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| Topic | I've tried Gurren Lagann two separate times, and couldn't get into it |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 6:38:58 PM #11 | im dreading having to watch this, its on the list of what my boy is gonna make me sit thru
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| Topic | How would YOU make a female character |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 6:14:18 PM #13 | i have a hard time writing a character who isnt exactly me
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| Topic | Lockdown really teased us with what life could be like. |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 6:12:58 PM #10 | my lockdown was going into work every day, not getting paid extra, not even for gas. not getting any govt money. not having any energy to sit at home and explore hobbies like middle class tech/finance ppl
it sucked. it sucked and your post makes me bitter as fuck. it sucked. i am an extreme introvert and would have loved the time to play games, cook recipes, learn to sew, tend a garden getting paid huge unemployment money like everyone else i knew instead it sucked. i got less than people who already have a lot more than me it sucked. --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 5:04:16 PM #51 | Dungeater posted...
Dawn (hr lady) replied, i haven't opened it yet. i'm going to wait til after work. ill deff cry if the phone flinches me out of reading what she said lolshe sent me the site i can get the forms from and gave me their helpline phone # cool. ill check out the site --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | LMFAO! Smoking cigarettes INSIDE other people's homes! |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 4:12:01 PM #2 | smoking indoors is so much better than smoking outdoors
man ill never be able to smoke in a bed again. u dont know its the last time when ur doing it sad --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | reminder that Nimona is a TRASH film *spoilers* |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 4:04:09 PM #65 | I'll be patient but only cuz u two have more than earned my trust
i do still like the art a lot --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | reminder that Nimona is a TRASH film *spoilers* |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 3:19:05 PM #63 | Turbam posted...
You gotta keep going!thats fair. i tend to have a good grasp of whether or not ill like a thing, but it couldnt hurt to watch a couple more. they arent long --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | reminder that Nimona is a TRASH film *spoilers* |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 3:14:56 PM #60 | Turbam posted...
Did you start on She-Ra?i watched the first episode. it wasnt for me i didnt make a thread because people act like all i do is hate on stuff, even though i like doing write ups of my thoughts. i just dont wanna validate that anymore. sux --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 2:47:57 PM #50 | thanks dawg. yeah after work ill see what she says. either she attached the form or directed me to where i obtain it myself. either way my therapist will be glad
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| Topic | Better Will Smith role: Men in Black or Independence Day |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 2:46:59 PM #2 | MiB, independence day is mid
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| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 2:44:22 PM #48 | i regret to inform u all that it got even busier and i am straining big time
Dawn (hr lady) replied, i haven't opened it yet. i'm going to wait til after work. ill deff cry if the phone flinches me out of reading what she said lol --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | "I just hope they don't make Snake Eater political" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 2:05:20 PM #204 | oh wait i do use slurs irl technically
my friend group affectionately call each other the f slur, but we never do it in unknown company, cuz we wouldn't wanna make anyone uncomfy or unwelcome --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | "I just hope they don't make Snake Eater political" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 2:03:35 PM #199 | [LFAQs-redacted-quote]
cmon dawg --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | "I just hope they don't make Snake Eater political" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 2:01:08 PM #193 | i would get banned if i talked here how i talk irl
i dont use slurs tho but he prolly uses slurs yea --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 11:25:15 AM #46 | the phone has been so damn busy since my last post and its not bothering me half as much as it normally would
this is good --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 10:49:27 AM #44 | i did it
i fucking did it i sent the email. that was so hard. but now i will be able to obtain the medical leave papers. my therapist will be so proud shout out to those of you who were able to call out the fact that work is consuming my life and bleeding into and poisoning everything else fuck man that was so hard --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | The main character is UGLY! |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 9:33:32 AM #9 | i didnt think of a game
didnt think of any media honestly. for the most part i think ive trained myself out of thinking of ppl as "ugly" theres just those im attracted to and those i am not --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | Do you know how to send a fax? >_> |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 9:28:57 AM #10 | yep. its one of our primary forms of communication
for some reason plus we're mostly corresponding with attorneys and medical providers, who also use it heavily, so --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | do any of these apply to you? |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 8:53:01 AM #9 |
these --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 8:50:23 AM #43 | preciate it dawg. i need to sack up and send this email to HR and get the ball rolling here
--- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/11/24 12:25:51 AM #41 | even so, im uncharacteristically self conscious about relationship venting because i know everyones first instinct is going to be to blame the fact that he's polyam, even though that never posed a problem for us. in my own life thats been misconstrued as the problem a *lot*, and i don't blame ppl for assuming, given the reputation
so im thankful to receive the benefit of the doubt anyway thats enough dwelling for one night. its time i turn in. catch u 2moro --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 10:58:00 PM #39 | ugh. now that its almost bedtime shits weighing on me again
thanks guys for not giving me shit for this, even those who usually dont miss the chance. i know these threads prolly dont seem like theyd help much, but theyre good venting spaces in between therapy sessions. and i do respect the judgment of a good deal of u --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | I swear, bugs I kill simply delete themselves first |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 10:33:33 PM #2 | the hakai...
