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| Topic | C/D: men should have higher standards |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/03/21 7:49:34 AM #6 | KeeperOfShadows posted... We don't? No. They dont. Look at OF subscriptions, dating apps, instagram simping and how much dudes spend just for female attention. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Have you experienced road rage? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/02/21 1:31:36 PM #20 | Brake checking is a category of road rage, for anyone trying to act composed and cool. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Is it weird to be nostalgic to be the beginning of the pandemic? |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/02/21 11:03:02 AM #4 | I remember finding toilet paper was like a lotto. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | WNBA star Liz Cambage launches OF page. |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/02/21 7:01:09 AM #47 | The amount of dudes stupid enough to literally pay someone who already makes more money than the average person just to see basic anatomy is crazy. I can never understand it. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Just closed our second house! |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/01/21 12:51:52 PM #6 | TC is objectively one of the cooler posters here. Cant even lie. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Call for rent |
| cuttin_in_farm 12/01/21 12:33:54 PM #24 | Call for rent is like job postings without pay being listed. It just is there to frustrate the applicants. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | super saiyan 2 turning teen gohan was the best scene in dbz |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 4:44:31 PM #18 | berlyman101 posted... when Gohan turned ssj2 against cell he completed a character arc that was years in the making. What arc? He raged against Raditz. He raged against Freeza. He rages again against Cell. What arc? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | super saiyan 2 turning teen gohan was the best scene in dbz |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 4:39:36 PM #15 | jeffhardyb0yz posted... From some dookie ass bs power up. Dude was a wimp who stopped training and got weaker than he was 7 years ago. Now hes some confident ass dude over the course of 2 days. Hard to buy As opposed to him getting a bs Im mad powerup after a robot he has had zero interactions with dies? Now hes just immediately stronger than the two grown adult Saiyans who trained for the same time period as him? Gohans gimmick has always been stupid. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | super saiyan 2 turning teen gohan was the best scene in dbz |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 3:50:24 PM #3 | Tbh, That final fight against Kid Buu was the best. Vegeta tanking and finally coming to terms that Goku is better. Mr. Satan redeeming himself convincing Earth to give their energy and saving Vegeta. Goku actually defeats the enemy with Spirit Bomb. People shit on the Buu saga, but it had the actual best moments in the series. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Based on usernames, we guess what others do for a living. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 1:11:17 PM #16 | Spooffie posted... Fulltime Youtuber making abridged content. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 1:05:57 PM #39 | Omnislasher posted... How about some kind of club/sport/hobby activity that gets you socializing with people? I tried joining a rowing club last summer. But I think they took wayyyy more seriously than I anticipated. The coach would get upset if I didnt know the name of boats, and people would scream if we didnt lift the boats from the water correctly. It was really awkward. I just need to keep searching I think lol. RedLuigi posted... My advice is this: foster a curiosity about people and their life stories because they were probably waiting to meet someone exactly like you I think your mindset is super insightful. I am curious in nature, but I often times remain reticent to avoid annoying folks or being seen as dumb. I think youre right that there may be a bunch of folk out there who are willing to share. I just think in this day and age, its often forgotten how little people talk and share with others without devices. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 12:57:25 PM #36 | a-c-a-b posted... Making friends isn't hard but you gotta try. Sometimes you'll have to step outside your comfort zone, but it'll be worth it if it works out. Well, I guess its moreso I dont tend to escalate so quickly to hanging out? Like, one issue I have is that I cant befriend guys nearly as easily as I can women. I think its because I grew up with a lot of homophobia, so Im still subconsciously trying to sort through interacting with guys without being very distant or gay. Women just tend to get the wrong idea, since I genuinely would like to hang out platonically, but they assume otherwise. Like, I can talk pretty easily to new people. I make jokes with cashiers or people I walk by when appropriate. But escalating it from acquaintance to friend is hard for me to transition to if I only have a short period of time with someone. Its why I wish I had my current confidence back in school. Im still not super social, but I can hold my ground much more effectively. I mean, I can try just doing it. Whats the worst that can happen. If it works for you, must mean people can do it. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 12:38:39 PM #32 | a-c-a-b posted... We started talking and I asked if he wanted to come back to my place for some beers. He did and we became friends. Hm seems like something I wouldnt be willing to do lol. Interesting you feel comfortable doing so though. