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Topic	Its crazy how many marriages end up falling apart, whether they divorce or not
DanHarenChamp 10/04/18 10:43:25 AM #9:	Like I've seen it vary from things like, one dude is always going out, leaving his wife and kids at home. Ironically its with his wife's brothers and cousins that he hangs out. Even if he is at home, so often when everyone goes to bed, he'll end up going out with the guys at night. Usually just like local bars are stuff. Like comeon dude, go to bed with your wife like a normal person. Apparently they haven't had sex in months. I mean yes this is coming from the girls perspective but theres no way you can even spin that. Apparently this has been going on for years, and they've had many discussions and fights about it and he'll change for a week then go back to his ways. At one point she cheated on him, but it was only a 1 night stand with a coworker. At least it was just once, but still pretty bad. When I first heard that I was like, wtf she's a ho, I'd definitely divorce her. But then I realized if I was in her shoes, after years of bad marriage and trying to fix it and you get nothing in return, I might be driven in that direction too. But she has thrown out 'divorce' but it somehow keeps going. Its just a matter of time until she gives an ultimatum and follows through with it. I've seen another couple where both people are stubborn, needy, and picky. So they have alot of standoffs. At one point they physically split and the husband stayed at a nearby apartment for a month. I just don't understand how that can happen. They have 2 kids and little love for each other. The most extreme I've seen is this couple that seems all happy on social media but the girl is a known slut in the past, they have a baby together who is no more than 2 years old, but she's been cheating on her husband with her ex. I guess he found out and they still worked things out. I know both of em from undergrad, husband is truly a nice/good guy, was always socially awkward just a bit, but nevertheless he is decent looking, tall, and successful. But I had my doubts on this marriage from the start. They're still going tho. I've heard the exact same statement from all 3 couples, word for word, that they are just "going through the motions" and theres "no love" between them. --- literally the pacers <cite>DanHarenChamp posted [p:909941793] in Its crazy ... [t:77066573]...</cite> <quote>Like I've seen it vary from things like, one dude is always going out, leaving his wife and kids at home. Ironically its with his wife's brothers and cousins that he hangs out. Even if he is at home, so often when everyone goes to bed, he'll end up going out with the guys at night. Usually just like local bars are stuff. Like comeon dude, go to bed with your wife like a normal person. Apparently they haven't had sex in months. I mean yes this is coming from the girls perspective but theres no way you can even spin that. Apparently this has been going on for years, and they've had many discussions and fights about it and he'll change for a week then go back to his ways. At one point she cheated on him, but it was only a 1 night stand with a coworker. At least it was just once, but still pretty bad. When I first heard that I was like, wtf she's a ho, I'd definitely divorce her. But then I realized if I was in her shoes, after years of bad marriage and trying to fix it and you get nothing in return, I might be driven in that direction too. But she has thrown out 'divorce' but it somehow keeps going. Its just a matter of time until she gives an ultimatum and follows through with it. I've seen another couple where both people are stubborn, needy, and picky. So they have alot of standoffs. At one point they physically split and the husband stayed at a nearby apartment for a month. I just don't understand how that can happen. They have 2 kids and little love for each other. The most extreme I've seen is this couple that seems all happy on social media but the girl is a known slut in the past, they have a baby together who is no more than 2 years old, but she's been cheating on her husband with her ex. I guess he found out and they still worked things out. I know both of em from undergrad, husband is truly a nice/good guy, was always socially awkward just a bit, but nevertheless he is decent looking, tall, and successful. But I had my doubts on this marriage from the start. They're still going tho. I've heard the exact same statement from all 3 couples, word for word, that they are just "going through the motions" and theres "no love" between them. --- literally the pacers</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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