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I believe it is not, hence me not having kids once I hit 40 (even though I have always wanted to be a dad, just not a dead dad).

I'm ok with possibly meeting someone who has kids already, especially if they are a bit older (9 or more), since i would just be adding to their lives.

I believe (strongly) that if you have children it is your responsibility to make their life as happy/good as possible and to be there for them until they are adults (not just 18) and ready/able to take care of themselves. Having kids and not taking responsibility for them is cruel and depending on their life can basically be torturing someone, forcing them to live in a world with nobody that cares for them and possibly suffering most of their lives (ending up in jail etc).

You have the ability to have sex without having kids, if you do have a child and then abandon them, that is pretty horrible.