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Was watching a segment on tv about dating and first impressions and all of that. It inspired me to make this topic.

Basically it keeps getting more and more difficult for me to find that special someone because of who I am. I think people would consider me boring and that's completely fine. I don't like going out, I only enjoy socializing at work, I prefer being by myself most of the time, and things like that.

I'm basically living in my own little world I guess. And I absolutely like it this way. I'm not complaining about that.

But it does make it very difficult for me to meet new people. Again, I don't care too much about socializing I guess since I don't enjoy hanging out with people that much outside of work and the few times I have, I've gotten bored within an hour. I have no interest in new hobbies or ways to meet people.

With that in mind, it basically seems like it would be impossible for me to find someone to date. I also don't think many girls would be interested me, but I could be wrong. I'm sure there's someone out there for me. I simply have not met her yet. And I can't picture myself living with a woman because I'm too boring.

I'm not putting myself down or anything. This is just the way I feel and I feel like I'm being realistic.

I am not interested in online dating through websites or apps. I'd rather meet a girl in real life. However, I am open to meeting women I've played online games with. I'm not actively looking for one or anything like that. But I have met a cool friend I play online games with and it would be cool to meet her in person. I prefer having online friends because I can relate with them much more.

Oh and irl I'm pretty laid back, super nice, lots of people at work end up liking me, and I'm considered charismatic, which might sound a little weird because I'm often considered quiet. lol. I don't care if I get friendzoned by women because those are the types of women I wouldn't want to date anyways; women who wouldn't date a guy like me just for being 'too nice.'

I guess that's about it. I was wondering if there's anyone who can relate with me? Oh and just wanted to say that I'm not the kind of person that only wants to date physically attractive women. I like to get to know them and all of that. I've met some great looking women who simply aren't interesting at all to me.

p.s. I'm approaching my 30s and many women in my age group already have kids, divorced, or already in a relationship. I'm no where near ready to start a family.
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