I don't get it... something wrong with asking the same question in two places? or am I missing something?
I can't speak for Toto, but what I was reacting to was how PiOverlord said he was planning on asking the girl out despite the awkward circumstances.
I actually found out that she would be fired for dating a resident today (or well, yesterday since midnight has passed).
I was never going to actually ask her out, it was mainly me being stupid. I am just letting my emotions lead my thoughts in all sorts of places.
I know this is going to sound jokey, but I'm being serious when I say that you should instead let your thoughts lead your emotions. Preferably onto some Kleenex. Then move on with your life.
I know this is the only real solution to my problem unfortunately. As much as I wish things could be different, that's life. It will be tough though, especially since I will be around her often.
Just do it once(more?) and then be done with it. Don't allow yourself to hypnox to her a second time. You don't want relying on her for arousal to become a habit.