near to hitting or abuse. I don't know why most women like it so much, but they do.

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viewmaster_pi posted...

not being being ggg?

Good, giving and game. You actually see it on dating apps meaning being open to trying things

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viewmaster_pi posted...

oh i wouldn't ever hit my partner. even if she would want it, i don't. i'm not roleplaying though. i just like being hurt, i like blunt trauma. i don't like the stinging pain of being slapped or pinched, but i like that something that i don't like is being inflicted upon me. it's not even a sexual thing, it just feels correct. i think the whole bdsm dominatrix thing is cringy though

Not trying to change your mind, but not being being ggg in bed can lead to issues in a relationship. It isn't about you

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Conception616 posted...

It is lol, I was just responding to @viewmaster_pi as I dont see too many guys talk about liking that same thing, maybe they are afraid to admit it. Im telling you, my ex laid into me, Im not even sure how legal it was for her to have gotten so into the domination

I am not sure if I would like that level of abuse. I certainly like when she takes control but I think I would be scared of being punched lol

But if it works for you, go for it

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Conception616 posted...

Thats different, slapping the ass is awesome, Im talking about directly in the face.

Okay, cool. I figured that is what the topic is generally about

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Conception616 posted...

I do also, however, I dont like to slap or punch my partner, seems too realistic. The whole point of the role play is the reversal of norms where the power advantage is flipped.

My ex was extremely good at this, she would choke me and really hit me so hard while she was on top, it was such a rush.

But what if your gf wanted you to slap her on the ass? Would you say no?

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Smackems posted...

You would BEAT your partner?

She likes it during sex, as do a LOT of women

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I think it is so commonplace that it isn't a fetish

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Hmm, either 25% off or ctrl-z.

If I wasn't charismatic in real life, I may pick that, but as is, I don't need my ego growing more than it has.

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Can I ask exactly how aromantic works? Someone who is not into romance but may or may not be into sex? So if aromantic but still into sex sounds like the cliche of bros and frat boys. That is like the opposite of the community.

Yes, I am being a little facetious, but I legit don't understand.

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lilORANG posted...

Literally wtf is IA and half the people I talk to in the community think Q is queer and the other half say questioning so obviously the abbreviation has gotten needlessly complicated.

I believe Q is both. I is intersex. A is asexual or aromantic

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Musourenka posted...

Bigots lately have been using "LGB".

The biggest bigots only like the L

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I will admit that the addition of I and A is getting tiresome. When will it stop? I am 100% supportive but rule #1 of acronyms is to make them succinct and memorable.

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It is really good. The last third dragged a little, but otherwise extremely entertaining with outstanding direction, cinematography, production design, costumes, choreography, and songs.

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saspa posted...

Wait, unironically? That worries me... if we're talking about that christina aguilera movie. I literally just watch the ending because it's the only good song.

I also hated Chicago as a teen. I even liked La La Land more than those 2 movies, and even Les Mis (at least, ironically)

What are you talking about? Christina Aguilera?

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Why do people who have never met then meet up for sex anyway? Seems weird to me

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Arcanine2009 posted...

shouldn't have to defend your own sexual preferences.

if she trans? I know there was one really annoying user they really harassed people for not wanting to date trans people due to preference.

edit: it's her.

Yep

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Flauros posted...

Many would disagree with you unfortunately.

I know and that's stupid. I am not pansexual. I am not denying the gender of a trans woman just because I don't want a penis.

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Wii_Shaker posted...

I could see that. The last couple days there has been lots of shrouded hate speech about trans people and she was likely lashing out against some of those comments.

A warning is fair but I doubt some of the bigots on this board got warned as well.

They should be warned too.

I am still upset that she ripped into me for not wanting to date trans women. I said I would if 100% post op. Still not good enough for her. It does not make me a bigot for not wanting a penis.

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TheChosenPurist posted...

The perfect girl doesnt play video games at all

Well, this is also dumb

Edit: ha! You deleted but I got it

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Shezarr posted...

I really dont care if my gf plays games or not. I dont know why this is something people get hung up on

Exactly. If videogames are so important that it impacts your dating decisions, you need to get a real fucking life

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Sorry, but she can be quite judgemental and rude

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Curious if this differs by gender

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Cats are mostly useless

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Cleo_II posted...

Nice, I love butternut squash risotto!

Some tips I learned:

Dont stir it too much when adding the broth, just enough so it doesnt stick to the pan. Helps with making it creamier

Wait until the broth is completely absorbed before adding more. Sometimes it would be just a bit liquid still and Id think it was fine but I got better results when I waited more.

Always keep the broth warm and warm a bit more than the recipe calls for just in case. Ive run out of broth once because the rice just wasnt cooked enough and I didnt have extra. It sucked.

Use 3/4 broth to 1/4 white wine for better flavor, instead of just broth.

See, this is why I tagged you :)

Thank you for those tips! The recipe hints at some of that but not so explicitly

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10 or 11. When the first one was released in the US in 87 or 88

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Johnny_Nutcase posted...

Mosquitos.

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I haven't tried before and know it takes patience. I hope it goes well. Then we will watch In the Heights.

@Cleo_II not going for the lobster risotto yet, as that would be two big firsts. Going with butternut squash as the main additional ingredient.

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KazGT6 posted...

the lyrics are very faith based? idk

Well, some songs are. I just said it was too Christian for my personal tastes

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KazGT6 posted...

christian? i thought the lead singer came out and said they weren't that religious, or a religious band

Being known as a Christian band is the kiss of death for mainstream music, so yes he said that. But the lyrics are very faith based

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Too poppy and Christian for my personal tastes, but I did see them for free a few years ago at a corporate event and they were good live

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MmmKay

I am having a good day too. But need to get off my ass and buy ingredients for Butternut Risotto

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Watching tonight on HBO Max with my girlfriend. My ex gf told me she already watched it (we share HBO Max) and loved it except it removed her favorite song.

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The only political description of Biden should be moderate

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Okay. I don't care.

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This is awesome. About to do my 3rd song of the night and then probably done.

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FarFromFields posted...

If the topic of being trans never came up, and you consent to having sex, but get upset when you later learn that they're trans, maybe you should stop assuming everyone is cis by default.

Hey, Emma, before we proceed to taking each other's clothes off, can you confirm that you are cis? Lol

(Not sure of my point, just pointing out how ridiculous dating is now in all aspects)

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Derwood posted...

D'oh

Lol, no problem. Just giving ya shit

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