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Vayu_The_End posted...

Then the last part of your post is completely irrelevant.
As for the rest of it, you seem to be downplaying the effects of staying in a toxic relationship has on the kids, opting instead to focus exclusively on the short-term effects of a divorce.

I'm not downplaying anything of the sort.

Advice of "divorce his ass and move on" is about as shallow as telling someone with no money to get a better paying job. There's a lot more to it than that even if that is the answer. That's the real advice she needs and none of us here are able to provide it.

Not sure why you're taking it personally. You're not saying anything deep or mind-blowing.