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gamepimp12 posted...

no I literally said I was buying tickets and that the show is ____ day. She didnt say she felt I was scheduling out her day for her untill after I bought the tickets.

i was literally as direct as I possibly could be. She has a very childish habit where instead of saying no, or giving me any bad news she intentionally says nothing, factor that in with the fact she is a very busy woman with a lot going on.

it was always easier to buy the tickets now and figure it out latter, which is what I was prepared to do.

Was she trying to figure out if she could get a day off in those 5 days between and then couldn't?

Anyway, with one side, Id probably never make a definitely assumption. But you're the one here giving your side, so it's not like I can reason with her or try to understand her side.

My thing just for my own sake is to try to not pass off blame and just work on fixing my end, because it's way easier than trying to change someone else. And if I feel I have to compromise too much to make that happen, I obviously shouldn't be with them. Don't stay in a relationship where spite is growing because neither can compromise.

Most people I explain my side to and compromise with usually end up being super cool with me back. I think regardless of what side of the relationship and regardless of if it's true or not, both people are gonna feel like they're doing more than the other. Cause most people pay more attention to what they do for others than what others do for them. Even if you do pay attention to them in some capacity, you're not in their head and seeing all the smaller battles they give up. As they are also not seeing the little battles you give up. So these smaller battles we can only see when we give up, make us feel like we're doing more overall.

I dunno man. Your relationship sounds annoying. But I have very little insight.