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emblem boy 01/11/18 11:50:01 AM #35:	InYourWalls1 posted... TheGoldenEel posted... it's weird because i think for her it's just the way she's always wanted us to be (truly "friend-zoned") but for me i just don't get why this person who wants to spend all this time with me still doesn't want to be dating :/ Sometimes you can get along great with someone and want to spend time with them, but you just don't have romantic feelings for them. I've been like that with girlfriends and tried to de-escalate it to a friendship, because while they could be great people and attractive and everything, it can take a different kind of compatibility to be a great friend vs a great relationship partner. Not that the two necessarily have to be mutually exclusive What's the difference in those 2 things? JustMyOpinion posted... emblem boy posted... My gf hasn't finished college cause she just fucked up when she was younger. But she's started back up. So she was telling me how much in loans she has, 44k. I was like, wtf. Shit like that worries me. This is something I should be thinking about correct? Cause now when she mentions she wants to go on a trip, in my head I'm like"you don't got traveling money" What's her degree/job prospects? $44k isn't too bad. That's probably less than $500 a month...but for like ten years. She's looking to work in the administration/business side of healthcare industry or something. I want to talk about it with her, but what good would that even do. It doesn't change anything --- Posted with GameRaven 3.3 <cite>emblem boy posted [p:893834946] in Tinder/Okc... [t:76178875]...</cite> <quote><cite>InYourWalls1 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote> it's weird because i think for her it's just the way she's always wanted us to be (truly "friend-zoned") but for me i just don't get why this person who wants to spend all this time with me still doesn't want to be dating :/</quote> Sometimes you can get along great with someone and want to spend time with them, but you just don't have romantic feelings for them. I've been like that with girlfriends and tried to de-escalate it to a friendship, because while they could be great people and attractive and everything, it can take a different kind of compatibility to be a great friend vs a great relationship partner. Not that the two necessarily have to be mutually exclusive</quote> What's the difference in those 2 things? <cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote><cite>emblem boy posted...</cite> <quote> My gf hasn't finished college cause she just fucked up when she was younger. But she's started back up. So she was telling me how much in loans she has, 44k. I was like, wtf. Shit like that worries me. This is something I should be thinking about correct? Cause now when she mentions she wants to go on a trip, in my head I'm like"you don't got traveling money"</quote> What's her degree/job prospects? $44k isn't too bad. That's probably less than $500 a month...but for like ten years.</quote> She's looking to work in the administration/business side of healthcare industry or something. I want to talk about it with her, but what good would that even do. It doesn't change anything --- Posted with GameRaven 3.3</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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