TuxedoCyan posted... Try focusing on other things that make you happy instead of focusing on something that you either can't obtain or have too much trouble obtaining.
And I say this as someone that would really really like to be in a relationship. (I feel like my libido is that of a 20 year old.) I know very well that 99% of adult women out there would not tolerate my current lifestyle and I don't want to just get laid or have a one night stand. So I just have to focus on myself instead. I exercise daily and play video games and watch tv. That's what I enjoy doing and I'm just going to stick to it until I am forced to change.
I hate the fact that I'm getting older and are missing out on a potential youthful relationship. I don't want to be in my first relationship at age 60+ (I already feel like 40+ is too late). But at the same time, I don't care enough to do anything about it. *shrug*
We just have to accept the fact that not everyone has someone out there for them. Sometimes life sucks. Play the hand your are dealt.
Only quoting this as it's your most recent message. Be honest and say you are trying to improve yourself. You'll find girls who dig that. Women aren't a monolith. Chat online first, since you seem so shy.