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Topic	Why do people dislike talking about kids/marriage on a first date?
cuttin_in_farm 02/17/23 9:00:25 PM #41:	PlantBased posted... You only feel that way because you know that having kids is foundational to your idea of a viable relationship. That's the only way that something can simultaneously be so important that it must be discussed ASAP before the relationship can even begin and just lighthearted, casual conversation. You're not wrong for that, those are your priorities, but going back to the topic in general, not everyone feels that way. Thats unfortunate if folks feel that way. To me, getting expectations and what people would even want out of dating is important to discuss first. Like, I dont think it should be treated so seriously. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:971640178] in Why do peo... [t:80351674]...</cite> <quote>PlantBased posted... </cite><quote>You only feel that way because you know that having kids is foundational to your idea of a viable relationship. That's the only way that something can simultaneously be so important that it must be discussed ASAP before the relationship can even begin and just lighthearted, casual conversation. You're not wrong for that, those are your priorities, but going back to the topic in general, not everyone feels that way.</quote>Thats unfortunate if folks feel that way. To me, getting expectations and what people would even want out of dating is important to discuss first. Like, I dont think it should be treated so seriously. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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