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| Topic | downloading Floppier Souls mod. gonna be hysterical |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:53:30 PM #3 | getting the drake sword is IMPOSSIBLE
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| Topic | every friend i have who's going to therapy is doing the same as ever, or worse |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:30:53 PM #33 | how do u know they have made no progress
are u a mind-reader too omg --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | I can't be this boring of a person can I? |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:26:50 PM #4 | huh
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| Topic | every friend i have who's going to therapy is doing the same as ever, or worse |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:26:22 PM #26 | who tf gets dopamine from going "thats a shitty thing to say"
bruh what is with the ppl here --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | every friend i have who's going to therapy is doing the same as ever, or worse |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:25:42 PM #24 | i wanna be like
"we arent stupid, we can obviously tell what ur doing" but these topics never get modded so idk --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | every friend i have who's going to therapy is doing the same as ever, or worse |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:14:46 PM #15 | >90% of the way to shitting on therapy
>other ppl come to natural conclusion that youre shitting on therapy >"my stars, what is wrong with you to think i am shitting on therapy??" as opposed to "oh shit, i see why you read it that way, my bad. what i meant was (blah blah)" damn drizzt if i was 17 seconds quicker that woulda been an epic STP --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | every friend i have who's going to therapy is doing the same as ever, or worse |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:12:52 PM #9 | oh this dude is definitely shitting
why so many of u like this what's so hard about bein fr on here --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | every friend i have who's going to therapy is doing the same as ever, or worse |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:11:23 PM #6 | therapy is years of hard work. often just to deal with one or two issues
most people have more than one or two issues math --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | accidentally pushing Y in slay the spire |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 9:10:17 PM #2 | whats Y do
i dont even use my keyboard when i play --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | Male nurses. |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 8:59:51 PM #3 | tf?
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| Topic | "I just hope they don't make Snake Eater political" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 8:35:19 PM #48 | he was probably "joking" but well aware that statements like that act as a rallying rad for his angry and impressionable young base
plausible deniability, best of both worlds OR he genuinely thinks he hasnt been portraying himself as someone that stupid, and truly didnt think through the optics of joking like that either way i dont think he actually meant it, but im sure he's happy to reap the benefit of the spotlight regardless --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | "I just hope they don't make Snake Eater political" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 8:30:03 PM #43 | HighSeraph posted...