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 12:24:15 PM #30 | a-c-a-b posted... Most of the folks I hang out with these days are people I met in my 20s years after I was out of school. Where/how did you meet them? TheShadowViper posted... Focus on activities you enjoy and then join groups doing those activities. eh easier said than done. Most hobbies arent something you do with a group. Like, I like to write, but dont see how that would work in a group since I dont care to read. Reminds me of when I was a freshman in college and I saw a group of people playing Tekken in the campus center. I waited my turn to play and immediately got a double perfect on the guy supposedly beating everyone. I immediately realized even though everyone enjoyed games there, we didnt enjoy it the same way. Finding like minded individuals is way more important than just sharing interests. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 12:13:27 PM #23 | Guide posted... Depends on what you mean by young. I had no social skills up until I was about 15-16, when the relevant brainparts finally caught up. If anything, socializing is one of my primary skillsets, now. Id say once you hit mid 20s and are out of school, but also jobs that hire 30 people per training class. Ive legit thought about going back to school just to meet people. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 12:11:43 PM #22 | KogaSteelfang posted... I'm in the same boat tc. My social game is dead. You at least seem like a good person based on your posts here. Im an asshole, so I at least deserve it lol. CyricZ posted... It's got three "channels". The dating channel, the BFF channel, and a "bizz" channel for making business-related connections. The more you know. Might give it a shot. WarfireX posted... tc, no offense but i wouldnt take any advice on dating/making friends/socializing from some of the regulars here With a sig like yours, dunno if I can trust you. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 11:05:01 AM #15 | CyricZ posted... Have you considered giving Bumble BFF a try? I have a work associate who met some real nice people from it That said, she's female, and I wonder if it's harder for men to connect through it. Hm I have not, actually. I thought it was just a dating app? Notti posted... Maybe try speed dating. Id be willing to try this tbh. I doubt much could come from it given my mundane resume, but who knows. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 10:55:49 AM #12 | Flockaveli posted... Uhh you ever just try being good looking? People walk right up to you and start talking. I think I look pretty good. Id say a 8.5/10 face. I just need to bulk up. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 10:55:04 AM #11 | Feline_Heart posted... You still have lots of ways to meet people. You could join a gym, learn a martial art, take an acting or dance class, join an adult sports league, start a band or try out any other group activity that's related to your interests Yea, Im trying to get in shape so that I could join some sort of physical activity group. I have friends who play tennis with me or hike every now and then, but we dont really encounter new faces. I definitely dont think its impossible. But I just always think If I had just been outgoing in school, things would be easier. DepreceV2 posted... This. Also, dont try so hard to make friends. The less you try, the more friends you will probably make as long as you are just around people. Yea, people tend to like me easily too. I just dont run into other young folk often lol. I dunno what to do with like, a middle aged person ig. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 10:49:55 AM #6 | ROOTFayth posted... just grind, gotta level up to catch up Yea, but I was focusing too much on my vitality stat. I dont have the dps for most of these bosses. Heartomaton posted... Correction, people who didn't try to be social young do not get fucked, but not for lack of trying. Well played. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I feel like if you didn't try being social young, you get fucked as an adult. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 10:45:04 AM #1 | I was an awkward, scared loser growing up. Being from an abusive home didnt help. I always let women get away in an attempt to be respectful, which was really just me not shooting my shot. But as Im older, I start to realize having zero lasting networks from school really fucks your chance to meet new friends. Im not a bar goer or clubber. Im not in a church, and I work with oldies. I even tried to find folks I use to know and they all moved out of state and stuff. It really blows tbh. Its like I havent allocated my stats well this save, but cant reset. So Im just forced to continue at a disadvantage because of what I did early on. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Is Chibiusa one of the most annoying characters in anime? |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 10:25:12 AM #6 | Lol. The answer is Zenitsu. Whines. Screeches. Cant even fight. And is apart of the womanizer archetype that Japan thinks is funny. He only appeals to children that think Oh, his voice changes and he is super strong when sleep! Is actually a cool and interesting trait. Its made worse he isnt even aware. So he cant even have the actually interesting dynamic of needing to find out how to knock himself out when he needs to fight. He just gags himself out. Easily the worst. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | "A good movie shouldn't be ruined by a spoiler." |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 10:19:04 AM #15 | EmbraceOfDeath posted... A good twist should retroactively change your perception of the whole movie. Being spoiled ahead of time, you miss out on an entire interpretation of the movie you would have had before the twist. This is the correct answer. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Watching Yu Yu Hakusho |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 10:13:59 AM #21 | Tournament arc is overrated. It reeks of shonen bs and its literally just nonstop fighting. Chapter Black is the best arc since conflicts are handled in a way more interesting way than fight. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Sweden elect its first female Prime-Minister. |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/30/21 9:16:37 AM #82 | Swedish politics sound badass. Imagine a president resigning the first day theyre elected for a strategic advantage. They wouldnt have the balls. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Dave Chappelle called a "Bigot" at recent Q&A |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/28/21 2:10:30 PM #198 | Guys, nobody is claiming the specific kids werent rude. But surely we can all agree the grown ass man is held to a higher standard than high schoolers? And again, he directed his comment to the other 572 kids who were not antagonistic. Are yall serious right now? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Dave Chappelle called a "Bigot" at recent Q&A |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/28/21 10:57:10 AM #108 | Veggeta_MAX posted... Stop trying to make I'm better than you an earth scorching insult. It's not. I didnt say that. However, its a sign of an asshole. Keep in mind, according to the article, the audience wasnt even heckling him. It was apparently just 6 students. Dave received an antagonist callout (lame article doesnt say what it was, so it must have been personal), and Dave proceeds to direct his comment to everyone. Like, Im not claiming his legacy or career will be tarnished. Nothing dramatic. But anyone pulling the Im famous and successful. You never will be, will come off as an asshole. Its lame that he decided to say that instead of anything else. The article said he joked most of the time, so whatever the kid said really got to him. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Dave Chappelle called a "Bigot" at recent Q&A |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/28/21 10:50:19 AM #104 | gatorsPENSbucs posted... Hard to do that when the only part of the story were getting is from people whos feelings got hurt. Bro, what context is needed for: Ranlom posted... Im better than every instrumentalist, artist, no matter what art you do in this school, right now, Im better than all of you. Im sure that will change. Im sure youll be household names soon. To be seen as not being an asshole who reacted way too hard to high schoolers? Hes a tenured comedian. He should be having actually funny retorts. Not whatever that is. He legit got his feelings ruffled if that was what he responded with. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Dave Chappelle called a "Bigot" at recent Q&A |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/28/21 10:35:12 AM #93 | I think there are certain posters who being too adamant about defending Dave. Any celebrity pulling the Im better than you card is being a douchebag. Full stop. Thats Shapiro rage quitting interview levels of revealing your true thoughts. I think its okay to not think Daves special was offensive, but also admit he came out looking like an asshole here. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Dave Chappelle called a "Bigot" at recent Q&A |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/28/21 6:44:29 AM #30 | I one hand, I think what his retort is was extremely shitty. I have immense disdain for the Im better than you stuff. On the other hand, I dont care if people are kids. They all need to learn that they cant just heckle without someone clapping back. Thats just life. Either way, I do think all of this is starting to get to Dave. I genuinely think hes trying to stand his ground, but hes breaking a bit. His retorts werent really comedic. He just seemed to be responding in a knee jerking fashion. Which is unfortunate, because he should have turned things into a joke. Instead it just kinda comes off as him legit being mad at a bunch of kids. I wish there was a video or full transcript. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | a nice little jab at the "pro life" crowd |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/27/21 6:03:09 PM #2 | I feel like this is black and white thinking to assume someone being pro-life automatically supports all those other things. Since the retort had nothing to do with pro-life. But political babble is not very nuanced I spose. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | I dislike the term "people of color". |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 9:21:30 PM #25 | Kloe_Rinz posted... Why cant we just keep it simple and just say white or black Because people of color refers to more than black people --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Don't ghost people. Grow up and be straightforward with them |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 6:58:24 PM #190 | This is what I call a CE Classic. The CE Classic begins with someone (like TC) making a post observing something. Step 2 is for someone to question that someone (TC) into elaborating on their point. Now this is where it gets crazy. Step 3 is multiple posters coming out of the woodworks to try and debate that someone (TC) on different parts of their elaboration. Because each poster is approaching with a slightly different argument, that someone (TC) attempts to answer all the accusations and critique. That someone (TC) honestly doesnt have that much emotional investment in their original post. They are simply defending their stance since the multiple posters will be very quick to attack the someones (TCs) character, intentions, or dating life. Despite having nothing to base it on. Because that poor someone (TC) was simply not ignoring every critique (such irony), it appears that they have been not getting over it for the entire topic. Successfully being gaslit. This, ladies and gents, is the CE Classic. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | GF's mom called her a slut bc we hung out in my car before leaving their house |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 4:10:14 PM #88 | RedLuigi posted... Reality is the trail of social trash you leave behind and youre really acting like it costs you money to legit use words lol I think hes saying reality is just trivial social interactions and that it costs him nothing to say things so hes saying whatever So hes going anime. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Don't ghost people. Grow up and be straightforward with them |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 4:06:34 PM #138 | Fony posted... No. Can you elaborate? Please dont say, Youre not obligated to. What is better, for all parties, about ghosting? Why is I am no longer interested, followed by no more responses not better? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Don't ghost people. Grow up and be straightforward with them |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 3:57:06 PM #128 | To people who ghost Do yall not think sending a message and then ghosting would be better? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | dave is how a mini melt down at his old high school |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 3:40:11 PM #53 | Scarecrow17 posted... Its best to stop responding to that user. This is what he does. What he said. I actually kinda enjoy doing this at this point. Eases the boredom. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | dave is how a mini melt down at his old high school |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 2:35:37 PM #47 | Garth_Marenghi posted... watch his standup special. I did. I dont remember his entire bit. Ill assume paraphrased. Garth_Marenghi posted... an insinuation or allegation about someone that is likely to insult them or damage their reputation. Im glad calling someone a moron is considered a slur. Since you want to be pedantic about this. I think I see what kinda talk people refer to. Which means everyone, including Dave, will continue to stubbornly not try to converse. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | dave is how a mini melt down at his old high school |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 2:05:19 PM #45 | Garth_Marenghi posted... yes he said trans women are have fake vaginas Is this a verbatim quote or a paraphrased one? And regardless, thats not a slur but at the same time and Im not trying to be rude but they dont have ones at birth, yes? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | GF's mom called her a slut bc we hung out in my car before leaving their house |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 2:03:03 PM #71 | Lorenzo_2003 posted... Dont assume that I think highly of the mothers actions. But thats missing the point either way. This is her house and it was a verbal family issue for them to resolve. TC is not family. Hes just some boyfriend like every other boyfriend around the world, trying to get in the daughter pants. He hasnt paid his dues yet, so he has zero leeway. If youre going to show up at someones home and talk shit like he did, you better be prepared to get thrown out figuratively and possibly literally. I dont even have any guy friends who wouldnt have done that to TC the moment he opened his mouth, and I dont know any women who wouldnt expect their spouse to step up and do that. cuttin_in_farm posted... Reading the replies, youd think TC flew off the handle and called the mom a bitch and shit. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | dave is how a mini melt down at his old high school |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 2:00:39 PM #42 | AceMos posted... he factually is wrong thoe he said bigoted things Not everyone thinks this. So youre (not you, just the general you) gonna have to play the game. Every other marginalized community had to. AceMos posted... if a white guy went around saying the N word and refuses to listen to why thats wrong Did Dave call anyone any slurs? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | dave is how a mini melt down at his old high school |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 1:25:22 PM #38 | TheGoldenEel posted... Do you think Ill talk with trans people [about why they are hurt and offended that Im using my massive global platform to normalize rhetoric that at best makes their lives harder, at worst gets them murdered], but Im not interested in learning why i should apologize is a serious statement? No its just TheGoldenEel posted... the point of talking to people about his special would be for him to learn that he is unequivocally in the wrong, This isnt talking? Like, hes made it pretty clear he doesnt think he did anything wrong. So I feel like if both sides think eachother is wrong, you dont think its ironic to then say TheGoldenEel posted... his Idea of talking is to just keep repeating what he said for media attention Isnt that what both sides are doing? Obviously without the media part. Unless thats the big difference. It just seems like people dont want to try and convince Dave of anything just lecture and deplatform. Which doesnt seem likely to work. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Don't ghost people. Grow up and be straightforward with them |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 1:14:10 PM #101 | Fluttershy posted... Its because we are in the era of nobody knowing how to communicate. The irony of this post, holy shit lmao. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | dave is how a mini melt down at his old high school |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 1:13:17 PM #31 | Fluttershy posted... No he's not. Do do yall take everything at face value? Hes clearly mocking the notion lol. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | Don't ghost people. Grow up and be straightforward with them |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 1:12:08 PM #99 | Yefoloogi posted... Ghosting is so common now, people thank me when I reject them. Its because we are in the era of nobody knowing how to communicate. People treat real life like a phone. Like you can just *block* relationships you dont want anymore. Its super weird. Sending a text takes no more effort than ghosting. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
| Topic | dave is how a mini melt down at his old high school |
| cuttin_in_farm 11/26/21 1:09:51 PM #27 | TheGoldenEel posted... the point of talking to people about his special would be for him to learn that he is unequivocally in the wrong, and should apologize Is this a serious post? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. |
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