Current Events > Your reaction: Your teenage daughter is outed to you as a lesbian.

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UnfairRepresent
07/15/17 1:27:08 PM
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You're at home one evening after work when suddenly you get a phone call from the Polish father of one of your 16 year old daughter's school friends who says "Hello [Surname]." and you hear faint female voices in the background telling him to stop and "don't tell him"

He ignores them and says "I'm sorry to tell you this but you might need to come over here as unfortunately I have just found your daughter on my bed with my precious Franciszka doing things our lord Jesus would not approve of."

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How would you react?
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ollie89
07/15/17 1:27:56 PM
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I tell him that my daughter is beautiful just the way she is and that Jesus is fake.
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Vyrulisse
07/15/17 1:28:01 PM
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I will be upset. Not at her, but at the fact that someone chose to out her rather than let her do it herself.
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Ivynn
07/15/17 1:28:18 PM
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Why did you stop including a big black British friend named Wesley in these scenarios
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TheFireRises
07/15/17 1:28:19 PM
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Confused as to why I'm not smashing his Polish wife...
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UnfairRepresent
07/15/17 1:28:51 PM
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Vyrulisse posted...
I will be upset. Not at her, but at the fact that someone chose to out her rather than let her do it herself.

So roles reversed, you walk in on them in your home, you would not tell her parents?
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TheFireRises
07/15/17 1:29:22 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Vyrulisse posted...
I will be upset. Not at her, but at the fact that someone chose to out her rather than let her do it herself.

So roles reversed, you walk in on them in your home, you would not tell her parents?

I know exactly what Vy would do, tbh.
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Strider102
07/15/17 1:30:10 PM
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Tell him cool story and hang up the phone.
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PolishCockatiel
07/15/17 1:30:14 PM
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I would tell him that what our Polish daughters choose to do to each other, with consent, is their business and that it is likely just a phase of them being young and exploring each others' bodies. I later ask my Polish daughter if she will still give me grandchildren.
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Duncanwii
07/15/17 1:33:11 PM
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PolishCockatiel posted...
I would tell him that what our Polish daughters choose to do to each other, with consent, is their business and that it is likely just a phase of them being young and exploring each others' bodies. I later ask my Polish daughter if she will still give me grandchildren.

And if she's truly a lesbian and has no interest in heterosexual intercourse?

As for me, Id love her just the way she is.
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Vyrulisse
07/15/17 1:33:41 PM
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TheFireRises posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
Vyrulisse posted...
I will be upset. Not at her, but at the fact that someone chose to out her rather than let her do it herself.

So roles reversed, you walk in on them in your home, you would not tell her parents?

I know exactly what Vy would do, tbh.

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Returning_CEmen
07/15/17 1:34:40 PM
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I would be fine with it. Less chance of her getting pregnant tbh.
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Pogo_Marimo
07/15/17 1:36:44 PM
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I would bitch the guy out over the phone for making such a call with such implications. Then, me and our big black family friend Wesley (Who was playing billiards with me) would drive over to their place and pick up our daughter in uniform solidarity with her.

On the drive home I would fist bump her for getting with a hot polish chick.
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Kaname_Madoka
07/15/17 1:37:14 PM
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I wouldn't care, but I would let her know the girl's dad is a rat



Ivynn posted...
Why did you stop including a big black British friend named Wesley in these scenarios

this.
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07/15/17 1:41:24 PM
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itachi15243
07/15/17 1:41:33 PM
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I'd probably say a few things to him that I'd get modded for, go there, and hope he picks a fight so beat his ass for saying such stupid shit about my daughter.

Then I'd bring her home and tell her it's fine and to ignore people like him.
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UnfairRepresent
07/15/17 1:52:41 PM
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itachi15243 posted...
I'd probably say a few things to him that I'd get modded for, go there, and hope he picks a fight so beat his ass

You have issues
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UnfairRepresent
07/15/17 6:34:18 PM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
I would be fine with it. Less chance of her getting pregnant tbh.

You don't want Grandkids?
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UnfairRepresent
07/16/17 9:20:59 AM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
I would be fine with it. Less chance of her getting pregnant tbh.

You don't want grandkids?
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Puglia77
07/16/17 9:33:19 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Vyrulisse posted...
I will be upset. Not at her, but at the fact that someone chose to out her rather than let her do it herself.

So roles reversed, you walk in on them in your home, you would not tell her parents?

No because I'm not a bitch
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StarReaper13
07/16/17 10:57:08 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Returning_CEmen posted...
I would be fine with it. Less chance of her getting pregnant tbh.

You don't want grandkids?

Why would I have one kid? Anyway, gay people can still have kids.
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CmndrHurricane
07/16/17 1:18:13 PM
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she's dating a polish person?!
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UnfairRepresent
07/16/17 1:28:05 PM
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CmndrHurricane posted...
she's dating a polish person?!

Yeah so?
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JE19426
07/16/17 1:35:08 PM
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I'd go pick her up.

UnfairRepresent posted...
So roles reversed, you walk in on them in your home, you would not tell her parents?


