Also, atheism tends to seem antagonistic because they fly the banner of "reason," as if nobody who has ever been religious hasn't been a reasonable person. It also doesn't help that they try to paint religion as a natural enemy of reason and science, even when they don't have to be mutually exclusive.
I don't know how you can claim that religion doesn't take science as is as an enemy though. Or rather, I don't see how you can acknowledge that the discoveries of science (and this is very important here, NOT SCIENCE ITSELF) contradicts Abrahamic religions at the very least and I don't see how anyone can hold religious beliefs, know about what science has discovered and still maintain they are consistently being "reasonable" in that domain. They can be reasonable in OTHER domains of their life, such as relationships, finance and health, but to claim they are reasonable about their religious beliefs would be... impossible.
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