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UshiromiyaEva posted...

Chris, I hope you realize I'm saying this without any intent of malice and with complete sympathy to your own personal situation.

But he is such a consistent liar about so much, and has made up so many things about what he's done and his life, so often, so consistently, that there's nothing that could be done to make be think any claim he made to you about a traumatic childhood wasn't something he just made up, and that you've fallen into that same category of people I was talking about in buying into his con.

That is an absolutely horrible assumption to make in general about people, but all things considered it's just too consistently his MO.

If you have actual in real life first hand encounters of Ulti's experience offline, looking into his eyes, this would be a different story, but otherwise.....no.

Do you think I'm being too harsh? I pissed him off one time and so he decided to spend a week going into topics pretending I was a pedophile to get back at me. I cannot be harsh enough.

First off, I saw nothing here to even begin to take offense to or as malice. Just so you know.

Ah, you misunderstand my intent a bit and I understand why. Even Ulti thinks I am defending him here, but my brain is merely attempting to properly categorize him. For me, he has said a lot of very cruel things to me. Talked about my medication taking publicly among other cruel things. He has said cruel things about people I care about that I think are vile. What he did to you was not acceptable and you have every right to think of him what you like.

My brain is a very weird place though, and seeing him thought as this great con man... it just itches me, I guess? It's an itch. Like... no. Ulti is not quite that clever or quite that cunning enough to pull that off. Not when I have been able to get him to behave himself in public consistently with things I know are triggers for him. Ulti I don't think has said so much as a cross word with me in 13+ years because we had a heart to heart and I told him personally I wouldn't put up with any of his shit, but also I understood. Since then many people can attest that I have condemned Ulti when he does wrong, even wanting to ban him from mafia for a year over comments. I don't think I am on Ulti's side here even if it may appear like it. I am on the side of reality, I guess? Nothng I say excuses a single thing ulti has done, but I have always been a proponent of know your enemy. Ulti is just a broken, traumatized man who has done horrendous shit. The shit can still be horrendous. You can still hate him or dislike him or do whatever it is you like. But thinking Ulti is cunning enough or mentally stable enough to be this evil doer when for me personally observing him for a long time his good behavior has trended up in a linear fashion as he got more medicine and more therapy signals to me my world view is likely more correct based on evidence.

Like I said, this is probably a point no one cares about. But I have learned recently this is my autistic urge for correct information to be said so you know here we are. You're good with me btw, I don't take offense easily and I have never known you to be a malice person.