Guy with repeated dumb takes about "politics' surprised when people believe joke about having a dumb take about politics. --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | The person you've been trolling on this websight confronts you IRL |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 7:46:35 PM #48 | nvm i troll jerry hellyeah so i can kick his ass on behalf of whomever he's tryin to insult
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| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 7:43:55 PM #38 | alright. im going to draft my HR email
if even ppl here can plainly see that work is now taking its toll on my relationship, thats the sign i need. i should have listened to my therapist sooner --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | The person you've been trolling on this websight confronts you IRL |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 7:32:03 PM #44 | a good many ppl here hate me for w/e reason but im confident id demolish any of em if they tried to fight me
oh. i read this as "who's been trolling u" i dont even troll anyone so this can't happen --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 5:40:16 PM #37 | it does help, i genuinely appreciate you, especially since you so often take the time to sympathize
i think this topic and my reflection have been the push i needed. ill get the Leave papers from HR and go over it with my therapist made it through another work day. really gonna give myself a break tn been going hard in on exercise. gonna just take an extra long warm shower, put on pajamas and slippers, and watch she-ra or something --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 4:05:56 PM #34 | thursday can't come soon enough lol (therapy day)
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| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 2:13:12 PM #33 | lunch break. finally. today has been hard on my brain between all the reflection and the work stuff
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| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 1:12:29 PM #32 | its alright, the fact that u read and posted already means something to me
i know my problem here is somewhat "advice-proof" by nature :v --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 12:54:44 PM #30 | i know about meetup yeah. the thing is, im not trying to meet a lot of people. i dont like people. in fact i hate people. thats another reason i default to tinder, its so easy to vet ppl one by one
and it takes a RARE person for me to actually wanna be friends in person with them. this is another thing i go over in therapy, we don't think this is liable to change thats why clicking/not clicking with this chick was such a drag too lol. never had a fromsoft friend, i was so stoked the weeks we talked [LFAQs-redacted-quote] yeaaaaa NoxObscuras posted... Also, if you feel like you just need a hug, or to be held, have you looked into platonic cuddling? There's sites for both professional cuddlers (that charge money) and amateur cuddlers. I tried it once a few years ago. I felt like I just needed physical contact with someone and it was very relaxing for me.its unfortunately not something im capable of its not so much *any* touch i need. its my partners touch --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 12:20:39 PM #26 | we do talk about it, and its only started bothering me a year and a half in when the long distance has become so hard due to other stressors in my life, namely work
we talk about it a lot actually. generally speaking, this has been the most communicative relationship of my life the difficulty is due in part to the fact that i never considered myself to have physical needs. i never ever got lonely. i never ever craved companionship. but as our relationship progresses, as we visit each other more, as we plan our next steps more i have found that for the first time in my life i am capable of feeling loneliness. and wanting a hug. its really hard to deal with since ive never had these feelings before. and theres no real way to address it in a long distance relationship argh --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 12:11:39 PM #24 | bsp77 posted...
Could it be that you don't actually want to be poly? That could be why you don't want physicality with someone else and also could be why you there is a roadblock with your partner. I could see that you want to be the kind of person who is poly based on your overall lifestyle and worldview but maybe you aren't actually built that way.im not polyam, i consider myself monogamous the extent to which i engage with the polyam community is reading books and asking questions, trying to gain insight and be supportive. i have no desire to practice it myself regarding my partner having other partners and relationships, i feel no jealousy. i dont feel that it comes at the expense of our own relationship. i just do this thing where i compare myself with him, and i think "man it would be so easy for me right now if i was capable of doing that too" its not even that i want to be able to date other people. its more like "man, i can turn on easy mode anytime but i just dont. because its not for me" its difficult to explain --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 12:08:19 PM #23 | god fuck gamefaqs dude. i wrote this whole big thing and it crashes my phone browser. ugh
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| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 11:57:23 AM #21 | NoxObscuras posted...
So, what was the goal in meeting someone on tinder? Just to see if you could manage it? She probably ghosted because she expected some kind of hookup out of a tinder match. Nothing wrong with it, just... expect that kind of reaction again if you meet someone else on there. There's quite a few "I'm not looking for a hookup" people that end up hooking up.tinder is really the only place i know how to make friends, but yes i run into the problem you outlined here. i used to not have a problem casually sleeping around (years ago, plus i was single) and made a lot of friends that started as hookups i do need that break from work its just really hard taking that step. our department is bleeding members left and right and its only getting busier. i understand thats on my employer for understaffing us, but i dont wanna deal with the interpersonal drama that could arise from me disappearing for a month i do think if work was eliminated id be able to tolerate the distance between me and my partner, fwiw [LFAQs-redacted-quote] more the latter. and on his end, he can supplement the LDR with actual irl people, so it doesnt hit him as hard (still hard though) --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 11:46:51 AM #17 | Mistere_Man posted...
Who we are is an ever evolving thing, so there are times one can need to break the norm and reevaluate things as change is how we grow as a person.i appreciate u posting anytime, dont beat yourself up. you gave me something to think about, that makes your post worth it --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
| Topic | so I've asked my partner for a "break" |
| Dungeater 06/10/24 11:43:40 AM #15 | bsp77 posted...
To me, this says you are not investednoted AceMos posted... *hug*i do talk to my therapist about this. i appreciate the sentiment since i kno its genuine coming from u but yeah if i moan about something here its a safe bet im venting and actually do talk about it in therapy --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him |
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