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TopicHow old were you when you got your driver's license? Do you not have one?
KogaSteelfang
02/05/22 12:07:28 AM
#20
It was actually issued on my 16th birthday.

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TopicDo you have any half brothers or sisters?
KogaSteelfang
02/05/22 12:00:08 AM
#12
I have a full brother.

I'm not aware of any half siblings, but it's not out of the picture. There's a strong possibility that I do. My dad behaves rather oddly around his one particular nephew. He behaved oddly around around the mother too, but she passed years ago. There's always been a suspicion there by most of the family.

Several years ago, dad almost died of a heart aneurism. The doctors said there's a chance it could be genetic and he should tell his kids. The only one of us that he told was his "nephew". >_>'

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TopicWTF is this thing???
KogaSteelfang
02/03/22 3:26:20 PM
#7
It's a treadmill.

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TopicYou will still be as tall as your dad even if you eat like shit.
KogaSteelfang
01/31/22 12:35:11 AM
#30
Dad is an inch or so taller than me. I got to 6' and I'm good with that.

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TopicWould your life be worse if you were ugly?
KogaSteelfang
01/29/22 6:13:13 PM
#5
I don't think it would make any difference.

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TopicHow to tell someone they're eating too much?
KogaSteelfang
01/29/22 4:24:43 PM
#23
BADoglick posted...
Does he work out? I eat that many calories per day but I also power lift 80 minutes a day six days a week
Not at all. He thinks the walking he does at work is enough. Admittedly, he does do a lot of walking, but no actual working out at all. He spends 100% of his time off in bed, or on the couch and eating.

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TopicI posted here when I was a teen.
KogaSteelfang
01/29/22 4:20:38 PM
#5
I started posting here at 18... That was 20 years ago. Yeesh.

Posting on gamefaqs I mean, I didn't use a social board till I was close to 30.

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TopicHow to tell someone they're eating too much?
KogaSteelfang
01/29/22 4:17:57 PM
#21
Apparently my mom mentioned something to him. He told her that he's actually not eating enough calories per day. Supposedly some guy he works with told to increase his calorie intake.

I assume it's his body building friend who also works there and is the one who was eating the 4/5k calories a day. Either that, or it was a sarcastic remark that he took to heart thinking it was sincere. That happened back when he was in high school and he was being bullied without realizing it.

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TopicHow to tell someone they're eating too much?
KogaSteelfang
01/29/22 12:26:33 PM
#20
Sequiro posted...
As an obese person, you may or may not want to say stuff to them... they likely get all the ranting and preaching already from parents and doctors.
His parents are out of the picture, we've been raising him for the last 8-9 years, and we're basically his caregivers before that. He's 21 and still slim built, but you can tell he's starting to gain weight. He doesn't go to the doctor unless we make him and then it's because he's sick and his diet doesn't really come up.

Sequiro posted...
It also depends on reason why they eat. I know for me when someone starts ranting at me about my diet or health and they start preaching to me on how I should change, it just legitly makes me want to go grab a cheeseburger and devour it right in front of them in pure spite. I have literally been in a situations where I went in for a doctors appointments listen to them talk down to me for an hour. Walk out of their office and go right to a fast food place and order a bunch of food because fuck them
That's exactly how he is. We don't talk down to him(well, dad does but that a given). We try to give him advice and gentle encouragement to make better decisions, but even that ends with him doing things out of spite. Just to prove that he can do what he wants.

Sequiro posted...
For me I know its grossly negative to my health. Hell I nearly died in 2021 from complications with diabetes. But the pure facts are food is one of the few things in this world that bring me joy these days and I'd rather die at 40 with something that makes me happy than die at 90 spending decades miserable because I wasn't allowed the things that bring me joy. If I'm constantly unhappy whats the point of living? Just to mark time? Naw.
I don't think that's his reason. I think he simply has no self control and if there's food he's going to eat it. He's got no concept of other people and how his actions affect us. He never puts any money towards groceries and then he eats most of it himself. It's just frustrating to go out and buy $100 if food just to have nothing to eat a day later.

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TopicPost ITT and we'll see if I remember who you are.
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 9:05:45 PM
#28
Present.

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TopicWrite your name on the CE wall of fame.
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 6:55:21 PM
#3
Where's the wall of lame?

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TopicYou are now imagining a large spider sitting on your tongue
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 5:54:09 PM
#8
Kiyune posted...
severe arachnophobe
This. Imagining this literally hurt my chest because how tense I got. Thanks for that...

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TopicThe Lonely Users Club
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 5:52:05 PM
#5
*Flashes forever alone badge*

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TopicDo you wear a name tag/tape for work?
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 5:44:35 PM
#8
Yeah, first name only. I usually forget it at home though. It's no big deal though, no one wears them except a couple of us when we remember.

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TopicHow to tell someone they're eating too much?
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 5:35:33 PM
#13
Action53 posted...
Is this the same cousin you used to tell stories about?
It is indeed.

