LogFAQs > #983439582

Moving abroad, you find out who your friends are.

Some people will make the effort when you come back to visit (or even visit you in your new home). Others cant be fucked, and thats okay. It sends a clear message though.

Last time I went back home to the UK, I spent time in Bristol, Edinburgh and Southampton, because thats where the highest concentrations of my friends were. I let everybody know in advance where I would be and when and then set up events in the various places and invited people to them.

One guy, who used to live in Bristol, got really arsey with me for not going to visit him in Bath (a short drive away from Bristol. Or train ride) and then got really offended when he finally offered to come to Bristol two days after Id have left for Edinburgh. Id travelled nearly 6,000 miles and he couldnt be bothered to travel less than 15, which I only had a problem with because then he was making out like I was the one being unreasonable. Havent spoken to him since and don't expect to.