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Topic	Ever feel like a failure you never got married and in your 40s?
TuxedoCyan 01/28/25 2:23:52 PM #90:	HBOSS posted... Sometimes i do feel bad about myself about not being married but i am good with it as i have come to terms on how picky i am, a double edged sword. In my 30s friends were saying how lucky i am for not dealing with custody battles for unmarried couples, bad relationships, and the divorce process. It was a bitter ending to all that but they all looked forward to new beginnings... I am picky on my companionship. I dont know why but everybody i am attracted to seem to be screaming red flags when i get to know them a lil bit more. Like who are these people just going around using others lol. The same is likely said about me lol the trouble just aint worth the heart break heartache and mental health. I feel like i need to spare myself from all that but it made me fragile and sensitive to all that stuff at the same time. Why do hearts need to be broken and mended? Why am i like this lol That is how I feel. I have really unrealistic standards for the type of girl I want to be with, that there is no way I'll ever find that person even if I did fix my life first and get to the point that I was ready for a relationship. No mount of people telling me I need to lower my standards is going to help. I'm very stubborn. It's a "If I can't get what I want, I don't want anything at all." kind of deal for me. It's just easier to be forever alone. --- Like it or leave it. Hey, where are you going? <cite>TuxedoCyan posted [p:983841816] in Ever feel ... [t:80925276]...</cite> <quote>HBOSS posted...</cite><quote>Sometimes i do feel bad about myself about not being married but i am good with it as i have come to terms on how picky i am, a double edged sword.In my 30s friends were saying how lucky i am for not dealing with custody battles for unmarried couples, bad relationships, and the divorce process. It was a bitter ending to all that but they all looked forward to new beginnings...I am picky on my companionship. I dont know why but everybody i am attracted to seem to be screaming red flags when i get to know them a lil bit more. Like who are these people just going around using others lol. The same is likely said about me lol the trouble just aint worth the heart break heartache and mental health. I feel like i need to spare myself from all that but it made me fragile and sensitive to all that stuff at the same time.Why do hearts need to be broken and mended? Why am i like this lol</quote>That is how I feel. I have really unrealistic standards for the type of girl I want to be with, that there is no way I'll ever find that person even if I did fix my life first and get to the point that I was ready for a relationship. No mount of people telling me I need to lower my standards is going to help. I'm very stubborn. It's a "If I can't get what I want, I don't want anything at all." kind of deal for me. It's just easier to be forever alone. --- Like it or leave it. Hey, where are you going?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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