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TopicHow to tell someone they're eating too much?
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 5:10:04 PM
#10
kangolcone posted...
IDK man, I never asked my cousins about their poop. Maybe thats commonplace in your family.
I admit, parasites are my second theory. Currently I'm just hoping it's a bad habit that he needs to learn to control. Idk how we'd ever get him to the doctor to check for tapeworms or anything.

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TopicHow to tell someone they're eating too much?
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 4:49:28 PM
#7
MagicalPrincess posted...
Have them watch this:

https://youtu.be/JwOKnmOhSDo
I might give that a shot. Doubt it'll make a difference, as he feels he's unique and things like that don't apply to him.

shadowsword87 posted...
Tell them "woah there big guy, slow down" and then pat their stomach.
The glaring alone will kill you.
He got an attitude last night when I asked how many eggs he cooked. I just asked "how many eggs is that?"

kangolcone posted...
Its either a physical issue such as a tapeworm or a mental health issue.

Neither of which is likely to be tackled through simple conversation. Im not saying you shouldnt try anything, but there isnt an easy way to discuss it nor is it an easy change to make.
He is mentally challenged, so it's very difficult to get through to him. Especially over things that he really wants to do. He'll just keep doing it. He's always been aggressive over food and hogging it, but it was never this bad. Now he has a job and comes out with a load of groceries every night that's just for himself.

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TopicHow to tell someone they're eating too much?
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 4:28:33 PM
#2
I also forgot that he sliced up one these big onions and put in the eggs and ate the whole thing. This alone should fill someone up.
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/5/5/AAOK_sAAC203.jpg

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TopicHow to tell someone they're eating too much?
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 4:21:33 PM
#1
My cousin has become very gluttonous. He's always eaten a lot, but he keeps pushing it further and it's getting to the point where it's concerning.

He was making fun of a friend of his that eats 4k calories a day and does heavy workouts. So we told him he easily eats that much and he called us liars. So we added up how much he'd eaten that day and it was over 12k. He doesn't work out or anything, so it's just a massive intake because he likes to eat.

His midnight "snack" last night was literally 6 eggs, 2 packs of ramen noodles, 5 boiled hotdogs and 2 small bags of potato chips. He generally goes back for seconds of the same amount. His breakfast this morning was another full dozen of eggs(he bought 3 dozen yesterday).

He's starting to gain weight, and I'm concerned over potential future health issues he may develop, but he gets super angry if anything is said to him and still just does as he pleases. The rest of us barely get any food at dinner because he'll literally stack 3-4 plates full of food for himself just so we won't get it. This is getting ridiculous and I don't know how to bring it up in a way that won't upset him and will still get him to understand that he's just eating way too much.

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Topichow many fucks do you give about the new HZD game
KogaSteelfang
01/27/22 12:22:11 AM
#32
I liked the first one, and the second one looks much better. So yeah, I'm looking forward to it.

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TopicThis moment made me tear up in Spiderman No Way Home "Spoilers"
KogaSteelfang
01/26/22 11:10:17 PM
#5
Everyone in the theatre all went "awww..."

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TopicMy girlfriend brought home a kitten
KogaSteelfang
01/26/22 9:50:29 PM
#12
Meowamoto.

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TopicYou teleport to whatever location this website gives you.
KogaSteelfang
01/26/22 5:33:46 PM
#97
Athens, Greece.
I think I could manage.

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TopicWhat's the dumbest thing you've ever done in the pursuit of pussy?
KogaSteelfang
01/26/22 11:31:46 AM
#36
monkmith posted...
my housecat slipped out after a snowstorm and i tracked it through a few neighbors yards before finding it stuck in the snow, had to carry it back as it bitched at me for not letting it freeze to death like it wanted.
Aw. lol

Anyway, I let it slip at work at I liked a coworker. It got spread around and she ended up finding ways to swap shifts, and leave early so she wouldn't see me. Eventually she just transferred to an entirely different site.


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TopicIs the majorly of CE fat?
KogaSteelfang
01/26/22 12:05:34 AM
#7
I'm getting there. Starting working on it though.

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TopicThe segasaturn AMA part II
KogaSteelfang
01/25/22 10:57:46 PM
#2
segasaturn posted...
Yep it's me, I'm me!
Ernest T?

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TopicWhat was your first Final Fantasy experience?
KogaSteelfang
01/25/22 4:00:22 PM
#39
FFI on NES.
I was little and my cousin brought it over. He let me play it till you clear the castle at the start. He told me I had beaten the boss of the whole game so I was satisfied and let him play again. lol

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TopicYou die but have the option to reincarnate and do life over as the opposite sex
KogaSteelfang
01/25/22 11:20:14 AM
#36
Pass on. It looks like we'd reincarnate as our own past selves. I have no interest in reliving the worst years of my life, with the potential for a new and worse type of abuse on the table.

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TopicBeing 17 and only being 5'5" is so painful
KogaSteelfang
01/24/22 12:23:56 AM
#21
I graduated with a guy that was like 5'1. He was just tiny in general. He was actually one of the more popular people in my class.

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Topic9/10 people are shit human beings, per sources.
KogaSteelfang
01/23/22 11:25:30 AM
#9
Yep.

