LogFAQs > #909519486

LurkerFAQs, Active DB, DB1, DB2, DB3, Database 4 ( 07.23.2018-12.31.2018 ), DB5, DB6, DB7, DB8, DB9, DB10, DB11, DB12, Clear

Topic List	Page List: 1
Topic	Is it "controlling" if you want them to stop talking to their exes?
OhhhJa 09/26/18 11:33:06 PM #29:	LinkPizza posted... OhhhJa posted... I dont even talk to my best friends every day so if its daily then that's definitely something I wouldnt put up with It's different for everyone, though. I talk to my best friends everyday. Sometimes, most of the day is spent talking to them. I probably talk to them more than my SO, somedays, tbh... I would say most days I talk to my best friends. It really depends on how busy everyone is and all that. But my point is that it's a little alarming if your SO's closest friend is their ex and they're in contact with them more than any other friends. I think also it's just basic courtesy to keep at least some distance between you and your ex when you have a new SO. Not saying you have to completely cut them from your life but you shouldn't be texting daily. Sometimes you have to either cut people from your life or keep some distance for various reasons and that's one of them. Just my opinion and obviously not everyone feels that way. I just dont date people who dont feel the same <cite>OhhhJa posted [p:909519486] in Is it &quo... [t:77043245]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote><cite>OhhhJa posted...</cite> <quote>I dont even talk to my best friends every day so if its daily then that's definitely something I wouldnt put up with</quote> It's different for everyone, though. I talk to my best friends everyday. Sometimes, most of the day is spent talking to them. I probably talk to them more than my SO, somedays, tbh...</quote> I would say most days I talk to my best friends. It really depends on how busy everyone is and all that. But my point is that it's a little alarming if your SO's closest friend is their ex and they're in contact with them more than any other friends. I think also it's just basic courtesy to keep at least some distance between you and your ex when you have a new SO. Not saying you have to completely cut them from your life but you shouldn't be texting daily. Sometimes you have to either cut people from your life or keep some distance for various reasons and that's one of them. Just my opinion and obviously not everyone feels that way. I just dont date people who dont feel the same</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Topic List	Page List: 1