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I dropped our friendship immediately. Was I wrong?

For context, we work together and we've argued sometimes during work, because we work in a close quarters place and he's a cook and I'm a server(a forbidden relationship, right? haha) anyway, it's New Years and we're all having trouble and no matter what, we've never made insults at one another. We've argued and we were able to see beyond that and realize it was just stuff that was said out of anger.

He said we were out of small plates and he was being angry about it and I understood he was under pressure so I tried to keep my best tone and I told him I had his plates, they're coming. Then he told me not to interrupt him and then I dont' remember too much else except when he ended his statement with "Don't interrupt me, you freak" and maybe that's a trigger word I didn't realize had meaning but I've been called insults by people I knew, but my best friend? That really hurt.

I, annoyed, said I was going to write a statement for that, and I don't plan to and he probably didn't hear me but I had to storm off for a second. My boss told me to calm down because she knows I have anger issues but I didn't get angry, she was just trying to keep me from blowing up and I just nodded. I immediately blocked him from social media and haven't seen him since our last shift together. He asked a shared friend of ours that if I deleted him because I called him a freak and she didn't answer and he got upset with her.

I feel like, I possibly overreacted but I don't feel sorry about it. I guess I sorta want validation but I'm mostly using this as a rant because we've always had our issues, but never like this. I'm more open about myself, about my feelings, and he's very closed off but we make jokes that we're Batman and Superman(which is funny since his favorite character is Batman and mine is Superman and we're huge comic nerds so it is what it is) but I've done my best to understand him.

It really did hurt though....