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_____Cait posted...

Uh

So did you do anything as well? Unless this was abuse or cheating, i think you should also look at yourself i stead of just blaming her. Could be you made some mistakes as well, and if you want it to work, you might need to change something.

I didn't wanna be this guy, but it does sound from the way you talk about her that you're not doing the best things yourself. If she's trying to improve her life and you're being stagnant, why wouldn't she want to leave?

I could be way off but saying she's selfish fot not wanting to be with you, saying she worked on "her not us", letting yourself be rushed into an engagement and a vasectomy. Iunno, I feel like you need to take a look at your own actions.