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| Topic | Parents of trans 5-year-old post heartwarming story of child's transition |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/22/21 8:17:43 AM #256 | CyricZ posted... Anyway, the article started with the first indication, which was a mundane argument over getting dressed. There's always a first indication, and they shared that. Fair. Though Im sure you understand why folks would not agree wanting to wear shorts over skirts is not an indication of much (even if phrased as I dont feel like me as the child did.). But for the parents, I get it. CyricZ posted... Their child is non-binary, so "son" is incorrect in this context. So would folks just say child? Theres no word for the type of offspring yet? Is Clark innately more nonbinary of a name than Claire? CyricZ posted... Is that based on the child not being ready to deal with that, or the parent not being ready to deal with that? Id say both. Parents feel the kid is not ready to deal with what sexual/romantic relationships entail, and also dislike discussing it. CyricZ posted... The mom didn't decide her child was non-binary. Her child did. Do you feel the mom contributed to the child making the decision? If she gets a specific book after observing the child didnt feel right in skirts (assuming no other observations were worthy of note since the article excludes them), would it be unreasonable to feel she could have influenced the belief in other ways? I dont know how the child would know, I guess. They dont feel like a boy. However, I think its more likely they are not a feminine girl as the alternative answer. Based on the article. Im not sure where non-binary comes in as the solution without outside interference. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Parents of trans 5-year-old post heartwarming story of child's transition |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/22/21 7:10:42 AM #254 | hockeybub89 posted... When you pretend the rest of LGBTQ community doesn't exist just to concern troll about trans people. I wont be responding to you because as I said: cuttin_in_farm posted... I want to at least commend @CyricZ for actually having discourse. You are too close-minded. CyricZ posted... From there my intent was to address the idea of what "gender identity" is, and the fact of the matter is that it's not something one can pluck out of a brain and hold in their hand. All we can know about it as a concept is how people have reacted to it within themselves. The only reasoning we have for it existing is there being people with whom their sex and their gender identity are at odds. They have told us this and we have at times disbelieved them and at other times believed them. If I understand you correctly, I would say I agree? I think the issue folks are having in this topic is the specific article not giving a clear picture of what the now son was dealing with. They literally start the revelation with not wanting to wear skirts. Which will immediately cause the audience to be skeptical. I dont think most people disbelieve adults being transgender. But the fact that kids are under so much societal pressure from so many things? People tend to not trust kids as quickly. This includes orientation based things. Its why parents often times say you shouldnt even be talking about that if their kid says they have a bf/gf at school. Straight or not. Gender is harder since youre kinda forced to bring it up regardless of age. But I think the parents in the article, at minimum, are highlighting the wrong reasons to think their daughter wanted to be a boy. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Parents of trans 5-year-old post heartwarming story of child's transition |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/22/21 6:40:53 AM #247 | I want to at least commend @CyricZ for actually having discourse. Everyone else is just tossing out alts or tranphobes left and right because they cant fathom people not understanding from a point unrelated to bigotry. I feel the same way as @HHH_is_the_game , but they seem to speak in a much more palatable manner, so I was hoping that discussion would enlighten me. I also see a bit of contradiction with how gender is approached nowadays. And tbh, I also feel a but envious. There were countless times I felt like I wasnt black or felt like this wasnt who I was. I didnt like black shows. Didnt really connect with other black kids. Wasnt a fan of black music. The things and people I enjoyed were white typically. It took me a long time to become okay with myself and my own identity. But it feels like the concept of identity is different for gender unlike everything else. Its like you cant be a feminine boy or a masculine girl. Call me transphobic or whatever. But the T in the LGTBQ community is the only one I dont fully understand. And the amount of aggression folks show in support online doesnt really help. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | It's entirely possible to change who you are as a person |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/21/21 6:56:37 AM #45 | Personally, I dont think people can change. Angry people will always be angry. Emotional always emotional etc. But that doesnt mean you cant change how you behave. Shy people can learn to flex that talk to strangers muscles. Its obviously harder than someone outgoing. And even getting used to it wont eradicate the shyness trait. But practice makes perfect. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Holy fuck, Sofia Gomez was in Florida earlier dis yea |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/21/21 6:45:55 AM #8 | Raikuro posted... Is this topic about raping someone The mods wont do anything about it. Because only TCs annoying ass gets the luxury of context when mods decide to moderate. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | 30 year olds outlook on credit cards |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/21/21 6:41:42 AM #108 | project_night posted... I have 8 credit cards atm and honestly dislike my Capital One card for only one reason, they are strict as hell about raising my credit limit. I got the card when I was pretty young, nearly 15 years ago, and my current limit is still only $600. It has only increased once, and I've been rejected for increase after requesting it, lol. All my other cards range from 8k to 15k now. My current credit score is ~820 with very little debt and no missed payments ever on any credit/loan (I almost always pay full balance every month). My liquid assets are now above 500k. $600 credit limit, SMH. WTF Capital One, lol. Capital One is unique in that they only raise your limit if you are consistently using the credit you have towards the limit. So youll have to get your usage to like ~$500 before they will raise it. To $700 lol. I personally dislike them for that reason too. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | As much as I love Thor: Ragnarok, I would love it more if... |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/20/21 7:19:56 AM #5 | I think we lose the character moments of the guy with Des and Troy if we never go back. And its not Thor 3s fault Thor 1 and 2 failed to build emotional attachment to the other characters who died. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Is it wrong to send an abusive ex a thank you card 10 years after you first met |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/19/21 10:27:31 AM #8 | Its alright to be thankful of the people youve encountered in your life. Be it testing you, supporting you, or changing you. Who you are today is a direct result of all the social relationships youve had. If you are truly thankful, you dont need to tell anyone. It can be a personal relief. If there is any vindictive reason behind why you wish to, I definitely say no even more. Its not a slap in the face to your current wife to think it, but trying to reach out most definitely wouldnt be very respectful imo. Just keep it to yourself. I say. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Man is BANNED from United Airlines for wearing WOMEN'S UNDERWEAR as a MASK!! |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/17/21 2:09:30 AM #7 | Full Throttle posted... Moments after he was booted, 2 other trailer trash men exited in support where one said "Did he just get kicked off for wearing a mask? I'm out of here, forget it. i'm out of here" Do do people just book flights for fun? These two didnt need to be somewhere? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Come up with corny lines that are perfect for movies. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/16/21 11:23:49 AM #15 | gunplagirl posted... "When they said there was treasure here, I didn't think I'd find out it was you all along" Did you think this one up? I could totally see this in a movie. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Come up with corny lines that are perfect for movies. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/16/21 8:13:06 AM #5 | You need to rest if you wish to see your dreams. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Your building is burning. You can only save ONE: Your dog, or a random toddler. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/16/21 8:11:21 AM #134 | Are are there just new posters every month? How does this topic consistently blow up every time??? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | TikTok doctor: Average penis length is probably much shorter than you think |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/15/21 2:44:42 PM #19 | Lost_All_Senses posted... The way that picture is took makes 5 inches looks huge. Is that on purpose? The lady is extending her arm into the foreground, so the measurement looks larger since shes not holding it to her body to compare realistically. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | This guy is disproportionately good looking to how bitter he is towards women |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/15/21 7:22:44 AM #8 | Noumas posted... Yeah maybe he's just acting that role and he's not actually that bitter? No, he is that. He tries to trade sex for women being on his podcast and is currently sending fraudulent copyright strikes to silence channels from criticizing him. Hes also not really that good looking. Hes just in shape. Which boosts dudes looks artificially. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | why do people argue with posters instead of just ignoring/blocking them? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/15/21 7:18:11 AM #19 | The act of debating or arguing is not, by itself, a negative activity. I never really take things here THAT seriously. Anyone who actually gets personally invested to where they must block is odd to me. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Billie Eilish: "I cried, threw up, and had crazy shits before SNL" |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/15/21 12:46:56 AM #43 | I find it weird grown adults constantly joke about her looking like goldeen as if its funny the 100th time. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Satire website likely to get shut down after making fun of trans women |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/14/21 7:22:10 PM #54 | hockeybub89 posted... "It's a joke. Jokes are funny." This is a strawman and purposely misrepresenting the joke. Like, the joke itself sucks. We dont have to force arguments into it. Tbh, if there wasnt a pic of Rudolph having a dopey smile and a pink wig, there would be no humor at all. But the picture by itself is funny to me. The captiond joke makes it kinda lame though. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Where can I promote my YouTube link online? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/14/21 7:05:56 AM #9 | StarsOfCCTV posted... Get lucky with the Youtube Algorithm and have one of your videos go nuts. This, tbh. Reach out to folk sin similar genres for collabs, and make sure you post consistently if you want to promote a channel. Dunno how to help if you only want one specific video promoted. