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"Yes, but so are movies, cartoons, video games, tv shows, etc. Nah mean, homie?"

"I mean, nostalgia is fun and all, but there's no need to remake games. We should just let games remain in their natural state."

2nd date?

Just give me Hot Pursuit 3

How many lives do cats actually have?

Great, therapy can begin now!

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My weiner was the best weapon. But then patch 3.5 came out...

It's a ferret with its anal glands still in tact, right?

Anxious attachment style comes from childhood. It's specifically derived from an inconsistent parenting style. Sometimes they (your parents) were there for you but sometimes they were not. So now as an adult, you have to act out to get the attention/affirmations. Hypervigilance is a trademark of this style of attachment. In this specific example, you might not be showing your hypervigilance to your date but it is evident here and in your mind.

Largely, the anxious attacher has a negative view of self but a positive view of their partner. This person is also prone to ups and downs within moments. This person places people upon pedestals and yet very quickly this person can remove that person from said pedestal... Only to place them back on the pedestal when their fears are quelled (temporarily through a text/call/interaction that they were desperately waiting for).

Refuge is beyond temporary in an anxiously attached person. It is so fleeting! Fear of abandonment is profound because so much emphasis/potential happiness is placed on the external world. If only the partner knew this before getting invested in a person of this nature. It is a difficult battle. Only when the anxious person looks deeply within and finds inner value will their attachment style change.

You can do it

Don't let anybody tell you differently. OK?

Unimaginable!

Kobe Bean Bryant

William Clinton

Wardell Stephen Curry

ryudo500 posted...

@SrRd_RacinG
do you reallythink ive been anxious and needy in my texts tho? its not like I dont respod back right away

I kinda feel I fucked up not responding back to her yet

we have been haning out for almost 3 months, well last time we hung out was 3 weeks ago from today

I used to behave similarly. I would have considered myself a "covert anxious attacher."

Because it doesn't matter if the anxiety is not being displayed externally, it's being felt internally.

That's how I see it. Even if things work out or don't work out or stay the same, you'll want to feel less anxiety in your coming relationships, no?

Good luck regardless. :)

The only woman who will love an anxious man is an equally anxious woman.

Everybody else will smell it from a mile away because you smell it yourself within your own self.

You can do this. You can live easier.

Fatal Frame series!!

DMC3
Burnout 3: Takedown
Need for Speed Hot Pursuit 2
God Of War 1+2
Jak and Daxter Precursor Legacy
Manhunt
Max Payne 1+2
Onimusha 1, 2, 3
Resident Evil 4
Silent Hill 2,3,4
Deus Ex: The Conspiracy
Timesplitters

Just a few.

Bernard Sanders

ryudo500 posted...

are you calling this current one over then : /

Even the longest marriage ended. It was 80 plus years. ;)

I don't want to answer your actual question because it's not going to help forward your life. You can do this!

I see only two options. And they're both long-term.

1. Find a partner who's as anxious as you. It'll be a codependent relationship, but the two styles will (kind of) counterbalance themselves in a dysfunctional way. It can work honestly...but the anxiety will still be there for both parties.

2. Try therapy like your friends say.

You'll certainly want to be better for your next partner. Your therapist will quickly teach you that it's not necessarily the state of the relationship that you want to change/control constantly, rather the state of your own mind.

Have you fought any Leos?

"I'm looking for someone to both spend my time with and spend my hard-earned money with."

2nd date probability?

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An anxious style attachment is an insecure attachment and is usually only tolerated by another person who has an anxious style attachment.

Attachment style psychology is wonderful and should be studied by everyone.

I'm trying to recall what peak CE looked like in the mid-late 2000s.

Nice

Developed by Capcom's B team, I'd score it a decent 77.

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After having kissed the first time, do you immediately kiss upon greeting each other on the subsequent date? In your experience.

It's truly is a good game, though.

"I just can't stand it! There's no need for story telling in a video game. It's not like I'm reading a book or watching a movie or something hehe."

What happens next?

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Im expecting a PS6 Bloodborne release with 60 fps.

Expect the unexpected.

Bludborn

A little over an hour left. Not bad. Definitely a different energy than previous titles.

Fallout 4 is a good game. The DLC is even sweeter.

"I know a place you can put some ;)"

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The first game of all these series.

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"From the great combat, to the thrilling story, to the RPG elements, the engaging dialogue, its colorful NPCs... It's just the perfect Fallout game!"

Will there be a third date?