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SantaRPidgey posted...

what is your move when you are talking to a woman in a brief period of time and you will probably never see her again after that conversation? If there's a better move for that specific scenario I would love to hear it.

Here's how I see it. If you just want a casual hookup then you might as well go for it (I know you said you weren't into casual hookups, but, like, in theory). But if you want a serious relationship then I feel like this is a weird move regardless because when you're just talking to someone for that short an amount of time, they're basically a total stranger -- how can you know you want a relationship with them? At that point I feel like it's a 100% crapshoot whether the person is even someone you'd want to be friends with, let alone in a more serious relationship.

I'm not really criticizing you because if you think you see something and you have just one shot, sure, go for it. I just feel 99% of the time you are going to be wasting your time, and that's assuming she says yes.
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