LogFAQs > #971297610

I struggle with answering this sort of question because I never really get what people are talking about when they say they are fine with their physical body but don't feel male. Maybe it's because I don't ascribe anything to that other than feeling I'm fine with my genitals?

Like I have had sexual fantasies around being female and being impregnated, I experience sexual attraction to both male and female parts (but I'm also demisexual so I never actually fall for anyone or see them as attractive unless I trust then and find them attractive emotionally first), and I pretty much give zero shits about traditional gender roles. My favorite things are pretty, cute, and positive, like birdsong and brightly colored visuals, and I hate aggressiveness, violence in media, and "toxic masculinity" sort of stuff, but none of that has any tie to my gender to me.

So I don't really get why I would care about what "gender identity" I have when it doesn't really mean anything to me other than to describe how I feel about my physical body. Can you describe what it means to you?