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I see only two options. And they're both long-term.

1. Find a partner who's as anxious as you. It'll be a codependent relationship, but the two styles will (kind of) counterbalance themselves in a dysfunctional way. It can work honestly...but the anxiety will still be there for both parties.

2. Try therapy like your friends say.

You'll certainly want to be better for your next partner. Your therapist will quickly teach you that it's not necessarily the state of the relationship that you want to change/control constantly, rather the state of your own mind.