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Vayu_The_End posted...

You seem to be betraying some biases here, bro. I am fairly confident that it would be universal condemnation of the partner if you swapped the genders. Because a lot of people have internalized the normalization of guys cheating as some "solvable" problem", while gals cheating is treated much differently. The onus is on the woman to fix the reason why their partner cheated on them, but no such luck if a wife cheats on a husband.

I'm not even saying this is intentional on your part, it's just shitty that people have internalized this.
Don't cheat on your partners multiple times. Don't only talk about wanting therapy after getting caught. Don't stay in a relationship like that, it won't turn out good for the kids long term even if that is your fear. This is basic bitch advice most people would give you.

My advice is unchanged regardless of the gender that cheated. Maybe you'd be unchanged too, but given how incel this board leans I have doubts that every single one of you would be consistent here if the genders were reversed.

Nothing about what I have said in this topic would change if the genders were reversed. I haven't said or implied that there is any solvable problem.