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Amazon victim's last words to family; "They won't let us leave." |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/13/21 6:48:26 PM #90 | [LFAQs-redacted-quote] No. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Amazon victim's last words to family; "They won't let us leave." |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/13/21 6:40:17 PM #77 | [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Get out and find a ditch. Thats your best option if caught driving and cannot get to safety. Trying to juke tornadoes is moronic, and dont even give people the idea. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Amazon victim's last words to family; "They won't let us leave." |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/13/21 6:31:12 PM #71 | A dude legit said just drive right angles to dodge! like its a fucking AoE in a video game. I didnt realize how ignorant people are of tornadoes. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | 20 y/o Florida TEACHER is ARRESTED for having SEX with a 16 y/o BOY!! |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/13/21 6:29:26 PM #10 | accord posted... gross. usually these news involves young cute teachers, but this one looks like a man. CE will allow this, ofc. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | JK Rowling would make an interesting case study |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/12/21 9:15:25 PM #5 | FortuneCookie posted... How can a person fight for equality on so many fronts and still be so bigoted on another? Youre very naive if you think this is unusual in any way. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Do you look down on people who use the block list? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/12/21 2:53:41 PM #25 | Vyrulisse posted... Depends on the reason. If they are being harassed by a person then fine but if they just block people that say things they don't like then that's pussy nonsense. Take that shit to Twitter hugboxes. This. Verbatim. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Killing dogs in Last of Us Part II and Ghost of Tsushima... |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/12/21 1:25:21 PM #17 | cuttin_in_farm posted... Animals, especially dogs/horses (who are seen as companions to a lot of folk), are put in the same category as children. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Killing dogs in Last of Us Part II and Ghost of Tsushima... |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/12/21 1:18:40 PM #12 | hockeybub89 posted... Why are they bothered more killing virtual animals than virtual people? Animals are for the most part innocent and follow what instincts/their masters tell them to. Animals, especially dogs/horses (who are seen as companions to a lot of folk), are put in the same category as children. Games rarely have you go around killing kids. And if an animal can be killed, its typically scary predator animals like bears or wolves. So when domestic dogs can be hurt, it bothers people. Adult humans dont have the same effect. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I need to stop trusting fast food workers to actually do their job |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/11/21 10:26:18 AM #6 | wiiking96 posted... Fast food workers dont get paid enough to always get everything right. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Cute girl: "What's your favorite Bible verse?" |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/11/21 9:35:27 AM #8 | Jabodie posted... Ezekiel 23:20 Bro, you posted a minute after the OP. Did you have that one memorized? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Battlepasses are fucking stupid and need to go away. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/10/21 8:36:30 PM #25 | What is a battlepass? Is it like a season pass in fighting game? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Taking 2 shots before a date is always a good idea |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/10/21 6:58:32 PM #6 | specialkid8 posted... Alcohol does not lower my inhibitions. This. I just become more aware of them and anxious tbh. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Chrissy Teigen criticized for taking a bath with her kids |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/10/21 6:41:44 PM #118 | I was bathed by my parents but dont recall bathing with them. As a result, I think bathing with your kids is weird as fuck. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | What is your favorite cartoon with LGBTQ+ representation? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/09/21 4:47:43 AM #53 | Gr8M8 posted... There's also a trans character in the Atlas arc. Bro, two of the title protagonists are gay/bi. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | BLM calls for boycott of "white companies" during holiday shopping. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/09/21 1:10:55 AM #137 | Im kinda skimming the topic here But Whats the problem? If a group of people want to only buy from black-owned stores let them? How is this any different than people not buying things that are outsourced? Help the disadvantaged and neglected group by not buying from the majority. Hell, some people refuse to buy from giants like WalMart for a similar reason. I know some of yall foam at the mouth once blm is mentioned. And tbh, a few posts in here are thinly veiled racism. But what is the problem exactly? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Cap was wrong(Captain America: Civil War spoilers) |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/08/21 5:41:56 PM #41 | --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Democrats fall flat with 'Latinx' language |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/08/21 1:57:48 PM #26 | Tyranthraxus posted... It's white people who can't speak Spanish telling South/Central/Mexican American immigrants how to speak their own language & what to call themselves. Ig this is what always bothered me. Its like wanting to change the word boy or girl. Latino specifically refers to a guy (or a group with guy(s)). I dont see why there would need to be a new term created. