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To me, having a family is just an organic answer to what do you want to do in your life?. Which some variant of that should be asked on a first date.

Its no different to someone stating they want to travel, or are very devout in a religion. To me, its a fundamental thing to know about a potential partner. To me.

Like, chemistry can be determined by discussion. And often times, you cant accurately gauge chemistry without time.

Discovering what people want and why they even want to date is something you can immediately discern by asking about it. So why not? What makes someones job or what they do on weekends more important? And if not, what specifically are you discussing?

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I can immediately know if someone is a bad match by clarifying what our wants and expectations are. If someone is super religious, and Im not. Id wanna know that early so that I can not continue. Because wed be incompatible.

What I dont want is to date someone, potentially like them and feel we vibe well, and then discover a very large expectation like children differences come up. People would be prone to back down on their own life standards if its someone they emotionally are attached to. Or they may have to end a relationship they enjoyed for it.

I want to clarify dealbreakers as soon as possible to avoid that for both parties.