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TopicHow MANY Letters are there in your LAST NAME??
KogaSteelfang
01/23/22 12:22:33 AM
#9
Bishop_Hastur posted...
9


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TopicBoba Fett
KogaSteelfang
01/23/22 12:19:57 AM
#10
When he goes on a fetch quest, he's Boba Gett.

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TopicI really like Encanto
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 9:36:28 PM
#12
It was the same for me. Watched it on Disney+ and thought it was alright. The longer I thought about it, the more it grew on me. Now I really like it.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 9:32:49 PM
#227
haloiscoolisbak posted...
downward spiral of anxiety and telling myself girls would be freaked out by it, and the older i got the more impossible it all felt
I don't think many people fully comprehend what this means, or the effect it has on people.

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TopicWill you have a GF/SO by Valentines Day 2022?
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 7:27:02 PM
#2
lol no

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TopicAre you physically attractive?
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 7:22:44 PM
#12
Nah. Not really.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 6:28:37 PM
#212
KingWhiteKnight posted...
I assume he had a rough start and then gave up. I'm scared I will end up a 40 year old virgin. Things only get harder as you get older. Way less opportunities
Yeah, I'm currently 38. That 40 mark is fast approaching.

You've still got plenty of time though. If you do decide to go the prostitute route, be safe.

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TopicWhat do you do when you feel stressed, angry, or frustrated?
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 6:17:42 PM
#19
Cave into escapism, hard. There's a reason video games are my biggest hobby. I need to replace my thoughts with some sort of distraction, and taking an active role in a fictional world suits that need. Still allowed to think and consider things, but it's geared towards the problems in game, which I do actually have the power to solve.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 5:39:36 PM
#198
WingsOfGood posted...
But it can.

If you have a girl who loves you, sometimes she will help you deed. Do you not believe that does not give you an emotional boost?

Anyways, if you believe that, then what is stopping you?
Yes, because like you said it's coming from the emotional connection between the two. In this case though, there is no second person.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 5:34:23 PM
#194
WingsOfGood posted...
Do you think deeding can give you an emotional boost?
No, but I still believe a prostitute is a person and not a toy. Sex with one would still be actual sex, and what he gets out of it is solely dependant on what he wants out of it. Sure, it's not not the same as someone choosing to be with him. It'd be an intimate physical connection that could relieve some stress though.

Edit: Besides, you keep reiterating that "sex is sex" so with that in mind, sex with a prostitute is equal to sex in a relationship.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 5:30:59 PM
#191
WingsOfGood posted...
That is not what I said.
Sex is sex. Meaning comes from who you do it with and why.
So, my original comment still stands. That a person can indeed get an emotional boost from losing their virginity.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 5:27:31 PM
#188
WingsOfGood posted...
Did you not realize this thread is soley about hookers?
Yes, then you started telling me all sex is meaningless.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 5:23:21 PM
#185
WingsOfGood posted...
Do you believe a hooker gives intimate connection?
No, never said it would.
Have also mentioned 2 times that I believe using a prostitute could be potentially harmful to ones mental health before mentioning that a normal encounter might have positive ones.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 5:05:31 PM
#176
WingsOfGood posted...
It is not the sex that gives you the positive effect bro. It is that someone chose to have it with you because they generally are into you.

This is lost in paying for it and sometimes even in casual flings.
So, it's not that sex is meaningless like you've been saying. Empty sex just for sex sake is meaningless. I wouldn't argue against that.

I'm saying that I believe finding that connection with someone and having an intimate encounter with someone would be a boon to a person's general mental well being. Would it not? At least a more positive than a life of loneliness never having been with anyone.


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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 4:22:49 PM
#159
bsp77 posted...
Sex with a prostitute means nothing, at least to me. When you and someone decide to have sex because you both want to, that means something.
That's what I'm saying. Everyone is saying it's meaningless and changes nothing regardless of how. That wouldn't change a person even a little? Going from extreme loneliness and hopelessness, to having something like that. It wouldn't improve their mindset at all? No confidence boost or self esteem, or even relief to just lose the label?

WingsOfGood posted...
You are exaggerating. Slighty incompatible isn't the same as the partner no longer has sex with them.
That's literally how they explained it. It's been a long ago though, but they were arguing that sex means nothing, then turned around and said they'd dumb their soul mate in an instant if they weren't 100% being sexually satisfied.

WingsOfGood posted...
Sex is important to maintain that kind of relationship. Problem is that you are not saying that is what sex is. You think it is something magical that makes you super confident and a better person.
Many people have sex and are still insecure and hate themselves fyi.
I don't think it's magic at all. I was thinking that being in a situation where you succeed at having it would have a generally more positive effect than a situation where you don't.

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TopicThinking of just buying a hooker to lose my virginity (turning 29 this year)
KogaSteelfang
01/22/22 4:09:42 PM
#143
[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I've seen posts from people claiming it means nothing, who then said they'd instantly dump their soul mate who they love with all their heart if they were slightly incompatible sexually. Certainly sounds like it's important/meaningful if one would sacrifice a perfect partner over it.

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