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Jeff_AKA_Snoopy posted...

I think the slow process of all this happening and my wife being able to choose how she leaves this life will make a difference. I know this is what she wants, how she wants it, and is in the frame of mind to make those decisions. From the sounds of it you literally get the same meds you get if you are going under for surgery, and then when you are under the gas you get meds to stop your heart. Literally you just go to sleep and that is it.

I say all those before it happens. I could very easily see myself just being a wreck.

Mad respect for both of you, your strength and her will to preserve her dignity trough all this. Can't lie, i never experienced something like this nor even pretend to understand, But i have saw and experience close family wasting away from disease and then very recently a stroke that left the person barely concious.

All the best wishes in the process and aftermath.