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Its absolutely great.

I want it played at my funeral.

It's definitely not your brain telling you to go.

How's her butt?

are you asking for advice or just blogging

it's a literal "throw everything at the wall to see what sticks"

tbh maybe you should just chill.

Damn, streets cold

I had a ton of work crushes but never really made a move...

yeah you're out. time to move on sadly.

Hmmmm alot of people, seems like alot going on in canada recently. Will check the news later when I get home

iirc he wasn't wild about super hero movies but the OG avengers was super forgettable.

People started pretending they cared about politics

Glad I stay away from that junk.

What do u mean, like whats getting worse?

Changing your schedule just to be less available to her sounds like a passive aggressive bitch move unless your work performance is actually tanking because of this situation.

Ugh. That's so horrible. That's why you only flirt with older women, they don't pull that shit.

After your first grandchild is born, show her this topic and you can both laugh at how silly you both were being during this awkward courting phase

I don't see how TC is needy. Friends with someone for years, she wants more, they have more but it stays undefined and casual. She suddenly pulls away without explanation and he is upset/confused. He sounds like a normal human being.

TC - don't listen to this stuff. You be you. Not saying you have been perfect (none of us are), but you are learning and mean well.

how are you a catch when your clearly needy af?

This is cringe

This is cringe

TC giving off major nice guy vibes

It sounds like you were more invested in her than she was with you. Gotta keep things casual, and if you wanna move a fling into something else just have the conversation. Talk it out. Be open and dont assume a bunch of shit.

Nah I definitely think I'm a catch tho

Sounds like you scared her away with your neediness.

I overthink shit a ton too. Just dont triple text. Texting in general is something you really shouldnt read into much. Especially if you see her face to face at work constantly. Talk it out in person and dont rely on reading into shitty text convos

Sounds like she just likes to flirt and is keeping you in mind as a possibility when shes ready. Otherwise she is just too busy to get attached to anyone. Id just try being distant back and see if that changes anything with her demeanor toward you.

If a girl takes longer than like 24 hours to answer you back and she isn't dead or in an extreme emergency, she's most definitely fucking some other guy

That fucking hurt to read. Like, hair on my neck standing up, embarrassed to be reading it.

Don't go looking for closure. Trust me. You'll never get it. And if you do it'll be a loooong time from now

This is why you don't fuck around with your coworkers

Please respond

and of course you're allowed to be pissed. seeing someone for a couple of months definitely warrants more than a ghosting out of nowhere. that's barely acceptable behaviour for someone who you've had a couple of dates with