LogFAQs > #905244699

Listen to this. The love letter and advice starts at about 1:20 and ends at about 5:15

https://www.kiddnation.com/im-not-sure-who-the-father-is/

TLDL - Girl is in relationship with Guy 1. They get into huge fight where he eventually tells her to leave. At this point, according to her, she felt the relationship was over. She ends up that night going to an old fling, Guy 2, and they bang but do use protection. She later finds out that she is pregnant. Apparently the week of conception is the same week that she slept with Guy 2. Guy 2 wants nothing to do with her or the baby. Guy 1 is willing to be there and continue their relationship. Problem is, Guy 1 has no idea that he could potentially not be the father.

The advice given to this person by the radio host was basically to not tell Guy 1 about him not potentially being the father until it's known to be absolutely necessary. Her advice is for the girl to do a secret DNA test once the kid is born so that she can find out for certain. If Guy 1 is the father, no harm no foul and she should never mention it. If Guy 2 is the father, then she should tell both of them. Her reasoning for this approach is that she feels that it doesn't make sense to potentially get Guy 1 angry for no reason if at the end of the day the kid ends up being his, particularly since chances are that it's his given that when the girl banged Guy 2, they used protection. The three other co-hosts, both male and female, agreed 100% with this advice.

Do ya'll think this is acceptable advice for this situation?
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