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SirChris posted...

Boundaries are for you, not for other people. Emerald's boundary is respected by him not hosting the contest anymore. Now there is no problem. Although now reading the actual reason emerald was modded that is pretty dumb, so that point was undermined a bit. It's not like Emerald is not 'whole' by no longer hosting, kind of seems like a pain in the ass more than anything tbh.

I'm not sure there's no problem.

If Emerald wants to participate he would now have to make the same accommodation to participate as he would have had to make if he were running it.

There's also several other people who now have to make the same accommodation because Ulti is the host.

So instead of it being an Ulti problem which stemmed from the consequences of his own actions. It is now an Emerald plus numerous other people problem. It's arguably a bigger problem now than it was previously.

I'm all for Ulti healing and changing as a person and for what it's worth, to me at least this seems to be the best attempt he has made at it. But part of that involves accepting there are consequences to your prior actions. I think that Emerald should have just allowed someone to submit on Ulti's behalf but he was certainly under no obligation to. And when that didn't happen, Ulti should have accepted the consequences of his actions and graciously stepped away. At the very least he should have recognized that him taking over the hosting was definitely not the right course of action.