I wouldn't.
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DarthAragorn
07/16/17 1:35:56 PM
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thats cool man
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Black_Arch
07/16/17 1:36:45 PM
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Have sex with my lesbian daughter, duh.
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Funkydog
07/16/17 1:41:48 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
So roles reversed, you walk in on them in your home, you would not tell her parents?

I wouldn't, nope.

Just tell them to practise safe sex and leave em too it.
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Duncanwii
07/16/17 6:15:20 PM
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I ask to join them and get kicked out of the room.
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hollow_shrine
07/17/17 10:20:26 AM
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Your daughter being in a relationship with another girl is less messy than the girlfriend's homophobic parents. If you enable them you can bet there will be drama from her parents and that can get ugly. At the same time, their daughter is stuck dealing with their shit and that can't be good for her. And since her parents are too busy condemning her, we could provide some sorely needed support, while they (hopefully) work things out.

So I'd offer my home for social gatherings, under the condition they stay in the living room, dining room, or kitchen until they are of age, obey the curfew, and keep those grades stay up.
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DiesMortis
07/17/17 10:22:15 AM
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"Is this a joke?"
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NibeIungsnarf
07/17/17 10:23:11 AM
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"At least she won't be dating Unfair"
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ChromaticAngel
07/17/17 10:25:59 AM
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I want to know if my daughter has good taste in women or not.

otherwise don't care.
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Vertania
07/17/17 10:28:10 AM
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She wouldn't have to be outed. We're going to raise her to understand that being gay/lesbian isn't anything to be ashamed of, so she wouldn't have a reason to hide it.
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WafflehouseJK
07/17/17 10:28:11 AM
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NibeIungsnarf posted...
"At least she won't be dating Unfair"

I doubt anyone would, lesbian or not tbh.
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Zombified_Toast
07/17/17 10:57:25 AM
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Vyrulisse posted...
TheFireRises posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
Vyrulisse posted...
I will be upset. Not at her, but at the fact that someone chose to out her rather than let her do it herself.

So roles reversed, you walk in on them in your home, you would not tell her parents?

I know exactly what Vy would do, tbh.

5fRRPSY

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UnfairRepresent
07/17/17 1:53:45 PM
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Vertania posted...
She wouldn't have to be outed. We're going to raise her to understand that being gay/lesbian isn't anything to be ashamed of, so she wouldn't have a reason to hide it.

i don't think you know what outed means
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ImTheMacheteGuy
07/17/17 1:57:31 PM
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ollie89 posted...
I tell him that my daughter is beautiful just the way she is and that Jesus is fake.

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Turbam
07/17/17 1:59:23 PM
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I'd go beat his Polish ass
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Kanaya413
07/17/17 2:27:45 PM
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Vyrulisse posted...
I will be upset. Not at her, but at the fact that someone chose to out her rather than let her do it herself.

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Vertania
07/17/17 2:29:44 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
i don't think you know what outed means

It means they're trying to hide being gay/lesbian, but somebody announces it before they're ready to "come out."

I'm saying my daughter should have no reason to ever try hiding it.
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UnfairRepresent
07/17/17 2:34:42 PM
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Vertania posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
i don't think you know what outed means

It means they're trying to hide being gay/lesbian, but somebody announces it before they're ready to "come out."

I'm saying my daughter should have no reason to ever try hiding it.

"I told her I wouldn't mind therefore there is no reason she wouldn't tell me!"

You'd be in for one hell of a rude awakening if you ever had a kid.
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UnfairRepresent
07/17/17 2:42:21 PM
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Asherlee10 posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
Vertania posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
i don't think you know what outed means

It means they're trying to hide being gay/lesbian, but somebody announces it before they're ready to "come out."

I'm saying my daughter should have no reason to ever try hiding it.

"I told her I wouldn't mind therefore there is no reason she wouldn't tell me!"

You'd be in for one hell of a rude awakening if you ever had a kid.


It is possible for it to go that way. I was raised by my grandparents and never really had to "come out" because it wasn't a big deal to them. They are non-religious and open-minded people.

And that's grand but it's anecdotal.

Regardless of what people might say, some people fear how they would actually react to truth.

A lot of others fear how everyone else would react, even if some loved ones are openly cool. In this case it could be schoolmates or Franciszka's family.

And most importantly, a lot of people just like keeping secrets and hiding themselves from others.

The logic of "If I tell my kid I don't care, they'll be fully honest with me about everything." is going to lead to some big disappointments wen odds are they are lying and hiding things to you constantly.
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UnfairRepresent
07/17/17 2:47:32 PM
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Not really, "She has no reason to hide it because I say so she won't." isn't a strong point in my mind.
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Panthera
07/17/17 2:54:46 PM
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I'd tell the guy I'd be there to pick her up as soon as I could, but before I went over there I'd be sure to wear my most Satanic outfit to ensure he knows what I think of our Lord Jesus. I don't really have a Satanic outfit but I don't have a 16 year old lesbian daughter either so for the purposes of this hypothetical I'm sure we can accept me having a really blasphemous pair of shoes or something.
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