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Topic	Your reaction: Your teenage daughter is outed to you as a lesbian.
UnfairRepresent 07/17/17 2:42:21 PM #46:	Asherlee10 posted... UnfairRepresent posted... Vertania posted... UnfairRepresent posted... i don't think you know what outed means It means they're trying to hide being gay/lesbian, but somebody announces it before they're ready to "come out." I'm saying my daughter should have no reason to ever try hiding it. "I told her I wouldn't mind therefore there is no reason she wouldn't tell me!" You'd be in for one hell of a rude awakening if you ever had a kid. It is possible for it to go that way. I was raised by my grandparents and never really had to "come out" because it wasn't a big deal to them. They are non-religious and open-minded people. And that's grand but it's anecdotal. Regardless of what people might say, some people fear how they would actually react to truth. A lot of others fear how everyone else would react, even if some loved ones are openly cool. In this case it could be schoolmates or Franciszka's family. And most importantly, a lot of people just like keeping secrets and hiding themselves from others. The logic of "If I tell my kid I don't care, they'll be fully honest with me about everything." is going to lead to some big disappointments wen odds are they are lying and hiding things to you constantly. --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:883084718] in Your react... [t:75568142]...</cite> <quote><cite>Asherlee10 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>UnfairRepresent posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Vertania posted...</cite> <quote><cite>UnfairRepresent posted...</cite> <quote>i don't think you know what outed means</quote> It means they're trying to hide being gay/lesbian, but somebody announces it before they're ready to "come out." I'm saying my daughter should have no reason to ever try hiding it.</quote> "I told her I wouldn't mind therefore there is no reason she wouldn't tell me!" You'd be in for one hell of a rude awakening if you ever had a kid.</quote> It is possible for it to go that way. I was raised by my grandparents and never really had to "come out" because it wasn't a big deal to them. They are non-religious and open-minded people.</quote> And that's grand but it's anecdotal. Regardless of what people might say, some people fear how they would actually react to truth. A lot of others fear how everyone else would react, even if some loved ones are openly cool. In this case it could be schoolmates or Franciszka's family. And most importantly, a lot of people just like keeping secrets and hiding themselves from others. The logic of "If I tell my kid I don't care, they'll be fully honest with me about everything." is going to lead to some big disappointments wen odds are they are lying and hiding things to you constantly. --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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