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bsp77 posted...

Addition to my above post:

About six months after I met my now wife, and this is about 2.5 years before dating, we were at a picnic with a bunch of friends. I thought she looked really cute with her midriff baring shirt. I told a male friend of mine I should tell her so, and he was like, "no, you can't tell her she looks cute".

I decided to ignore him and I told her she looked super cute in that outfit. It completely made her day, and this is around the time she started to have a crush on me. Compliments are good if you don't seem skeevy.

That's an adorable story. And I agree that genuine compliments go a long way for both men and women.

Years ago, I completed this guy at my office and it made him so happy. He started calling me Denzel after that to try and return the compliment (I do not look as good as Denzel ).

haloiscoolisbak posted...

Thanks! That's tip of the iceberg for my dating app horror stories, as at the end of the day, I guess when you never met there's a limit to how attached you could be. Still a kick in the pants though!

I hope you don't let all of that get you down though. It sucked when women would reject me after I thought the dates were going well. And in the moment it was really hard to see the upside. But great women are out there and you'll miss them if you stop looking.