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Alexandra_Trent posted...

PiOverlord posted...

Alexandra_Trent posted...

Everyone has thoughts, impulses and compulsions. But we do not act on all of them, do we? Exercise self-control and try to think from the perspective of the girl instead if you find it difficult to stop yourself.

Think about her feelings on the matter and the potential awkward situation you'd put her through. Is it worth it? Is it good to put her through that?

Often times, people are too self-absorbed and do not think of the others they'd affect. This is the reason they make all the wrong choices.

I usually don't. I have liked 4 girls before this, and only the 1st one knew that I liked her. That was because I told a friend that I liked her, and he eventually spilled the beans.

Only my 2 closest friends know who girls 1-3 are, and girls 2 and 3 are only known because they were able to take the few hints I gave and find out themselves. I guess I am just tired of keeping all my thoughts to myself. I just want to tell someone, so my mind is not burdened.

I understand. You need someone to confide in. Tell your trusted friend(s). But don't put the burden on her; most especially if it could affect her job. News of you confessing your feelings spread like wildfire and will inevitably affect her. So think on those before making a decision.

yeah, even if you do it in a subtle way, I told a girl my brother was dating once that it was a shame she met him first. she acted all flattered and seemed cool with it but next thing I know my brother is pissed as fuck. and that was literally all I said to her, I didn't hit on her or try to imply that I wanted to come between them.

I was just noting the fact we seemed to get along with each other better than she and him did.
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