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TopicIt's getting more difficult for me to date because of who I am. (long topic)
Muffinz0rz
02/05/18 4:57:56 PM
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pipebomb_phil posted...
Basically it keeps getting more and more difficult for me to find that special someone because of who I am. I think people would consider me boring and that's completely fine. I don't like going out, I only enjoy socializing at work, I prefer being by myself most of the time, and things like that.

I'm basically living in my own little world I guess. And I absolutely like it this way. I'm not complaining about that.

But it does make it very difficult for me to meet new people. Again, I don't care too much about socializing I guess since I don't enjoy hanging out with people that much outside of work and the few times I have, I've gotten bored within an hour. I have no interest in new hobbies or ways to meet people.

You and I are basically the same person. If given the choice of being home alone playing video games or going out and getting sloshed at a loud bar, I choose home 99/100 times (because once in a blue moon yeah I like going out, but like you, I get bored of it quickly).

That being said,

pipebomb_phil posted...
I am not interested in online dating through websites or apps.

You're going to have to get over this hump at some point. I understand the urge of wanting to meet a lovely lady on a video game (I've been friends with this girl I met on a Maplestory private server for five years, we just met up for the first time last month in Vegas). It's much more liberating talking to people over a game because there is no ulterior motive. But the odds of this ever turning into anything "real" are pretty much zero (one of us would have to move).

I also would like to meet someone in real life, but again, this lifestyle of only work and home does not afford many opportunities to meet women.

I know you're a bit older (I'm 25) but there's nothing wrong with setting your age range to women a bit younger, like maybe 24+. There are young women out there who prefer stability, which it sounds like you have.
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