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I feel like a number of people in this topic are putting forth the same perspective in a slightly different way, and meaning the same things but arguing with people who are posting with the same intention, but everyone is getting hung up on semantics.

Lets try to boil it down to see if there are any disagreements

1. Allow is the wrong word. You do not control another human being
2. A marriage is built upon healthy communication and an understanding of boundaries
3. If sleeping with other people is a violation of boundaries established by #2, this is a problem
4. Even if it is a problem, you cannot stop another independent human being from doing anything (see #1)
5. Actual reactions to any violation of boundaries and expectations may vary

edit: removing a superfluous negative