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banananor posted...

The annoying thing is that- supposedly- you're not supposed to confront the abused partner about their bad relationship, you're just supposed to be quietly open to helping them once they realize they need to change. Otherwise they dig in their heels, or something.

Anyway this is the frustrating thing. Because people say do this, but this doesn't always work. Instead you've basically made a lifelong abusive relationship, created 2 kids with a childhood(A bit of adult life) of trauma and abuse that struggle with the real world, and still don't have any solution to actually fix any of it.

Also update, my aunt returned home and went to her house(Where she still is and has been paying for all of the bills) with her husband, leaving my little cousin in the apartment to herself. Meanwhile my little cousin picked up some sort of tonsil infection and doesn't really know how to handle it on her own(Someone took her to an urgent care, but she didn't even know where her nearest urgent care was for her insurance, so it was a bit of an ordeal).