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Do you give restaurants tips when you just pick up an order? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/08/21 11:47:42 AM #29 | MrDrMan posted... I have to say I really wish people would stop disrespecting other peoples jobs. Theres a little more that goes into it than just put food in bags. Enlighten us what else it entails. I handled to-go orders when hosting at TGI Fridays. It was put food in bags. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I genuinely despise happy people. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/06/21 11:50:53 PM #12 | One_Day_Remains posted... Where do you think it stems from? I just find life a bit meaningless ig. I wish I was religious so that there could be a point. But as it stands, Im just an envious person. I tried very hard to follow the rules and be respectful. But it ultimately gets me a trivial life. Meanwhile people in power are selfish and those with opportunities waste it. I just get very deflated ig. I wih I could be blissfully happy for folks ig. Just another problem to fix. I just always saw myself as a good guy. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I genuinely despise happy people. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/06/21 11:22:33 PM #10 | It was after a therapy session that it dawned on me. Like, Im constantly pretending so that people think Im normal. But I hate it when people are doing good or having a good time. Its not something Ive had ig. I always try to play it off. But Im realizing that I am never actually happy for my friends. I just pretend to be because thats the right thing to do. I dunno. This is a big deal for me. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I genuinely despise happy people. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/06/21 11:05:57 PM #1 | I think Im starting to realize Im a bad person. I genuinely get annoyed when other people are happy or having fun. Its just hitting me. Huh. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Woman offended man stares at her while she exercises. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/06/21 10:48:20 PM #62 | One_Day_Remains posted... Why is seemingly nobody able to differentiate watching a video on a screen and staring at someone in person These are the same lame posters who defend that mommy milker bullshit. They are incapable of understanding. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Ever wonder why women don't choose nice guys? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/06/21 10:41:35 PM #13 | Rharyx211 posted... These "nice guys" the internet loves to sympathize with are usually guys who think that being generically nice will prompt fate to hand them a woman like it's a fairy tale or something. Its always weird people frame this as a negative. Since like, thats the expectation of women. They just sit and let suitors come to them. Its ironic that the mantra of respecting women and not being overly aggressive is a contributing factor in why nice guys dont pursue hard enough. And women are obviously conditioned to not pursue. Its all so interesting. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Black employees are perceived more professional when mirroring White norms |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/06/21 2:10:32 PM #36 | I know when I first entered the work force (restaurant) I was told Id have to cut my hair since an afro wasnt professional. Nevermind the plethora of white dudes with long hair. Specifically mine was the problem. Especially since I feel if you ever find a stray hair that fell, its always a straight blonde one. So they couldnt even play the sanitation card imo. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Netflix romantic comedy that fucks over Asian guys |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/06/21 7:39:54 AM #14 | I mean it seems obvious from the trailer that the protag and catfisher will end up together by the end anyway. Love doesnt have to be perfect, it just has to be honest. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | It's December. Post snow/ice/cold video game music |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/05/21 4:48:10 PM #17 | Bravery Default has a phenomenal snow city theme: https://youtu.be/4su84g-dXYo --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Why are fathers ok with deir daughters doing dis marriage tradition? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/04/21 12:17:31 PM #14 | AlCalavicci posted... For those that don't know, this is the wedding garter/garter toss tradition. The husband reaches in and takes off the garter from her thigh, and then sometimes throws it to the other bachelors at the wedding, kinda like the bride throws the bouquet to the single ladies g0ldie posted... basically, everyone gathers around as the bride sits and the groom goes underneath her gown to reach for a garter that's high up her thigh and pull it off. That seems dumb lol. But thanks for explaining. Never heard nor seen this before. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Why are fathers ok with deir daughters doing dis marriage tradition? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/04/21 12:13:02 PM #11 | I dont even know what is happening. I assume this is a white wedding thing? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | You can be a male in perfect health, and still not be good enough. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/03/21 3:39:51 PM #10 | Fony posted... it's like dudes who cry about how much attention girls receive, but are the ones showering girls with attention online and on apps without getting anyhting in return. look at this place when a new girl reveals herself here or when one of the girls starts sucking a new dick. entertainment for years on average. This. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
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